Dianbao raised as an observer in the children's game-from dianma's collection

The success of the birth of Qiqi. Because I still work on Saturday, I went to Jiading with Jinniu with dianbao on Sunday.
Great and beautiful! Small and exquisite mouth, rich ears, tall nose beam, and eyes of the future, as well as white skin. It truly combines the advantages of parents. Dianbao apparently liked this sister very much. After reading it again, he begged to hug it again. Taurus told him: "You can only look at it, but you cannot touch it with your hands ." He is also very cooperative, just staring at Qiqi with cool eyes, very gentle. It was just a little strange to the environment at the beginning. Although on the way, I simply told me that I was sure to send my mom and dad to me. When the scene was over, he glared at his little eyes and looked at each other calmly. It is neither human nor shy.
At that time, I cried again. He asked me to go out because I went to the bathroom. He cried a few times because I didn't see my dad. However, it was really a naughty BB. While the odd guy was drinking milk, the little guy drove back and forth several times by himself, which affected the odd guy and sent his mother's rest. However, he was asked to close the door when he went out.
When he went out for dinner, he found 5f in the corridor, and then he said to himself, it was 6f, 7f, 8f ...... The following example shows 4f, 3f, 2f, and 1f. Then let's take a look at it one by one. When I got out of the corridor, I came to the door and said 201. In the past, it was 202,203 ...... At first glance, it was not surprising that their home was in 201. When taking the bus, I asked him to find our 28 and 29 seat numbers, and he was glad to find them. At this stage, dianbao has a crush on numbers. After dinner, I sent my father to help open the anti-theft door. Then I went up with dianbao. When I walked to the door on the fifth floor, 501, dianbao shouted, "here, it is. Send your father's house here ." A few of us laughed. A reference object for a child. The world of children is really an amazing world!
At, I went to the coach station to buy a ticket. Because it was too early, I went to Tesco. As a result, I found a small game house that could be used for his game in Tesco's downstairs dicic (or something else, the anti-correction and KFC are a style.
Taurus helped him out of his shoes, and the little guy ran like a wild horse. The agile dianbao.com is very easy to climb down and drill down. Later, a girl aged 5 or 6 blocked the slide on which dianbao was playing. dianbao was dissatisfied and asked the other party: "You let it go, you let it go !" The result was rejected by the other party. Dianbao watched the slide on the other side and made a trade-off. Then, he did not hesitate to retreat and switched to the other side. Probably, he also knows the truth about "haokan has no eye loss.
After playing for a while, dianbao is obviously not satisfied with the way of playing slide, and then begins to climb from the bottom up. Frankly speaking, I am a little worried when I see that he is indomitable. Because the entire game room, except for a child who is protected by her mother and grandmother, is far less than him ~ 3-year-old baby. However, what surprised me was that when he saw someone moving down, he would immediately let it go and stood far away. When someone else came down, he would continue. It turns out that he has learned how to judge and make sure that he can avoid harm. Surprise. I am glad that I had endured it before and did not blindly stop it.
At the end of the day, a 5-6-year-old boy came. Similar to Dingding. There are a lot of toys in your hand, including dinosaurs, guns, and dinosaur eggs. When he put his toys on the floor, dianbao's attention was obviously attracted. He quickly squatted down, picked up a gun on the floor to see it, touched the dinosaur, and then picked up the dinosaur egg to play with it, and then dropped the dinosaur egg. The big boy was obviously angry and cried: "He grabbed my toys !" Then he slapped his face and put it on dianbao's head. At this time, my stress response came up. My mother protected my child's instinct and asked me to shout, "You cannot beat a child's head ." Who knows that dianbao is not very responsive to him? Just like a dead man, he touched his head and glared at each other without any reason. This kid is not afraid of death. Seeing the two of them deadlocked over there, Taurus took out his shoes and went in, then gently said to dianbao: "Chen yizhe, did you forget to ask for his opinion when you took the children's toys?" Dianbao does not speak. Taurus continued: "If you want to apologize to the children, then shake hands and say yes ." Dianbao simply says "sorry !" Then he stretched out his hand. The big boy's hand stretched out, and the two children clapped their hands. From start to end, Taurus did not mention the concepts of "playing" and "being beaten. Finally, dianbao left the game room happily and waved goodbye to the boy while leaving.
Now let's think about the conflicts between children, especially between boys. It's so normal for boys to grow up. Boys learn to protect themselves in conflicts, and often make friends in conflicts. In the process of children's growth, it is impossible and unnecessary for parents to protect their children. Let the children coordinate and handle their own conflicting environments, learn to consider for others, and learn to protect themselves. As a parent, we will inevitably worry and have concerns. However, we may wish to consider the observer role more or wait for a moment before giving assistance or giving advice, it will certainly have better results!
Note: dianbao liked the game house very much. On his way to the station, he also asked Jinniu: "Dad, can you buy me one and put it in the activity room ?" Taurus told him: "You want to promise your father, Don't be naughty, OK ?" "Good !" "How nice to be a mother, OK ?" "Good !" So we reached an agreement-if we could, Dad would buy a game house to give dianbao a New Year gift!