Do not give to others

As early as 2500 ago, Confucius made an old saying: "Do not do what you want 」. This sentence shows the true meaning of being a person. The so-called "do not do what you want, do not apply to people" means to push your own hearts to others. If you want to live, you can think of how others want to live. If you don't want others to treat yourself, do not treat others like that.

As early as 2500 ago, Confucius made an old saying: "Do not do what you want 」. This sentence shows the true meaning of being a person. The so-called "do not do what you want, do not apply to people" means to push your own hearts to others. If you want to live, you can think of how others want to live. If you don't want others to treat yourself, do not treat others like that.

As early as 2500 ago, Confucius made an old saying: "Do not do what you want 」. This sentence shows the true meaning of being a person.

The so-called "do not do what you want, do not apply to people" means to push your own hearts to others. If you want to live, you can think of how others want to live. If you don't want others to treat yourself, do not treat others like that. If you want to be able to stand up and access the society, you can also help others to stand up and access the society. In a word, start from your own heart, push others, understand others, and treat others. "Do not do what you want, do not give to others" is simply to give yourself and others. It is similar to what the Chinese people often say: To put your mind in a different place and think about it for others.

Why is it so friendly to others?

The real reason is: What you plant and what you get.

Seeding an action, you will receive a habit; sowing a habit, you will receive a sex; sowing a sex, you will receive a fate; sowing a good behavior, you will receive a good fruit; sow an evil deed, and you will receive an evil result.

You have the right to treat others in a non-public manner, but your unfair attitude will make you "self-defeating 」. Furthermore, the consequences of every thought you release will be reported to you. Because all your actions on others and your thoughts on others are recorded in your subconscious through the principle of self-suggestion, the nature of these behaviors and thoughts will correct your own personality, and your personality is equivalent to a magnetic field, attracting people or situations with the same personality to you.

Specifically, "Do not do what you want, do not apply to people" is civilization. It is not easy for a person to become a civilized person. Because this is a very difficult requirement, our current society is always advocating "spiritual civilization construction 」.

Our country has produced many sages who promote ourselves and let us know. The story of "governance by Dayu" is a lofty example of "do not do what you want, do not apply to people", "Establish Yourself", and "reach your talents. Dayu was just married to a girl from tushanshi when she accepted the water control task. When he thought that someone was drowned, his heart was as painful and uneasy as his loved one was drowned. So he said goodbye to his wife and led 0.27 million to govern the water masses, flood Management is conducted day and night. In the water governance process, Dayu has never been out of the door. After 13 years of hard work, the nine major rivers were cleared, and the flood flow into the sea, eliminating water troubles and achieving great performance of liufang qiangu. Afterwards, the folk songs of Dayu Zhishui were circulating in the people:

In the past 13 years, Dayu has been focusing on solving disasters for the people.

Conduct on-the-spot investigations and work together to listen to your opinions.

If you do not enter your home, you will not be able to waste yourself.

Rivers are dredging water and water, and irrigation farmland is everywhere.

At the time of the Warring States Period, a person named Bai GUI talked to Mencius about the incident. He said with a sigh: "If I come to water control, it will certainly be better than Yu. As long as I clear the river and let the flood flow to neighboring countries, isn't it a lot easier ?」 Mencius bluntly said to him, "You're wrong! If you use neighboring countries as a gathering place, the flood will be rolled back, causing a greater disaster. People with benevolent virtues will not do this .」 This is the origin of the "neighbor-based" idiom.

From the two stories of Dayu water governance and baigui Water Governance, Bai GUI thinks only for himself and not for others. This kind of wrong thought "what you don't want, what you want to do to others, it is inevitable to harm others. Despite the effort and effort required to bring floods into the sea, Dayu water governance not only eliminated the disasters of its own people, but also the disasters of the people in neighboring countries. This spirit of pushing ourselves to others is worthy of our admiration and effectiveness.

This kind of moral feeling of "Give yourself and others" has a wide influence not only in China, but also in the world. It is said that at the headquarters of the International Red Cross Society, there are quotations from Confucius "do not want to do anything, do not apply to others", reflecting the yearning for good interpersonal relationships.

There is a saying in China: "People and everything 」. It is the lubricant for achieving "people and. May all our descendants of the Yellow Emperor always give himself and others, and make the flowers of the splendid civilization of five thousand years more elegant and fragrant. The promotion of this point is of great significance to the whole society, so that we can achieve global harmony and common prosperity through the power of traditional Chinese culture.