Do you really have no time?

Do you really have no time? Do you have the time ?) There are two completely different meanings.

The first meaning is "Do you know what time it is ?" Although this method is not uncommon, what time is it ?) It is rarely used.

The second meaning is "do you have time (to do something ?" This method is common in American English, English, and Australian English.

If I was an editor of excuse me, I think "no time" will become the winner of the "most common excuse" award over the years.

After all, it is no longer convenient to use "no time" as an excuse.

In retrospect, you (and myself) use "no time" to block the reasons why you can't do something, you can't pick up new tasks, you can't help others, and you can't see how often others are. We are getting rid of this excuse. Sometimes it may be true, but sometimes we have to face it as an excuse.

Here, the boundaries between facts and excuses are vague and subjective, but in our hearts we are all very clear about their differences.

In reality, the lack of time seems to be, and is often the legitimate reason we cannot do something. Of course, unless we can reschedule the time as much as possible within the scope of our capabilities, and make some sacrifices in this process.

"I just don't have time." In many cases, it's just a kind of Dodge, avoidance, and escape. When we get to a certain age and are treated as "adults", we are required to have better time management skills.

Many times, "I don't have time" means the same as "I don't want to spend time. Indeed, we are all very busy, but in the end we are still very familiar with the problem, including at work and between work and family, partners and partners, friends and society.

No one can give you time. Time is not the fruit of the tree, nor will it fall from the sky like rain. You can only create time on your own and make decisions on the most closely related issues, that is, the importance of things. The key is the basis for decision-making. The basis may be cool, the opportunity to earn money, the opportunity to play with those who are interested, or a helping hand to those who need it.

If you do not control your own time, the decision is not yours. There are a lot of powerful magnetic fields around us, which will suck our time in an instant just as if we had taken the scrap from the desk. How to balance and manage time really depends on our own decisions, which is a challenge.

There is a saying in English that "take your time" means "Relax, don't worry, follow your own pace". It is quite similar to "coming slowly" in Chinese.

This simple phrase gives me a deep understanding, that is, if you don't take it slowly (don't control the time), others will help you control it. As we often say to our children, "if you want to eat your meal, you should not be eaten by others ."

This is not to say that we need to ignore the time requirements of unexpected emergencies, because this situation will often stimulate our potential and let us do more meaningful things. However, it means that we must have a clear and well-organized approach to priority and time management.

When talking about customer relationships, what is the root cause of customer dissatisfaction is that we are too busy to focus on their needs? This is often the main cause of customer dissatisfaction, and is also part of the cause of customer loss.

When talking about the relationship between friends and family, what is the root cause of sadness? Is it related to a person who is too busy to call, visit, or respond to communication? Simply by imagining and worrying, this feeling can easily turn into resentment, distrust, or even eventually lead to a broken relationship.

That is to say, unless we really care. If you care about it, all you need to do to avoid this kind of "speed bumps", whether in the workplace or in other places, is to focus on priorities and do not get stuck in a rush, so that you can start to ignore what really matters.

One of the common excuses for turning "I Don't Have Time" into an accomplice is that we usually don't speak it out loud, just think about it or do it directly. As a result, the other party does not understand the reason why we ignore it. This will not only breed uncertainty, but also seed the seeds of suspicion and emotional harm.

In this case, whether in the unit or outside, the best correction method is to say "sorry" with courage ". Although this does not solve any problems, it helps to fix the initial cracks and build a platform for further link repair.

Think back to your friends, colleagues, and business partners, they are easily divided into two categories: one is a very small number of people who can always squeeze out time when you need it, the other is that most people do not have time. In the long run, your heart will naturally favor those who are willing to spend time for you.

Everyone must be familiar with the most common excuse in the world, whether it is to say it or hide it in your heart.

Looking back on your life, you will be more impressed with the things that are done only by the time they are done.

 

Do you really have no time?