Don't let yourself be kidnapped by the morals----sing no smell.

01

A few days ago, I added some readers as usual.

One of them, came up to send me a public number card, and asked me and her to push each other.

I turned a few historical news, found that is a marketing number, then replied to her: "This can not push, not suitable." ”

She said: "All friends, do me a favor." ”

Curious, I asked, "How many readers do you have?" ”

She said: "It's almost 100." ”

I said: "This busy I really can not help, you this is the marketing number, it is not good for me." ”

She said: "Well, you cow." I can only say that you did not learn, the others do not want to express. ”

I was in a flash, little Yeu Yue face.

She went on to say: "You are living in your material, living in your self, living in your present, you do not understand love." ”

02

It reminds me of something else.

When I was in college, I went back to school from the city and sat on a crowded bus 244.

I stood with a group of people on the back of my chest, a young boy in front of me, and slept soundly.

Suddenly, a middle-aged man came up and slapped his face and said, "Get up and make a seat." ”

Middle-aged man's tone, extreme indifference, as if to give orders, and then pointed to the next to the grandfather.

The young guy is probably really sleepy, did not respond to him, roll over to sleep.

Middle-aged men continue to shoot young guy's face: "Let you give the old man to sit, this quality is not?" My father is this age, hurriedly start. ”

The young man tried to explain: "I have been in the class all day, dinner has not eaten, I am also very tired." ”

Middle-aged men began to roll the sleeves, ready to come hard, particularly loudly shouted in the car: "Now the young people are really not quality, reading all read the dog belly." ”

03

Previously read a book called "Chinese Temperament", the content of the book is mainly about the Chinese people's mental state since the late Qing Dynasty.

There is a village with an old woman, because there is no heir, poor.

So the old woman goes to others ' house to eat every day, if do not give, ran to the river standing, said to drown oneself.

The villagers had no choice but to relieve her. Until one time, she did not care to really drown.

Since ancient times, moral kidnapping is the inertia of the disadvantaged groups of thinking, but also they have tried the means, because the moral weapons do not have to spend money, not to find relations, but also to seize the commanding heights.

As the poor, anyway, they have no money, they said, you rich people, how not to donate money to do charity.

As to eat melon masses, anyway stereo not Ann in their own door, they say, others aunt Jump Square dance How, the old people rare a little entertainment.

As bad good, anyway bear children scrape not their own car, they say, children do not sensible, you an adult care about something.

Moral behavior should be to let everyone from the bottom of the heart, feel that help others can feel a pleasure, but now basically become a sword, hold in the hands, cut to others.

Imagine doing a good thing, but in the eyes of others are persecuted, who will be sincere to do good things?

04

The formation of morality is a complex problem of human nature.

There is a good side to human nature, there is also a selfish side, morality is in order to limit the selfish side of stimulating the good side.

Human beings are guaranteed to invent morals for the benefit of all, but in turn, all people are bound by morality, which is the alienation of human nature brought by civilization.

"Yes, brother, just give it to me." ”
"You are worthy of who you are." ”
"I'm all for your sake, and don't listen. ”
"Filial piety has three, no one is big, almost the marriage knot." ”
"How do you buy a Japanese car, you know, every Japanese thing you buy will turn into a missile." ”

Moral abduction is a kind of "politically correct" form of expression, and the act of harming others ' interests is the same in the name of Revolution.

When a wrong behavior is put on a moral cloak, it is easy to produce the immeasurable harm, and the perpetrators are still unscrupulous to think they are justified.

05

All along, I like Hu Shi said a passage.

A dirty country, if everyone speaks the rules rather than the morals, will eventually become a people-like normal country, the moral will gradually return.

A clean country, if everyone does not speak the rules but talk about morality, talk about the noble, every day to talk about moral norms, everyone selfless, eventually this country will degenerate into a hypocrite all over the dirty country.

Since Dong Zhongshu put forward "ousting and Confucianism", a large part of Chinese traditional culture has been advocating morality. After the founding of the people cannot be refined, but they can become a moral model.

When we arrived from childhood, we received the education that "you should be a man of integrity and kindness." ”

The most unbearable thing is, a word of a belly with a greasy face of the leader jumped out of the Balabala under the flagpole to say a lot. Against your own, you can not do what the leader said, you are not a qualified middle school students, can not become useful to the community of people.

Once morality is promoted to public morals, people even want to make their own part of the freedom to form a common power, which includes revenge, control of property and so on. People have given up the freedom to hold their guns for safety, even to avoid the freedom to drive.

However, as long as the personal interests involved, many moral emperor began to hold the head shouting, I do not listen to me, I am a baby, not daring to preach the core values of socialism.

The most heinous is that morality can only kidnap those who are good and simple, and for those who are deceitful and cunning simply ineffective.

As the friend Gu Hanshan said, "When I was young, I always longed for integrity and kindness, and then gradually found out that our world is not den or the tiger." Those who preach morality and civilization to us over and over again are the initiator of Zaojian morals and civilization. ”

"How noble people are, how despicable they are." I remember a lot of young people at the beginning of the society, Innocence is not chisel, but in the adult world, gradually polished into a pair of reinflating face, eventually plunged into the world's big stream, become their accomplices. ”

06

It is granary to know honor and disgrace, and to know the manners of the foot.

It seems to me that every person who needs help is more likely to ask for someone in a humble gesture rather than a tone of command.

Only the people who are disturbed by the kindness of this world can understand the great and hard-won.

You know, it's mutual affection to help you, not to help you. It is the trivially condescending of the helper, not the reason why the person who needs it is used for kidnapping.

I will still give seats to the kind old, sensible children, good pregnant women, still have goodwill and trust in the world, and still agree with a point of view--

Morals can only be used to restrain themselves, not to disturb the lives of others.

Don't let yourself be kidnapped by the morals----sing no smell.