[Education] [self-cultivation] "Gates is a showing up for life"-Bill H gates (US)

The English name of this book is showing up for life: Thoughts on the gifts of a lifetime. While the Chinese name of the book is "Gates is trained in this way", there are more gimmicks. This book is a growth story written by Gates's father. It is expected to be read by future generations by outsiders. With the consent of gates, the book is published, it is also published in the people's magazine to make more families harmonious and more parents learn how to educate.
The old Gates has been thinking about how to help and encourage their children to become the ones they most want to be. The worst parent is to create a dream for the child. Only the parent who discovers the child's talent as early as possible and boosts the full development of their talent is the most responsible parent. Our Chinese parents always give their children too much blessing or pressure. And always think that the most important academic achievement. This book is very concise, so it is very empty in some places. However, when talking about the stories of the old Gates and the little gates, they cannot be stopped for a long time. Some unknown stories in it let people know what kind of growth experience gates have.
When Gates was young, he began to develop his thinking ability, not just to endorse and take the exam. I very much respect the decision of my children. Otherwise, how can I avoid parents from my parents when I leave Harvard 2? Since childhood, Mr. Gates has developed some of the habits of Mr. Gates. For example, curiosity, reading habits ...... Old Gates said:" The child is curious about the world. As a parent, keep this curiosity as much as possible to the child's adulthood. ." Old Gates believes that his parents can learn a lot from their children, which is the same as when Picasso became famous and asked reporters about the secret of success:" I learned from children all my life ." "Happy Children have the same family teacher, but unfortunately they have their own families ." I think Gates is lucky to have grown up in a family that attaches importance to education, a country with sound laws, and an exclusive curiosity and curiosity. Gates's success is inevitable.
The experience of Gates is rich and colorful. Frustrated, difficult, sad ...... But after the baptism of World War II, the old Gates have become tenacious. A good attitude fills his life with hope. This helps readers gain insights and gains. The story at the beginning is wonderful: at home, Mr. Gates was called "Trey" by his parents )". Because the name of Mr. Gates is the same as that of old Gates, both of them are called Bill. Few fathers have such unique names. The mother of Mary (Bill Gates) serves philanthropy on the Board of Directors of the United States Charity Association, among which there is also the former president of IBM, John Opel ). It was Mary's introduction that gave the IBM president an idea of Bill Gates and Microsoft. Finally, Microsoft and IBM developed earlier windows. Therefore, Gates' success not only covers the love of his parents, but also the support of his parents.
Mary is a good mother with high intelligence and advocating quality. However, sadly, Mary was found to have breast cancer in. Bill Gates was in danger when he got married to Melinda in 94 years.
At the wedding of Bill Gates, Mary wrote a toast to Gates and Melinda. Based on the wedding oath, the wedding banquet is modified and transferred to the bride through a letter. In this toast, we can see that the United States mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are very harmonious. Below is my favorite article Article :

• Dear Melinda:
  In just a few hours, you will enter the marriage hall. You and I will share the same husband's name! Although Bill and I have been married for 42 years, we are still learning the meaning of marriage.

  "Love, Then cherish"
  Appreciate the advantages of the other party and tolerate the disadvantages of the other party. Remember: you don't need to love him. If you think that some of its shortcomings must be improved (and his mother has not been able to help him correct them in time), remember: Changing a husband is a long way to go and does not always work. Sometimes, adjusting your expectations may be better.

  "Sharing the joys and sorrows"
  Don't expect your life to be calm, pray for courage, and maintain your sense of humor. There is no perfect and harmonious marriage between men and women. A happy marriage requires the joint efforts of both parties, an optimistic and tolerable attitude, and a high degree of personal self-control. But most importantly, the cornerstone of a common life is a firm belief in the marriage life, believe in the permanent and permanent relationship between husband and wife. To live happily together, we need to embrace the "love" mentality.

  "Whether poor or rich"
  This sentence may only have a special meaning for a very small number of people. In fact, each day we are tested to test whether we are humble in our environment. The more you have, the more responsibilities you have. Until your life ends, it is the most appropriate time to determine your value to society. How do you use valuable resources in your life? What special responsibilities have been fulfilled. Will review and reflect on your life, not you alone.

  "Regardless of illness or health"
  As you can see, the past few months have been the time for us to test the vow of "suffering and sharing". This test has also increased the relationship between us and pushed it to a deeper level. The rivers of life are surging and flowing, and there is a rush, or a relief in the 90 s and 18 turns; there is a calm discussion, there are also ups and downs of the whirlpool. However, today I cannot imagine what life would be like if I didn't marry Bill. I wish that from now on, 42 years later, you will have the same wonderful feeling for Bill Gates.

  Mary who loves you
  

Half a year later, Mary went on with the rest of the world. Have such a reasonable mother, have such an amiable father. Family Harmony laid a good foundation for Gates from an early age. When he was a child, Gates became very interested in reading and even reading it during meals. This attitude keeps this sponge absorbing water. When studying computers, Gates secretly ran out every night and ran to a computer in a nearby school library for programming. It is this perseverance that has created the perseverance of the micro-soft building. At Harvard University, Paul told gates when he saw the results of his PC research in a book. Gates immediately dropped out of business. I don't think there are a few people who can do this? In addition, the father's old Gates consent is not something that ordinary people can do. Gates firmly believes that he can do it, and old Gates firmly believes that his children can do it and respect their decisions. A high degree of self-confidence can make their achievements today.
This book also contains stories of gates and sisters, as well as the new partner of gates, the operation of the foundation that Gates founded, and the efforts of the whole family to help South Africa: including AIDS-saving pregnant women (children born after $4 of medication might not be infected with HIV) and malaria (on average, less than 30 seconds in South Africa, one child died of malaria )......
Thanks to Gates for bringing us such an educational book integrating knowledge, thoughts, stories, and so on in his later years. Thanks to Gates for describing the earth from his perspective.

The following is an excerpt from this book.

• No matter what you do, never belittle your children.
• Home is the starting point and terminal of our life and career.
• When we were parents, we basically never received formal training in this area, "Getting Married" and "Raising Children" are the two most challenging and important problems we need to actively face and solve in our life.
• My parents are always proud of being "my children ". They need unreserved love and permanent support.
• The happiness and hard work of raising and nurturing will eventually win the children's respect and admiration for elders.
• Take the initiative to seek pleasure no matter what you do.
• When you are a parent, the parents should be consistent with each other.
• 80% of success should be attributed to positive self-presentation.
• Hard work is required for any truly meaningful ideal in real life.
• It is difficult to implement the "Think Twice" Practice in ancient times, and it often consumes a lot of time in advance. However, if you do not experience such baptism, or learn to think calmly, you cannot be perfect.
• The reliability of wisdom marks an open mind.
• In the face of adversity, although there are significant differences between people, the love of human nature is enough to unite everyone.
• In the face of failure, only by being calm and actively adjusting their mentality can we become more and more brave in adversity and wait for success with a mature mentality.
• Personality is like a tree, and reputation is like a tree shadow.
• The most profound experience of life often comes from the most painful experience.
• To accomplish a major event, you must first gain the trust of others. To be a trustworthy gentleman, you must do everything you can. Integrity means conscience, morality, and maturity.
• Give a rose with a handful of fragrance.
• Treat people with generosity. Human Feelings are repeated and the world is rugged. If you are not far away from the industry, you must take a step back. If you are far away from the industry, make sure that you are able to earn three points.
• Life is either like a storm, or it is calm and cool.
• The most awesome thing in the world is the stars on the head and the moral principles in the heart.
• Childhood curiosity can last for a lifetime.
• If you have a question, the answer must exist somewhere. All you need to do is find it.
• Failure is easy to make people profound, calm, and stable.
• Do not limit your children's dreams. Raising a child should be appropriate.
• The purpose of life is to create surprises.
• Faith is a bright pearl in the journey of life. It can shine in the Sun and in the dark.
• The precious Friendship requires careful irrigation and cultivation, which is vital to the insurance of friendship.
• The Everlasting Friendship requires loyal ministers to sow seeds and use enthusiasm to irrigate the seeds. Often caring will make friendship deeper, from time to time care to make friendship warmer.
• Babies and Young Children will also think, observe, and deduce.
• Openness, tolerance, and caring are bridges to acceptance.
• Actively face and show yourself is the source of everything.