Eight Proverbs from Jews!

On October 14, May 2014, an access scholar from the business and management department of gulian University in Israel and a famous Jewish educator Sivi Wanning came to Beijing for an interview.Eight proverbs of Jews:

 

1. Intelligence is more important than anything else.Almost all the children of the Jewish family should answer this question when they were young: "If one day your house is burned down, what will you escape ?" If the answer is "money and jewelry", the mother will tell the child: "Remember: What you want to take away is neither money nor jewelry, but wisdom. Because Wisdom cannot be taken away by anyone. As long as we live, wisdom will always be with us ."

 

2. If you are with someone, you will become someone.Like many Chinese families, Jewish parents are keen to choose schools for their children. Since children go to kindergarten, they don't have to spend a lot of money to find a school with good environment and quality of teaching for their children. This is because fellow students become children's lifelong friends, career partners, and even spouses. "When you are with someone, you often become someone ."

 

3. You are unique. It helps children establish their self-esteem so that they can identify themselves as unique talents, so that they can pursue all beautiful things and listen to their parents' and teachers' opinions.Every Jewish child knows that he is a unique individual and has nothing to do with birth and economic conditions. In addition, every Jewish child knows what he will do when he is 3 years old. A friend of svey Wanning has three children. When Wanning first saw them, his biggest child was just three years old. Seven years later, when he saw them again, the child's mother told Wanning: "The lawyer" is 10 years old, and the youngest "doctor" is almost 8 years old.

 

4. Learning is repetition.The Jews refer to learning as "repetition". They read, speak, listen, and practice over and over again, and finally keep all the content in mind. The repetitive toughness in learning is essential for every Jewish child. This kind of toughness cannot be born, and it needs to be developed slowly in life.

 

5. Be sure to find out the cause of the failure.Wanning's daughter scored 98 points. He asked her, "Where are the remaining two points ?" This is the same as China's education. Wan Ning said: "This is not the case for education in the United States. It is very good to get 98 points. However, even if the Jewish children living in the United States get 98 points, even if they are not criticized, It is a required course to find out the cause of points loss ."

 

6. Asking questions is the best habit.In Jewish family education, the first value is to let the children be good at asking questions, and ask questions not to ask questions, but to learn and improve by asking questions. This is because a child who is used to asking questions about everything will always bring this good habit. For example, when they grow up as businessmen, they will continue to ask questions: "Is this already the best product? Do we still have room for improvement ?" Without the best, there will always be room for improvement and improvement, so that you will have the fighting spirit and will not slack or be easily defeated.

 

7. Always prepare to adapt to the new environment.Jews attach great importance to the cultivation of children to adapt to the new environment. Therefore, when a child goes to a new environment and country, his enthusiasm and learning are high, and his performance is usually less than enthusiasm, more active people. For example, if you want to come to China, Jewish children must learn Chinese for at least half a year. Even if your parents do not have enough money or have a low level of culture, you must learn Chinese in your own way. Even if I only traveled to China, the Jews knew that they would have to live happily and freely in China in those days.

 

8. Pay will return.Money and return are not a taboo topic for Jews. They believe that "the gentleman loves the way of money ". Jews are the smartest businessmen in the world and earning money is what everyone must learn. Because of this, every child has been instilled with "pay-as-you-go" since childhood ". For example, if a child shares the housework for his/her parents, his/her parents will be paid accordingly. Of course, there is no reward for packing his/her room and washing clothes. As they get older, they can get more valuable compensation based on different types of work. Similarly, an exam score that is superior to the last one will also be rewarded: from "Good Baby" stickers, to a rich dinner or a gift of dreams. When wanning was a child, his academic performance was poor. Only science and history were his courses. In the fifth grade, his father encouraged him to collect ancient coins by learning something that interests him more. His father promised Wanning that if he improved his academic performance and became a good student, he would buy him a collection of ancient coins he wanted to collect, but this goal must include obtaining excellent mathematics and English scores. Wanning has always hated these two subjects and never cared about how poor he was. But to achieve this goal, he must study these subjects well.