Elite Day Lesson 20160815-Big man's bad habit

There is a classification method, cattle can be divided into four: no ability to have temper, no ability to temper, have the ability to have temper, have the ability to have no temper. The highest state is the ability to have no temper . But being humble and having no temper is not conducive to being a big shot. If you want to stand out from your ordinary colleagues and be a big person, you should try to stand out for yourself.

Those who dare to express themselves, dare to ask, dare to break the rules, and do not care about their peers how to look at them, they only care about the top. In order to stand out, people who want to be powerful often use ways that are not popular with their peers, and it's not so important that others like you . Others do not like you, perhaps the price you have to pay in the process of gaining power:

(1) Self-expression, even boast. "Later in the project meeting, a good organization of their views, to rob the speech"

(2) flatter the superior. "I can't do this, I don't want to talk about a lie that I don't like."

(3) to ask for an exception, especially to those who have higher status than you. The best way to ask for help is to have someone give you advice. In fact, if you ask for help, in most cases others are actually willing to help you. "Can you make some unreasonable demands when the leader arranges the task?" 】

(4) Exception, violate the general rules. When asked, even at the expense of breaking the rules.

These people may have ambitious goals, not deliberately breaking the rules to build an image, to show others, or to defy the rules----they just think that these little rules are not worth keeping compared to the big things they do.

Elite Day Lesson 20160815-Big man's bad habit