I presided over the radio's Urban hot-line program has been a long time, every day to answer most of the people are almost complaining: love frustrated to commit suicide of the youth, because of family contradictions find dead to live women, business lost and want to jump the businessman, recently also have some college entrance exam did not test a good score students.
In the face of this very real problem, facing this one by the sad voice of their own unfortunate story of the audience, there are many times, I can't help them sad and sentimental. You were so lucky, you are very rich, you are plain sailing, but, just because you know the angle and put yourself into a situation of pain and sorrow.
An audience asked me: Teacher, why are you always so happy and self-sufficient?
I said that when I was young, I had experienced you at this stage, but one thing completely changed me. It was a weekend morning, and I was just working, because the work was wronged and blamed by the boss. I do not think, it is not my fault, but the responsibility why do I have to bear it? I feel that life is too unfair.
Nearby is the famous hero Mountain, I walk down the mountain, want to follow the steps of the Mountain Hill. But, just on a few steps, I met a young man who was going down the hill. To my surprise, he didn't walk down the hill with his feet, he walked down with his hand. He had no legs, his whole body was gone, he had only one hand! He was moving down a step with his hands and a step.
The road was narrow, and I instinctively gave him the way. Came up to me, he looked up very friendly to me, said: Morning, Big Brother, the weather is really good today. He was young and, from his age, about a few years younger than I was, he called me naturally and politely. I saw a happy look on his face, without the pain and sadness I imagined losing my legs.
I am still there, I have not yet come back from my surprise, the disabled youth has been a step down a step underground to the flat road of the hillside. I saw him walk to the square step-by-step, slowly disappearing in the distance.
At that moment, I suddenly found myself so fortunate, so rich, life is so good and generous to myself. People do not have legs, they even lost the right to walk, but they still live so sunshine, so happy. Their limbs sound, their health, they can hang around, and what can worry about fear?
I was suddenly ashamed of my own inner complaints, frustrated and humiliated by my own little setback.
I return to the unit, roll out the manuscript, seriously write the next topic, "You live in beautiful fairy tales every day," and then summed up the reasons for their mistakes, to correct the way, and then go to the boss bravely admit the mistake.
After the things have been done, I suddenly found myself in front of all the troubles and complaints have vanished, the sky so clear and bright, colleagues are so kind and friendly, the boss is so trusting and tolerant to himself, the world around the light.
That is, from that time, I have never been in a rut, no more complaining, no pain, I always feel that I live in a very fortunate and beautiful world.
I tell my readers and listeners, in fact, like me, I worry about things, compared with other people is really insignificant, there is no big deal, as long as we think about what we have every day, we will find that compared to those who are unfortunate, each of us lives in a beautiful fairy tale.
Every man lives in a beautiful fairy tale.