Understanding:
You have never been defeated. I don't think you have read the star file yet. I have a very detailed view of the star information in it. You can compare it with that. You can also compare your resume.
I. Basic information 2. Experience 3. Personality 4. ability 5. Hobbies 6. Habits
The first forum can be divided into personal and family situations. Personal information includes height, weight, blood type, and address. The family situation refers to the economic situation of her family, the occupation, status, and identity of her parents.
The second Forum can be divided into life experiences and learning experiences.
The third forum is not well understood. You need to learn how to thoroughly understand people's personalities, including how to judge people's personalities in terms of appearance, manners, and dressing.
The rest of the Forum is easy to understand, for example, hobbies and habits. You know what kind of food she loves to eat, what kind of movies she loves to watch, what kind of movies she likes most, what kind of sports she enjoys, and what kind of mantra is, just compare to the star file.
How to get a favor:
You need to know her preferences, such as what you like to play, dancing, singing, or playing games? What games do you like to play?
Do you like watching movies? What movies do you like? What kind of drama is it? Life drama? City drama? Rural drama? What stars do you like?
What clothes do you like? What colors?
Where do you like to play?
This is just an example. It takes some effort. For example, if you invite her to dinner, you have to step on it first. Don't take her to a restaurant. Of course, you want her to pick it up first? You need to find it first.
Take the initiative to charge a girl with a phone bill, and there is no money for three or fifty yuan. She wants to say sorry. You can say that you can invite me to dinner, which also provides a chance for the next appointment.
They can help her buy some bags, which girls like. For example, Daphne is good.
You can buy her breakfast or something like that. If you want to praise her, you can say sweet words to improve your feelings.
Let your or her friends create opportunities for you to "encounter". It is recommended that someone help you follow her path.
Learn to smile. I wonder if you have discovered that some people around you always smile.
Praise is actually an art. No one will praise others. First, you must be good at discovering others' advantages.
Learn to listen, learn to listen to others' outstrings, and be a person who understands others.
Learn etiquette. Basic social etiquette is essential in society.
Do not be a good teacher. Although you are right, a good teacher is a major obstacle to your communication.
Don't be cynical in front of her.
Make yourself more handsome.
Take her as her favorite contact and take her as the center.
Wish you success!
What's important is to treat it with sincerity and sincerity, and to bravely reveal your voice to it, and to show your best side as much as possible in front of her, she must have a deeper understanding of her to know her own, know her best practices, and start with her most intimate girlfriends, let her girlfriends say good words for you, and women's hearts are soft ,,,
Conquer her with your charm, instead of begging! Come on ~~ You can.
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The first thing to pursue a girl is to be honest, and to be honest, you can only suffer from hardships for yourself and her. second, do not be too reluctant. the third is clever. generally, you can't just say that I love you on your first appointment-Meimei will be stunned... different types of girls are used in different ways: 1. silent girl 2. romantic fantasy girl 3. Gentle and considerate girl 4. Lively and cute girl 5. sensitive girl 6. Girls older than yourself 1. This girl is so much more common to friends. it seems tricky. in fact, this kind of girl looks cold and is often enthusiastic. They generally like boys who are more wild. if you are a kind of gentle boy with poor looks and low possibility, you 'd better choose another person. if others' comments on you are cool !,
Then you have a big hope! If you have not been rejected for the first time, do not delay the opportunity! They may start to treat you very poorly. do not be discouraged. be sure to stick to it, or even stick to your face. please watch movies, dance, skate, and go to the study room she often goes. be sure to have more opportunities to express yourself and more (of course, I love you still need to leave it to the end, huh, huh )... for this type of girl, your true feelings are very attractive. this kind of girl usually takes a long time to catch up. if you are about to graduate or leave school now, it seems that you are still not ready to start. to avoid waste... haha. however, after catching up with her hand, she will usually die, and you will feel like you are the happiest person in the world! Haha.
2. If you really like a girl like this, I 'd like to remind you first-you're going to have a bitter taste! This kind of girl seems to have more spiritual pursuits than material, but the opposite is true. romance requires money. if you do not have enough financial resources, I hope you will proceed with careful consideration. because she is fond of flowers, flowers, and chocolate, you can give more gifts to shake her heartstrings. if you want to catch up with this girl, do not be stingy with your small money. in addition to the moon, in addition... (What? I can't remember, // shy) as long as she wants it, you will not hesitate to try to get it. at ordinary times, the rose, snacks, is more detailed to see the spirit... in short, if you want to catch up with such a girl, you must cultivate more abilities to understand the girl's mind. don't forget to bribe the girl's roommates. they will tell you more useful information. however, you have to think more about your own dress. (After catching up with a girl, you can feel at ease, because in her eyes, you are no longer good. haha) There are more romantic places to play with her, such as spring outing, dancing, watching love stories... she will be unable to do without your care. Haha! Although this girl is very expensive for your money, it will also bring you a lot of beautiful fun, as long as you really like, you can still live a happy and happy life.
3. These girls are payment-oriented. once she becomes your GF, she will take care of you, gentle and amiable, and make you feel the warmth and reliability of love. in theory, you will be the most comfortable man to catch up with this girl. first, you need to take care of her. you don't need any material, but a kind of care from the heart. Of course, if you are a romantic person, it is safe to send flowers and gifts on holidays. in the beginning, you can send some friendship-related things. When you think you can express them, you can send roses! If you don't want to make such a picture, you can reveal some information in the usual chat. When the time is ripe, you will suddenly feel so nice to be with you. If she doesn't want to avoid it, then you can say something you want to say. it is best to choose at night: At night, the defense capability is weak. if she begins to dodge, she should never be forced to do so. She can care about it until she is moved. BTW, after several encounters, you can get started. don't think this girl is honest, and it will be safe after you get it. in fact, it depends on the individual. Some girls, once you break up for more than a certain period of time, someone will show her diligence, you must be careful. it is best not to let her leave you for a long time. If not, write a letter and make a phone call.
4. This girl seems to like a lot of people. in addition, BF is often the first in the new environment. it is not because they are chasing well, but because they often need to be active. if she also likes you, then .... <but the most important thing is not to give up>
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1. What is "confession?
As mentioned above, confession is actually a form. The correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, so that you can confess to others. Many people cannot understand this problem. They always think that they promise to be their own girlfriend first and then how to do it. I can only say that he is very "simple" and very "stupid ".
2. Is there a time to force a confession?
Yes, for example, when there is a third party, or you are not mature with girls, but the two may be separated for a while, the confession at this time is an immature confession. The risk is very high, similar to the severe situation when playing Go, the lagging party is forced to say "victory and defeat". If it wins, it will win. If it loses, it can only say "bad luck is born ".
How to catch up with mm
I. What kind of first impression should I give mm (Time: getting started with mm)
1. I think the most important thing is to let mm See your ambition.
The greatest charm of a man is that his career is successful. Young people cannot talk about "success" for a long time. At this time, you must make mm think that you are a self-motivated person.
Other things can be nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell mm that you are confident in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you have a long-term plan, in short, your future is not a dream.
2. Be confident and responsible
Don't be like a child. Girls are very lazy and want to depend on each other. You need to show your confidence and sense of responsibility. There is always a better choice than no choice.
3. Don't be too serious, but don't be too casual.
This is a serious issue. You can make fun of it.
Girls all like cynical men, so don't seem to be very concerned about anything. It's too dull.
4. More mature
In case of calm, calm men have a fatal appeal to mm.
Ii. How to further contact with mm (Time: Start of tracing)
1. The most important thing at this stage is not to worry about it. Don't make things so clearly that people can see at a glance that you are chasing people.
Think about it. Most people will not look at you at a glance, but they will not hate you at a Glance. They are children of ordinary people's families, unless you look like Andy Lau or Kevin Cocos Turner at chow runfa ), goodwill needs to be realized with the increasing understanding, so the key to the problem is your opportunity for further development.
From the girl's perspective, think about it for others: If you rush to get an object, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find that I don't like you after a while, isn't it just about you? Therefore, if you start to figure out your mind, you will be immediately bored.
2. Start slowly
First of all, we need to turn the relationship into "friends". Originally, it was "ordinary friends". You want to be "good friends ".
You can also ask the other party to become a "confidante" or something. In short, never say "catch up with you ". You think about it.
If you don't mention "Catch Up", the girl will have no chance to "reject" you-how can you refuse you if you don't chase her ?!
This reduces the psychological pressure on girls and enables smooth interaction. Do not assume that you will marry you in three days. You must have full contact and understanding, and your feelings will not come out of thin air.
3. Do not be impatient during interactions
You must be relaxed and don't get bored with others all day long. I have a good friend who told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-cool and cool (this is the result of my friend's painstaking efforts ).
You don't feel good when you get stuck with others all day long. If you get cold for a day or two, girls will think of your benefits.
In addition, do not show your ambition. It is too expensive. Sometimes you can play tricks.
4. Create opportunities as appropriate
As mentioned above, do not immediately turn things into "you are chasing others", and you need a chance to approach girls.
It depends on your creativity.
You can collect information and find a way to turn the waiting rabbit into an encounter. You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite the other party to do something with you.
In short, this is the most technical aspect. You can ask for advice from your predecessors.
5. Avoid: it is impolite to give gifts to others.
Some people are eager to catch up with girls and often like to buy things and send them to others.
As the saying goes, "You don't have to pay for anything." If you send something to someone like this, you are putting pressure on it. People will feel that they owe you something, so they will
Find a way to give it back to you. If you cannot give it back to you, you will find a way to avoid losing your favor. Note: I am talking about "casually". If it is appropriate, it will be different. Of course, if you send something frequently, it depends on what you say, because people say that as long as they don't put too much pressure on each other and the other party accepts it, it is naturally best.
If you want to show your sincerity, you may wish to invite girls to spend money together, for example, looking for a good restaurant to eat, or looking for expensive places to play together or something. Girls naturally can see that you have spent a lot of money, but after all, money is spent by two people, instead of taking home things.
3. What is "girlfriend?
1. "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.
You start to interact with girls, from "ordinary friends" to "Good Friends", to "Very good, speechless ".
Friend, you accidentally pulled her hand in a sunny afternoon. You suddenly attacked
Blow and kiss her. At this moment, she is already your girlfriend. No matter whether she acknowledges it or not, she thinks you are his boyfriend. I know the best. I never asked "are you willing to be my girlfriend" when I went to bed. Finally, the girl was in a hurry: "Why are you not asking me to be your girlfriend !"
Therefore, do not rush to crack the window paper. The more embarrassing the situation is, the more favorable it is for you.
2. What is "confession?
As mentioned above, confession is actually a form. The correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, so that you can confess to others. Many people cannot understand this problem. They always think that they promise to be their own girlfriend first and then how to do it. I can only say that he is very "simple" and very "stupid ".
3. Is there a time to force a confession?
Yes, for example, when there is a third party, or you are not mature with girls, but the two may be separated for a while, the confession at this time is an immature confession. The risk is very high, similar to the severe situation when playing Go, the lagging party is forced to say "victory and defeat". If it wins, it will win. If it loses, it can only say "bad luck is born ".
4. Do not export the word "love" easily
I often see "bold confession" in forums. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love"
"Is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment, and even a kind of responsibility.
A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.
4. Civilized love, cannot be forced
1. Not every mm can catch it.
A good girl will always have many people to catch up with, and it is impossible to fulfill everyone's wish. There will always be losers. For example, even if you have worked hard to master the most advanced mm principle, you won't be able to catch any one of twins.
From another perspective, a rural nanny who has not graduated from elementary school is willing to "Become a horse" for you even if it is good for you and earn 600 yuan a month to buy you a 700 gift (overdraft ", you will not fall in love with her. If she is crying every day, you must be bored. Therefore, love requires material foundation and at least balance.
2. Chasing mm is a serious social activity.
Do not bother people and leave them behind. Why is my big husband having no wife? Some mm is indeed Snoop (a minority). If you are not convinced, you can be angry and use facts to prove that "she was blind at the time". Never miss yourself.
Finally, do not be cynical in front of MM. Cynical sometimes means "you fail ".