<Give her a dream during her interactions>
Some people think that girls are easy to get cheated, but is that true? As a matter of fact, when a girl faces the white horse, she will be willing to think even if she is cheated. so when a well-dressed man appears in front of them, these girls may bet on luck as they wish. so the most important thing is that you want to give the other party some dreams. At the beginning, your attitude or commitment close to her cannot be changed. To be clear, you can give her a dream, if you keep her dreams, your interactions will go deeper.
<Does she have patience with you?>
If your girlfriend yawns gently during the appointment, it doesn't mean she is tired, it implies that you say she is tired of you (this short paragraph should be careful, this is very pertinent. It is important to know if a woman is impatient with you.) or, if she tells you to pay attention to the time on your watch, it indicates that she already wants to go home. If she has a strong idea, she may show behavior that keeps looking around without looking at you, at this time, her heart may no longer have you. when women are with their favorite men, they often don't worry about the environment around them. If these women are self-centered women, there is nothing too much to do, however, if a woman looks at other things, you should be prepared to end the feeling at any time.
If some women say [men really hate], many women like to add the word [hate] after a sentence. however, in this usage, there are two different meanings worth noting. In general, they are usually used to express the characteristics of [dislike] men and women who are relatively close to each other, if it is not very close, the other party may give you a contemptuous eye in silence, so if a woman is willing to speak to you, in comparison, your intimacy will also increase. to increase the intimacy between you, you need to show her your male temperament as soon as possible. However, if a male makes a female feel inferior, it is very likely that the female will be discouraged.
<Observe women in the form of speech>
What kind of person are you? If she is a continuous speaker, it is easy to doubt what is in her head. humans always want others to look at themselves, so men and women always sort out their appearances well, but only their appearances are incomplete, it also allows others to learn more about themselves. when the voice of a voice changes rapidly, women will be excited and whisper with their voice, which is also a type of pleasure. however, when talking to a female, you must pay special attention to the fact that she may be very jealous. On the contrary, women with low sound quality may be more male.
<Women who often listen to Walkman are self-centered>
Recently, you can often see some female wearing Walkman in the public car. In fact, some of these female who are holding their ears with headphones are trying to avoid being alone, so that they can escape to music, and immerse yourself in the music world. however, some women are willing to take off their earphones for male, but they also need to be quite alert, because this is one of the self-centered types.
<Women are usually attracted to the first impression>
A report once pointed out that female should be careful with the first impression that many people will die at this point !!) Men with a beard are rated higher than men without a beard. appearance, posture, and clothing are all important factors that determine the first impression. If these first impressions are not used, they will not be very good. the first impression is usually embedded in the hearts of each other, so the first impression is very important. if a male pays attention to his clothing attitude at ordinary times, he will win the game.
How can we catch the flowers of an existing Master?
Once a girl has a boyfriend and makes a promise, she will not accept others' love easily.
But what do you do if you like a girl with a boyfriend?
Don't be reckless. If you fall in love, you will be rejected. because she doesn't know you very well and won't give up her existing love for you. she should be very considerate to her and appear as a friend of the opposite sex, playing with her. for a long time, she will think you are a good boy. don't give her the opportunity to reject you or ask her for anything. let her know that you are in love with her, but don't tell her clearly.
Then, when your feelings (for her friendship) develop to a certain stage, find a chance (maybe when she is just breaking out with her boyfriend) to write a letter or talk about it implicitly.
At this time, she may refuse, but if you find that she doesn't hate you, come on and continue. She will compare and choose you to give up her old boyfriend.
The whole process is like this, but before that, you must make a comparison between yourself and her boyfriend. If you think you are not as good as the above method, It will be ineffective.
Catch up with girls
(1) chasing silent girls
It seems tricky. In fact, this kind of girl looks indifferent and is often enthusiastic. They generally like boys who are more wild. If you are a kind of gentle boy with poor looks and low possibility, you 'd better choose another person. If someone else thinks of you as "cool! ", Then you have a big hope! If you have not been rejected for the first time, do not delay the opportunity! They may start to treat you very poorly. Do not be discouraged.
Be sure to stick to it, or even die. Watch a movie, dance, skate, and go to the study room she often goes. Be sure to have more opportunities to express yourself and more (of course, Iloveyou should leave it to the end, huh, huh )...... for this type of girl, your true feelings are very attractive.
This type of girl usually takes a long time to catch up. If you are about to graduate or leave school now, it seems that you are still unable to start. So as not to waste. However, after catching up with her hand, she will usually die, and you will feel like you are the happiest BF in the world! Haha.
(2) girl with romantic fantasy
If you really like a girl like this, I 'd like to remind you first-you're going to have a bitter taste! This kind of girl seems to have more spiritual pursuits than material, but the opposite is true. Romance requires money. If you do not have enough financial resources, I hope you will proceed with careful consideration. Because she is fond of flowers, flowers, and chocolate, you can give more gifts to shake her heartstrings.
If you want to catch up with such girls, do not be stingy with your small money. In addition to the moon in the sky, in addition to the earth... (what? I can't remember.) If she wants it, you have to try your best. At ordinary times, roses and snacks are more subtle in spirit. If you want to catch up with such a girl, you must cultivate more understanding and understanding of the girl's mind. Don't forget to bribe a lot of roommates around girls.
They will tell you more useful information. However, you have to think more about your own dress. (After catching up with a girl, you can feel at ease, because in her eyes, you are no longer good. Haha)
She also needs to find more romantic places to play, such as spring outing, dance, watching love stories ...... she will be unable to do without your care. Haha! Although such a girl is very expensive for your money, it will also bring you a lot of beautiful fun, as long as you really like, you can still live a happy life.
(3) chasing gentle and considerate girls
This kind of girl is paid. Once she becomes your GF, she will be considerate to you, gentle and amiable, and make you feel the warmth and reliability of love. In theory, you will become the most comfortable man to catch up with such girls. This kind of girl should be good (and suitable for various types of boys), as long as she doesn't hate you, and you deserve her. Now let's discuss the means.
First, you need to take care of her in terms of life and study. It does not need material, but a kind of care from the heart that appears in front of her when she needs help. (I would like to remind you that you must observe more to find a good opportunity .) Of course, if you are a romantic person, it is safe to give flowers and gifts on holidays.
At the beginning, you can send something of friendship, and wait until you think it can be expressed (for example, when she looks at you and starts to look at others differently or seems a little helpless before you ), you can send roses! If you don't want to make such a picture, you can reveal some information in the chats after you study on weekdays. When the time is ripe, you will suddenly say, "it's nice to be with you, if she doesn't want to avoid it, you can hit it and say what you want to say. It is best to choose at night: At night, the defense capability is weak. If she begins to dodge, she never needs to be forced. She can care about it until she is moved.
BTW, after several "Encounters" in the same study room, you can get started. Don't think this kind of girl is honest, and it will be very safe after you get it. In fact, it depends on the individual. If it is not possible for her to leave you unexpectedly, write a letter and make a phone call.
(4) catch up with cute girls
Such girls seem to like a lot of people. In addition, boyfriend is often the first in the new environment. It's not because they are chasing well, but because they often have to take the initiative. I like this kind of girl. If she also like you, it's easy to get in touch with her and occasionally show her affection, then she approached the target in sync with you. Don't be discouraged if she doesn't like you (or worse, she's actually fond of another person. As long as you have a chance, you have to fight for it. (Of course, you only need to treat her ). You can first establish a friendship with her, and strive to cultivate a common hobby with her. During this period, your humor and open-mindedness are very important, so that she can still think about you on her way back. If the person she likes is not interested in her, you can take it slowly until she takes the initiative to compare with him.
Then you can take an obvious strategy to make her really your girlfriend. If she and she love each other, if you think she deserves your responsibility for winning the love of others, they can make a final blow before they talk to each other. At this time, the opportunity is very important.
You need to observe carefully. When there are conflicts and misunderstandings between them, Let's take advantage of them (as if they are not... haha) and come here first. The victory may belong to you! (Generally, girls do not have any other ideas after they catch up with them, haha.) This kind of girl may not be liked after BF. You should notify me in due time. "Please! She already belongs to me! ", The result should be optimistic.
I. What kind of first impression should I give to mm (Time: getting started with mm)
1. I think the most important thing is to let mm See your ambition.
The greatest charm of a man is that his career is successful. Young people cannot talk about "success" for a long time. At this time, you must make mm think that you are a self-motivated person.
Other things can be nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell mm that you are confident in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you have a long-term plan, in short, your future is not a dream.
2. Be confident and responsible
Don't be like a child. Girls are very lazy and want to depend on each other. You need to show your confidence and sense of responsibility. There is always a better choice than no choice.
3. Don't be too serious, but don't be too casual.
This is a serious issue. You can make fun of it. Girls all like cynical men, so don't seem to be very concerned about anything. It's too dull.
4. More mature
In case of calm, calm men have a fatal appeal to mm.
Ii. How to further contact with mm (Time: Start of tracing)
1. The most important thing at this stage is not to worry about it. Don't make things so clearly that people can see at a glance that you are chasing people. Think about it. Most people will not look at you at a glance, but they will not hate you at a Glance. They are children of ordinary people's families (unless you look like Andy Lau or Kevin Cocos Turner at chow runfa ), goodwill needs to be realized with the increasing understanding, so the key to the problem is your opportunity for further development.
From the girl's perspective, think about it for others: If you rush to get an object, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find that I don't like you after a while, isn't it just about you? Therefore, if you start to figure out your mind, you will be immediately bored.
2. Start slowly
First of all, we need to identify the relationship as a "friend", which is originally a "common friend". If you want to be a "good friend", you can also ask the other party to be a "confidante" or something, in short, never say "catch up with you ".
Think about it. If you don't mention "Catch up" at all, then girls will not have the opportunity to "reject" you-how can you reject you if you didn't chase her ?!
This reduces the psychological pressure on girls and enables smooth interaction. Do not assume that you will marry you in three days. You must have full contact and understanding, and your feelings will not come out of thin air.
3. Do not be impatient during interactions
You must be relaxed and don't get bored with others all day long. I have a good friend who told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"Cool, cool, and cool" (this is the result of my years of painstaking efforts ).
You don't feel good when you get stuck with others all day long. If you get cold for a day or two, girls will think of your benefits.
In addition, do not show your ambition. It is too expensive. Sometimes you can play tricks.
4. Create opportunities as appropriate
As mentioned above, do not immediately turn things into "you are chasing others", and you need to get a chance to approach a girl. It depends on your creativity.
You can collect information and find a way to turn the waiting rabbit into an encounter. You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite the other party to do something with you.
In short, this is the most technical aspect. You can ask for advice from your predecessors.
5. Avoid: it is impolite to give gifts to others.
Some people are eager to catch up with girls and often like to buy things and send them to others. As the saying goes, "You don't have to pay for anything." If you send something to someone like this, people will feel that they owe you something, so they will find a way to return it to you, if you cannot give it back to you, you will find a way to avoid losing your favor. If you want to show your sincerity, you may wish to invite girls to spend money together, for example, looking for a good restaurant to eat, or looking for expensive places to play together or something. Girls naturally can see that you have spent a lot of money, but after all, money is spent by two people, instead of taking home things.
3. What is "girlfriend?
1. "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.
You start to interact with girls, from "ordinary friends" to "Good Friends", to "very good friends who don't talk about anything", a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" pulled her hand; "moon on the Moon", you attacked and kissed her. At this moment, she is already your girlfriend. No matter whether she acknowledges it or not, she thinks you are his boyfriend.
I know the best. I never asked "are you willing to be my girlfriend" when I went to bed. Finally, the girl was in a hurry: "Why are you not asking me to be your girlfriend !"
Therefore, do not rush to crack the window paper. The more embarrassing the situation is, the more favorable it is for you.
2. What is "confession?
As mentioned above, confession is actually a form. The correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, so that you can confess to others. Many people cannot understand this problem. They always think that they promise to be their own girlfriend first and then how to do it. I can only say that he is very "simple" and very "stupid ".
3. Is there a time to force a confession?
Yes, for example, when a third party occurs, or you are not mature with a girl, the two may be separated for a while.
At this time, the confession is an immature confession, which is very risky, similar to the grim situation in GO games. The backward party is forced to release a "victory" and win after it wins, if you lose, you can only say "bad luck is born ".
4. Do not export the word "love" easily
I often see "bold confession" in forums. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment, and even responsibility.
A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.
4. Civilized love, cannot be forced
1. Not every mm can catch it.
A good girl will always have many people to catch up with, and it is impossible to fulfill everyone's wish. There will always be losers. For example, even if you have worked hard to master the most advanced mm principle, you won't be able to catch any one of twins.
From another perspective, a rural nanny who has not graduated from elementary school is willing to "Become a horse" for you even if it is good for you and earn 600 yuan a month to buy you a 700 gift (overdraft ", you will not fall in love with her. If she is crying every day, you must be bored.
Therefore, love requires material foundation and at least balance.
2. Chasing mm is a serious social activity.
Do not bother people and leave them behind. Why is my big husband having no wife? Some mm is indeed Snoop (a minority). If you are not convinced, you can be angry and use facts to prove that "she was blind at the time". Never miss yourself.
In the end, do not be cynical in front of MM. Cynical sometimes means "you fail"
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First of all, do not use the method of handing a paper or writing a love letter. A girl from Tsinghua can have hundreds of playbooks with a pretty nice look. It's just plain-looking, unless she is always waiting for you. The following is an example:
I am a friend of mine, who has a crush on a girl for a long time. She finds her class and has a good name, but is suffering from no chance. Suddenly one day, I saw his class journal in the 4 class, a female masterpiece on it, the article is omitted. My friends suddenly got a lot of inspiration. I wrote a book as soon as I could, and I read the masterpiece on the cloud. At the end of the letter, I hope to see you. After that, everything went smoothly and went on fast.
Xi, But please note that the writing of this letter is very exquisite. It is not easy to write it just right, and this method cannot be copied. Keep your mind updated, seize the opportunity, and be calm. Sometimes there are many opportunities and beautiful women, but they are missed when they are nervous. Here are a few simple examples: for example, if you see a sweetheart in chatroom, copy an IP address, pretend that you don't know someone and chat with her, and if you search books in the library, I happened to meet my dream lover. I used to borrow a pen without a computer to search for it. By the way, I would like to share a chat with my wife. I'm not talking about it. It's too much. Please tell the readers one by one.
A good start is half the success. Once you talk nonsense to her, you can even get to know her. In the future, even the second step is complete.
First: Know yourself and know the enemy and me
Recognize yourself first: What is my personality? What are my interests? What is my outlook on life? What are the values?
Then recognize the object: What is the personality of the target object? What interests does she have? What is her outlook on life? What are the values?
Recognize the enemy again: Who are she pursuing? Which one is more prominent? Where are their features?
By taking full measures, you can find out your advantages, develop your strengths, find out your weaknesses, and be careful not to commit crimes.
Second TRICK: do not go to the tiger point.
Bold and brave: After recognizing the enemy and me, you must be bold and take the first step.
Rose Perfume, phone card: A phone call every day, a rose, do not forget to give a small gift on a birthday, such as a faint fragrance of perfume, attached to a small card, warm hundreds of times.
Third TRICK: Father, Son, love, and friends
A girl can be said to be a weak and great combination. Sometimes she is like a little girl and needs to be cared for. Sometimes she is like a little mother and takes care of others very much. With this feature, boys constantly play a kind of father to care for her, occasionally play a little baby, let her play the glory of motherhood; sometimes play a mentor, sometimes play a role as a big brother, the road to love must be smooth.
The fourth move: both soft and hard work, enwei and Ji
From start to end, the best way is to use the flexibility and flexibility. Sometimes gentle, sometimes a little overbearing; sometimes pet her, sometimes set up a small authoritative image, the flexible application of the two, must be a hundred battles.
Fifth TRICK: tianyao.
Although you are pursuing her, please remember that the decision lies in her and the influence lies in her family! So you must always go to her house and walk around, from grandparents, Mom and Dad, uncles and aunts, to siblings, or even the puppies and pets at home, to show your skill, as the saying goes, "Eat a soft population, take short manpower" must help you speak in front of her, and make her feel that losing you will really regret for life.