Feeling of life: accepting imperfect self

At any time, please remember that no matter who you are, your boss, your lover, or even your parents, no one has the right to say no to you.
Unless you decide to give up on yourself. Let the comments that minimize your energy go to hell.
Accepting yourself is the beginning of understanding yourself. You begin to understand why you are now.
You will put down your guilt and self-criticism, and you will find your inner strength.
Now, you can choose who you are. This will help you reshape your new self and move towards your desired direction.

A prince asked his teacher, Sakyamuni Buddha, before setting foot on his journey of life: "What will happen to my future life ?"
The Buddha replied, "on your way to life, you will encounter three things, each of which has a sentence. Then you will understand it. After you walk through the third door, I will wait for you at the third door.
As a result, the prince is on the road. Soon, he met the first door, which said, "changing the world ." The prince thought: I want to plan the world according to my ideal and get rid of all the things I don't like. So he did it.
A few years later, the prince met the second door, which said, "Change others ." The Prince thinks: I will use beautiful ideas to enlighten people and develop their character in a more correct direction. So he did it.
After several years, he met the third door, which said, "Change yourself ." The prince thought: I want to make my personality more perfect. So he did it.
Later, the Prince saw Sakyamuni Buddha. He said to the Buddha, "I have passed the three doors on my way to life, and I have also seen the revelation written on the door. I know that it is better to change people in this world than to change the world. Instead of changing others, it is better to change myself ."
Buddha smiled and said, "Maybe you should go back now, and then go back and take a closer look at the three doors ."
The prince will go back with suspicion. Far away, he saw the third door, but it was different from when he came. From this perspective, he saw that he wrote "Accept yourself" on the door ".
The prince understands why he is always in the midst of self-blame and distress when changing himself: because he refuses to admit and accept his shortcomings, he always looks at what he cannot do, while ignoring your strengths.
So he began to learn to appreciate himself and accept himself.
The prince continued to go back. He saw that the second door was "accept others ".
He understands why he is always complaining and complaining: because he refuses to accept the difference between others and himself, he is always unwilling to understand and understand the difficulties of others.
So he began to learn to tolerate others.
The prince continued to go back. He saw that the first thing he wrote was "accept the world ".
The prince understands why the system failed to connect when he changed the world: because he refused to admit that many things in the world were not accessible to human resources, he was always forced to control others, while ignoring what you can do better.
As a result, he began to learn how to embrace the world with a broad heart.
At this moment, Sakyamuni Buddha was already there, and he said to the Prince, "I think, now you know what harmony and calm are.