Female CHENG: You must prove that you are truly outstanding
I have to admit that in this number of male-dominated IT industries, the ability of female programmers to work is often questioned. Some enterprises do not require female development, and some enterprises frequently lower recruitment requirements, but only adjust the team atmosphere. We should look at this situation with a positive attitude: The less we are optimistic at first, the more we will win.
To win, you must prove that you are truly outstanding. How can we prove that we are excellent? How can we become better?
First, adjust your mindset. We should treat everyone who looks at us with gratitude. It is because of being looked down, so we have more courage and fighting spirit. If you have not forgotten the question raised by your teacher and classmates at school: "Is this what you did yourself ?", In the face of questions at work during job hunting, we should not feel sour. There is a dream in the bottom of my heart, so I stick to it with faith. Why do you care that others don't understand yourself?
Second, we need to make progress. Many people have never figured out why the gap will gradually expand after two years when they graduate from a similar starting line. If you have read many celebrity autobiography, you will find that they love to use "maybe because of luck" to describe their turning point in life. In fact, there is no such thing as "lucky" in the world. The so-called "lucky" is, in fact, the opportunity is coming, never let it slip away, but firmly grasp. In order to seize every opportunity, we must be well prepared. How to prepare? Why did a watershed emerge after two years of graduation? The answer lies in the two hours from to every day after I go home from work. You can see what you are doing and what others are doing.
People are limited. Human knowledge, imagination, and computing power are limited. In addition to self-learning, we also need to focus on communication. Communication is a process of mutual cognitive improvement. If you have the opportunity to work with the most professional people, you can learn the most professional experience and skills. This is nothing more than the valuable wealth that can be realized by reading two books. It is a perfect way for people to make rapid progress.
Furthermore, they still love life. When I go to work, I want to work in a fun programming atmosphere. After work, I love my life and enjoy myself. The word "female" in "female programmers" is not to emphasize the difference in programming capabilities, but to better understand our lives. Women, born to love, love, play, and enjoy life. Flower arrangement, tea ceremony, yoga, billiards, movies, pottery ...... In a variety of life, broaden your horizons, open up your ideas, develop your network of contacts, relieve stress, and work and life. Whenever male Cheng teased me like this: "If you find a man to marry, what code should you write ?", I will kill it with no mercy: "Are you still writing code? Find my wife ?".
Finally, never give up. It is inevitable that we will be depressed and confused in our life. For the essence of things, our eyes will not help us to see more clearly, so let's do it with your mind. Every smart person has been stupid, and every successful person has failed. Since the thorns are the only way to experience, why not smile and respond to the bitter, the end of persistence is victory.
Fortunately, today's army of female programmers is growing. Why should we lament how high the technical level of women can be. Every female programmer should be affirmed and respected. This era has given women the responsibility to manage their families. Similarly, they strive to be at the technical level, which means they think more, weigh more, and pay more ...... This is because of the existence of male programmers, female programmers, and various flowers.
The program is written at, and the day passes. Gradually, I am no longer proud and excited to realize a complex requirement or to realize my sense of accomplishment after fixing a major bug. In my mind, this is something I should have done. What is supporting me to move forward is the dream of an everlasting belief in the bottom of my heart ......