Financial Communication between parent and child families

Financial Communication between parent and child families

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Wuwu· chengxue

Dad:
Hello!
I haven't written a letter to you for a long time. I asked off for money at noon today. I don't know how to spend it with 300 yuan. Every time I call you to ask for money, even though they are far apart, I always feel blushing and heartbeat before I open my mouth. After the conversation, what do you say? I don't even have the instinct to argue, I always feel that writing a letter is more friendly than making a phone call or sending an email.
I have been in school for a few days. When I got up from my hometown, I paid 20 yuan. When I arrived in Guiyang, my sister and aunt gave me money. I insisted that I would lend some money to my classmates on the road, they really cannot bear to ask for their money. When I started school last semester, I brought 300 yuan to my sister from my hometown. Because I didn't stay in Guiyang, I went to school and wanted to keep my vacation and give it back to her, I did not expect to use it. I didn't learn much at school. I planned to learn this semester well, but I couldn't afford my meal for two days at school. On Friday afternoon, I was given a meal for two yuan by a person in the same dormitory. I borrowed 100 yuan from him last year. I don't want to pay him back today. I went to the bank both on Saturday and Sunday, but I still had no money. Every time you make two calls, you send the money. In the past, I used to look for money to pay for my home several times, or my cousin lent me 200 yuan. He also borrowed money from others. I said that you have sent it out for a few days, and you will be able to return it to him right away, but you haven't waited for a few days. It's just the "May Day" and it's not until more than 10 days before you pay it back, he almost turned his face. Now, you are the only one who can ask for money. I think you don't care about anything except being responsible for your work. Sometimes, I think your father is incompetent.
This semester is quite hard to learn. I took the October's CET4 test. The trained teacher is very competent and has passed 8 levels of English. However, he may not be in this school in a year or two. He must pass his examination before attending his training class. He said he would have taken the test after the training. I also want to take the test, because we are not very difficult in learning major, mathematics is no longer tested, and there are not many courses, and the test is quite easy. I have passed all the six subjects in my college entrance exam, scored 94 points in Chinese, 73 points in English, and 60 points in mathematics and accounting. I do not take an exam in mathematics, such as Chinese, journalism, and elementary school. I want to apply for Chinese language and literature. I only have 12 subjects. What do you think?
The CET4 training starts next week until March June. Register now, and stop at the 15th. The registration fee and training fee are more than 200 yuan, so you cannot pay for it every time. I am sorry for your troubles. Every time I look for you, I am asking for money! In fact, I don't want to do this either, but there is no way. Otherwise, I think I am sensible and will not be confused about how much I have arranged to use in one semester. Now I do not call or access the internet.
Okay. If you say so much, you may think it is nonsense.
Wish
Healthy!
Son: wuwu
2005.3.4

None:
I have received the letter because I am very busy. I have been visiting the Teaching and Research Section of Urumqi, Xinjiang, and I will not reply to you until now.
The content in the letter indicates that you have already considered some problems. This is good.
For more than a year, from the time you want to test your school to go to Shandong alone, from the time you first learned about the difficulty of no money to trying to borrow money and pay back the money, you have bought two bottles of wine for your grandfather and brought them back to the country of Guizhou, and have something you can do for them. From the time you want to apply for a self-study exam to take an English training class, it means that you are gradually improving and maturing, and my friends and I are very pleased with this. Although some opinions in the letter are biased, this is normal. You will gradually understand it in the future and I will not say much. I would like to exchange some comments.
At present, our friends and friends are in poor economic conditions. People just crossed the food-and-clothing line and there is no surplus of money to pay expensive tuition fees for their children. At the beginning of this spring, cousin Li also made a loan to go to school. His cousin Zheng's school fee was as high as three thousand yuan, and almost no compulsory education could be completed. Uncle Yao is married, his salary is deducted as collateral, and even his living expenses are hard to guarantee. Before you leave, he calls me to tell me that it is difficult to give you money. I said it doesn't matter, grandma has already given you 130 yuan, you have earned more than 400 yuan in the county, even if you work for the whole holiday, it is hard to earn so much money ), I don't even have a fare (I know you have bought a student ticket to Jinan ). You said that everyone gave you money the last time you left. It was because you were going to study in the distance. Everyone gave me a bite to congratulate you in accordance with their hometown customs and habits. But if you want people to send you money again, you have to wait until you get married. You said that you only had 20 yuan when you arrived in Guiyang, which is beyond my expectation. Because your sister and Aunt each gave you 100 yuan (your sister has been laid off for a long time since she lost her job the next day. All of them are self-protected. Where can we talk about extra money to give away? They can give you up to 100 yuan each. Of course, you have shown that you are very embarrassed to ask for their money. This is a good idea.) I think you will save money. Grandpa and Grandma living in the remote hill village are even more difficult. When you passed by Guiyang, I called to ask if you did not go back to your hometown to visit grandpa. You said that you left grandpa's house in lunar January 13 and I didn't say anything, because you have to rush back to Shandong to go to school. At that time, I knew my grandmother in her 70 s had 10 eggs on foot and went to the township market 8 kilometers away. In order to get more than two cents, I did not sell it. When I got home, my grandfather almost died of illness, after receiving a call from your sister-in-law, I was in a rush to get money from Guizhou. The money was not ready yet. She called again and said grandpa was out of danger and I didn't get it. But you spent another 200 yuan on your way back to Shandong, and even your sister was surprised. I had no money to eat in school for two days and had to borrow 100 yuan from others. This is unimaginable. Apart from tuition and other necessary expenses, I can pay you a maximum of 400 yuan a month. Even so, I have no savings for one minute. Because the amount of more than 1000 yuan a month is nearly enough to deduct other expenses and necessary living expenses, you have to borrow RMB 6000 or 7000 for every semester. Fortunately, you have begun to know that it is difficult to borrow money and pay back the money. However, you spent more than 3000 yuan in tuition fees in the previous semester, and you still cannot tell where you actually used it. This is not a good start for you studying international trade. When you said you wanted to apply for an exam in a foreign province, my idea was that even if you couldn't learn much about earning a living in the future, but when you went out far away, there would be more insights, this is proven by history. When you went back to the countryside in Guizhou this time, my friends and friends called to tell me that you are much more mature than before. This is one of the results of going out for exercise. To be honest, if you are a local junior college student, you must spend less money, but so far, you have to spend two more trips to Guiyang, where can I get more training from a distant place like Guizhou to Shandong? What you see along the way has increased your social experience, which will lay a spiritual foundation for your future social development. You can feel that, half a year in Shandong, the field of view is much more open than those who have never been far away. Even after decades of work, some people have never been out of Guizhou. Of course, they have their historical limitations, but for your generation, they do not have to live in the way we live, as long as you develop yourself and do not violate national regulations, you can generally get a lot of training. In this way, it is difficult to get out of the house without money, so planning to use money is more important than anything else. In my hometown, there is no problem if I have no money to mix it for a few months, but it is difficult to mix it in a day when I am far away from home. Your classmates give you two yuan for dinner, which is the best proof. I remember you wrote a letter to me when you first entered high school saying that someone else had parents to accompany me when you entered school, but you only used a plastic bag to carry a few books at the school gate. But I don't think that is the incentive for this kind of feeling! Why did you think of applying for an exam only when you had to wait for half a year for a job? Which of the following successful people in the world did not come out of their ways after several hardships and setbacks? You said that I am only serious about my work (imagine how a person who does not recognize my work will face my life? Especially today, even if you work very seriously, you will be laid off, and the economy is often stretched. In less than two years, you will be able to find a job or be fired if you have a job, especially when you have a job and cannot make as much money as you have spent, you will feel more deeply. Of course, this is not the case for you.) If I am not serious about my work, how can I go to the North Sea from the country to the county without a diploma? How can I have money for you to study? Although I am only a teacher, most of the teachers I work with are. You said that I am indifferent to you. This is just your temporary feeling. I have no opinion on whether you want to take the self-study exam. As for the slow collection of money, it is normal. You said that you almost fell out with your cousin on May Day last year, but you didn't pay back the money on time. It's no wonder that you will be more clear when you move towards the society in the future. Whenever you ask me for money, I have to go to the bank to fetch it and remit it. In the past few years, it would take at least one week from Beihai to Guizhou. If "May 1" was delayed, it would be hard to collect the data by time. Even if no one is at the bank or is on a business trip, the money order will be delayed for several days. It will be more than a few days in your hands. If there is no deposit, you have to pay attention to the emergency. If you cannot find someone to borrow it, isn't it necessary to delay for a few days? Of course, this is very difficult for you to wait for the rice pot. Therefore, you must plan to use the money, use the money, and save as much as possible if you do not use it. There is grain in the warehouse, so you don't have to worry. When you are hungry, you can be yourself or start a business. What I said is not necessarily suitable for the consumption view of contemporary young people. But anyone's consumption view should be based on their own economy, and they must not always eat grain. Although I can provide you with more than 400 yuan of living expenses each month, it is unlikely that you will have to pay 2000 or 3000 yuan at a time. Since you left Guiyang in May February 24 and ended in May March 22, I have remitted 1000 yuan to you. Although nearly 300 yuan is paid for training, do you feel that you have spent too much? I know that some college students must use their home money in the first year. In the second year, apart from their tuition fees, they generally do not want to remit money at home. They either work, or work as tutors to support themselves. Therefore, I believe that you will learn more about the benefits of using money. Because we do not belong to the rich, but at best to the working class. Even so, as long as it is a normal expense, I will try my best to fund you. You can rest assured that. I will remit middle April yuan to you in 400. It must be understood that university is only an excessive stage from school to society, and it is not a time to play well.
This is good because all the six subjects passed the exam in the previous semester. Thank you for your class teacher, though oral. It is hoped that the subjects learned this semester will also achieve better results.
I have already talked to you on the phone about what kind of self-study exam Major I chose. Whether studying Chinese language and literature or journalism, in addition to passing the examination, the key lies in more practices. Here I will not be arrogant.
Wish
Successful
Dad: Cheng Xue
2005.326