Girlfriend without a career

Girlfriend without a career (a boss's speech)

Today, the Administration recommended a qualified lady, Miss Liu, for an interview in my office. I glanced at her resume and saw her, but I gave her a description, she has been a sales clerk and has changed three projects in four years. She has been resting for a year and is 28 years old. She came to our company and hopes to continue receiving customers on the project.
There are three types of recruitment personnel in our company: Property consultants, marketing personnel, project sales personnel, and Administrative Clerks.
Every time I asked the interview lady to pick them up, they were often willing to do administrative work, followed by sit-down sales, and there were very few marketing campaigns. even if I tell them that the base salary is the highest and there is still a Commission, it will be easy for them to become managers and transfer to the Administration Department or Project Department. They will not change their choice.
Their selection order is just the opposite of making money. in fact, their selection order is based on the order of work pressure. That is to say, they would rather find a job that is less stressful, stable, and idle, even if they make less money, small appreciation opportunities and difficult development. unfortunately, I don't even hire her from the administration department because they have no business or learning, unless the company has an urgent job shortage.
They are all 25 years old, and some of them are really cute, but I am really worried about their future, because, very likely, their future is very troublesome, even a miserable half of life ..
I sought comfort in the most difficult time, and talked about love in the best time of learning.Because their plan is to get married and have children before the age of 28, dressing up and making friends are all of their worlds. Of course,Enjoying the Happy Time of youth is also the most attractive to them.Even if you leave for this reason and resign, it will not take the case seriously.
Naturally, at the age of 28, they married a rich or potential man on schedule. The reason why this man married her was often because she was blooming.
At that time, her husband may still be in the development phase of her career. She listened to her husband's words and resigned and went home. When she became a full-time wife, some were still unwilling to go to work until she had children.
For women who have been working at the bottom, having children is almost the end of their career. Unless they are in public institutions, if they are general organizations, they often resign, get pregnant, give birth, and feed their children for half a year. When everything recovers, they will have a headache when thinking about work. First, it's hard to find a job in the idle state, because at that time, we were looking for a job that could go home early. Otherwise, we could not take care of our children, so we were not at ease. Secondly, we found that we had to hire an aunt to replace ourselves, as soon as I thought, my aunt was more expensive than herself. As a result, she gave herself an excuse to educate her children and bring them in person. She didn't pursue her career until she grew up, the fear of social work also caused her to become a full-time wife.
The family's financial burden has been borne by her husband. Her husband has made constant efforts and learning in her career, constantly interacted with her business relationship, improved her quality, and increased her position and money, the circle of friends is getting bigger and bigger, and the society is constantly improving, and the husband is also constantly improving.
In fact, my wife is not so busy. My child went to kindergarten. She went to school alone. She was still a person and occasionally went shopping and beauty with another wife who didn't go to work, however, I found that I was getting farther and farther away from the society, and I had the courage to step into the society again several times. However, I was not able to work at the grass-roots level, but now I cannot do it, in fact, such a woman will not be especially virtuous, and her interest in cooking and housework is gradually lost. After all, she is a new age of women, who are willing to stay at home and stay so old, but I regret it, when I was a child, I didn't study hard, I didn't learn anything when I was in service, and I didn't really concentrate on any industry. I didn't have a skill. How can I start? How can I stick to it, when I was able to endure hardship, I had a good time, and all the sweets in my life had been eaten up. Now I am not only hesitating, but also affecting my mood and even disturbing my husband.
But she can accept it. After all, there is a happy home, a loving husband and a lovely child. But she often complained about the troubles of housework. She gave everything for this House, and her husband was too lazy to raise the bar with her. In fact, her husband wanted to say that I am working hard for this house.
Her biggest wish was to let her husband talk to her patiently for a while, but he went home very late because he went to socialize and even went home, he didn't talk, watching TV and sleeping, A woman does not let him go to bed and quarrel. Her husband thinks this woman is getting more and more difficult to understand. A woman feels as if a man is not so fond of her.
Quarrel: for a happy couple, it is not uncommon. For indifferent couples, they want to break the numbness, break the numbness, and often get bored, often completely disgusted.
The different roles of two people in social life determine the huge difference between the two people, which leads to a reduction in the common language,When a woman attracts a man's charm, she is no longer here. She is arrogant and nervous, and constantly harasses the man until the man has an affair.
A woman who lives in fear secretly Rummages over her cell phone while her husband is asleep with a sense of inferiority that she does not want to admit.
The miserable life of a woman has already started. At this time, she will grow old in her loneliness. She will be accompanied by housework and TV. If she is energetic, she will also be a companion to her parents. Of course, as a revenge, she will even squander her husband's money. she is not happy, or even surfing the Internet. In fact, she cannot find anything on the internet. There may be a idle and boring person who will talk to her for her husband. Her husband not only talked less with her, but also seemed to have little movement. In short, there was no suspense in the hopeless suffering and she was always old. If she is divorced, she will fall into despair, because life was once all of her.
If a woman has no career or learning when she is young, her life will become miserable and miserable since she gave birth to a child.
A woman with a career constantly enriches herself. Love is not the whole of her life. She and men have a common language. It is only a small delay for her to have children, because she is already at the management level, I have a friend from a decoration company, deputy general manager, and a seemingly weak woman. Before she was born, the boss drove her home, and she naturally made it, in less than a month, I called her and she was on a business trip in Wuhan. the child is healthy and the home is well arranged. her example may be extreme, but it illustrates many problems.
A man has an affair. In fact, it's really not all about the good colors. To tell the truth, if you're worried about the crux of your career, your wife and you are always nagging about it because of the bad news, you told her about enterprise management. She told you about discounts in the mall. You are very sleepy. Because of the pressure, she slapped you with a pillow. You said how annoying it was, and you should take a closer look, the opposite woman is wide-faced and muddy. What else can you say about such a woman? Not only does it suffer, but it also brings troubles to her responsible husband.
 Women with careers are very beautiful. seeing them in the world of men, they are very beautiful, and they can live with such women. The pleasure is hard to express, they may not be vase-like, but they will make you quiet, sweet, happy, and respectful.
In modern society, the economy is so developed that a woman is a full-time wife. If it is a woman's decision, it is because she has retreated. If it is a man's decision, it is really selfish and wrong.
I gave the girl an interview a general explanation. She said she knew it would be like this, but she still felt that she didn't want to endure hardship or take risks. She believed in her man and wouldn't do that.
What is hardship? You have never seen a hard-working job. If you look at the Migration Company and the workers on the construction site, you can call the office to make a hard-working call? In air-conditioned senior office buildings, it is hard to visit customers? Listen to the boss's words, read books carefully, and check documents on the Internet, so it's hard work? Such a female employee looks interesting in their interpersonal relationships. Their friends in the company are not conducive to business progress, but male, not working together, instead, you can play with or chat with others.
This is why China's divorce rate is high today. The so-called Chinese Divorce is happening constantly. In my opinion, it will continue to happen. Why is a woman only a tool for children, and why she becomes a nanny after being given birth? Should she use all her energy for the family? Don't forget that she has also received a good education, she once had a dream. but what has changed her life trajectory?
Of course, a man without a career will be even more miserable. His misery is that he has never eaten sugar in his life. It is worse than a woman.
This article is intended for all women in the workplace. Because the world is complex, it is likely that some people will think that the word is extreme and the word is partial. After all, happy families are the same, unfortunately, each family has its own misfortune. women should be favored and put in love. Men educate women to be ambitious, indifferent, and considerate. Only the boss can be so mean and pragmatic, but this mean boss, in the company, he gives women and men equal opportunities for promotion. He is saddened by the confidante who once fought with him. The talented female employees who have made painstaking efforts, she left the stage early in her career, and those who say they are pursuing equality secretly read that women are weak.
How charming a woman is to pursue in her career, how charming she is, how charming she is to work hard, and how talented she is at any time, how can we resist the scrutiny of years. such a woman should be considerate and caring for them, because it is worth it.
For female employees who are still innocent, pampered, and complaining about the melancholy of their employees, if your career goal is no goal, how can I ask you not to be late for work? I really don't know which day, your boyfriend asked you to resign in one sentence. they have received too much care. They have time to rest and entertain themselves. They will spend the rest of their lives in their lazy future. What else can they talk? I don't think they have any charm, especially for me. When they resign, I am almost too reluctant to leave.
They don't understand the jokes I 've told them. They're a joke about the tragedy I 've told.
If god treats you well and gives you a good husband and a superior life, please do not converge your fighting spirit. If God does not love you very much, it may lead to obstacles, please do not erase your confidence in yourself and the courage to fight forward.[10 things men are most afraid of women doing] 1. want to control everything; 2. suspicion is too heavy; 3. doubt his abilities; 4. willfulness and ignorance; 5. finding someone to handle and threatening words; 6. nagging, nagging, and too much nonsense; 7. love to break up, love is awkward; 8. pessimistic fate, crying; 9. I like to vomit, not to give face; 10. the debate is strong, and happiness prevails.