Girls teach you how to catch up with Meimei

I. What kind of first impression should I give to mm (Time: getting started with mm)

1. I think the most important thing is to let mm See your ambition.

The greatest charm of a man is that his career is successful. Young people cannot talk about "success" for a long time. At this time, you must make mm think that you are a self-motivated person.

Other things can be nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell mm that you are confident in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you have a long-term plan, in short, your future is not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible

Don't be like a child. Girls are very lazy and want to depend on each other. You need to show your confidence and sense of responsibility.

There is always a better choice than no choice.

3. Don't be too serious, but don't be too casual.

This is a serious issue. You can make fun of it.

Girls all like cynical men, so don't seem to be very concerned about anything. It's too dull.

4. More mature

In case of calm, calm men have a fatal appeal to mm.

Ii. How to further contact with mm (Time: Start of tracing)

1. The most important thing at this stage is not to worry about it. Don't make things so clearly that people can see at a glance that you are chasing people.

Think about it. Most people will not look at you at a glance, but they will not hate you at a Glance. They are children of ordinary people's families (unless you look like Andy Lau or Kevin Cocos Turner at chow runfa ), goodwill needs to be realized with the increasing understanding, so the key to the problem is your opportunity for further development.

From the girl's perspective, think about it for others: If you rush to get an object, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find that I don't like you after a while, isn't it just about you? Therefore, if you start to figure out your mind, you will be immediately bored.

2. Start slowly

First of all, we need to identify the relationship as a "friend", which is originally a "common friend". If you want to be a "good friend", you can also ask the other party to be a "confidante" or something, in short, never say "catch up with you ".

Think about it. If you don't mention "Catch up" at all, then girls will not have the opportunity to "reject" you-how can you reject you if you didn't chase her ?!

This reduces the psychological pressure on girls and enables smooth interaction. Do not assume that you will marry you in three days. You must have full contact and understanding, and your feelings will not come out of thin air.

3. Do not be impatient during interactions

You must be relaxed and don't get bored with others all day long. I have a good friend who told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"Cool, cool, and cool" (this is the result of my years of painstaking efforts ).

You don't feel good when you get stuck with others all day long. If you get cold for a day or two, girls will think of your benefits.

In addition, do not show your ambition. It is too expensive. Sometimes you can play tricks.

4. Create opportunities as appropriate

As mentioned above, do not immediately turn things into "you are chasing others", and you need to get a chance to approach a girl. It depends on your creativity.

You can collect information and find a way to turn the waiting rabbit into an encounter. You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite the other party to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical aspect. You can ask for advice from your predecessors.

5. Avoid: it is impolite to give gifts to others.

Some people are eager to catch up with girls and often like to buy things and send them to others.

As the saying goes, "You don't have to pay for anything." If you send something to someone like this, people will feel that they owe you something, so they will find a way to return it to you, if you cannot give it back to you, you will find a way to avoid losing your favor.

If you want to show your sincerity, you may wish to invite girls to spend money together, for example, looking for a good restaurant to eat, or looking for expensive places to play together or something. Girls naturally can see that you have spent a lot of money, but after all, money is spent by two people, instead of taking home things.

3. What is "girlfriend?

1. "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.

You start to interact with girls, from "ordinary friends" to "Good Friends", to "very good friends who don't talk about anything", a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" pulled her hand; "moon on the Moon", you attacked and kissed her. At this moment, she is already your girlfriend. No matter whether she acknowledges it or not, she thinks you are his boyfriend.

I know the best. I never asked "are you willing to be my girlfriend" when I went to bed. Finally, the girl was in a hurry: "Why are you not asking me to be your girlfriend !"

Therefore, do not rush to crack the window paper. The more embarrassing the situation is, the more favorable it is for you.

2. What is "confession?

As mentioned above, confession is actually a form. The correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, so that you can confess to others. Many people cannot understand this problem. They always think that they promise to be their own girlfriend first and then how to do it. I can only say that he is very "simple" and very "stupid ".

3. Is there a time to force a confession?

Yes, for example, when a third party occurs, or you are not mature with a girl, the two may be separated for a while.

At this time, the confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. Similar to the grim situation in GO games, the late party is forced to release a "victory" and wins, if you lose, you can only say "bad luck is born ".

4. Do not export the word "love" easily

I often see "bold confession" in forums. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, meaning

A pursuit also means a commitment or even a responsibility.

A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.

4. Civilized love, cannot be forced

1. Not every mm can catch it.

A good girl will always have many people to catch up with, and it is impossible to fulfill everyone's wish. There will always be losers. For example, even if you have worked hard to master the most advanced mm principle, you won't be able to catch any one of twins.

From another perspective, a rural nanny who has not graduated from elementary school is willing to "Become a horse" for you even if it is good for you and earn 600 yuan a month to buy you a 700 gift (overdraft ", you will not fall in love with her. If she is crying every day, you must be bored.

Therefore, love requires material foundation and at least balance.

2. Chasing mm is a serious social activity.

Do not bother people and leave them behind. Why is my big husband having no wife? Some mm is indeed Snoop (a minority). If you are not convinced, you can be angry and use facts to prove that "she was blind at the time". Never miss yourself.

In the end, do not be cynical in front of MM. Cynical sometimes means "you fail "!