Tolerance and patience

Tolerance and patience)

If we do not allow the Ancients, we will say that they are ambitious. If we do not allow the present, we will say that we are boundless.

If patience is combined with sensitivity, courage, thinking, and rapid action, it will be invincible.

Temper can succeed only when it is judged by reason. Otherwise, it is only the fulfillment of animal anger desires, or from a psychological perspective.

Wise men know that they should never be unattended, be willing, and be able to "tolerate fools ".

Tolerating a person is tantamount to insulting him, or making him a villain in front of you ). For example, in the family, it is often unreasonable for adults to tolerate villains.

Talented People with high capacity can be recognized as elders.

 

Endure Naji-this is the truth that Shang Shu, the Chinese book that makes the world seek purpose, tells us.

In general, as long as the method is correct, the amount of profit is proportional to the size of what is done and the ability to endure.

Selfish behavior: At the beginning, it hurts people and the result is self-harm (the selfish person is a heartless, irrational, and brave person ).

The benevolent can't bear selfish, the wise can endure selfish, and the brave can uniform selfish.

 

The first method: humble; the first method: peaceful; the first method: Han Rong (tolerant); the first method: free and easy.

Self-detachment, self-determination, and self-determination. Everything is simple, everything is wide, everything is simple, smug, and frustrated. This is one of the highest levels of life, and it is feasible for non-ordinary people.

Static energy brake, potential floating, wide energy system deviation, slow energy system emergency.

The world of things, Shu (WIDE) XU gentle person how long. Urgent impatient person how short.

 

Do not compete with hoarage people, do not compete with enterprising people for money, do not compete with the name of the people who pay attention to appearance, do not compete with arrogant people. This is simply a word of "capacity", but it is not something that can be done by anyone who does not read a thousand books, travel a thousand miles, or make friends of tens of thousands of people.

 

Tolerance is a panacea, especially in the face of adversity, when you are not sure about the move, you should lie like a fish on the chopping board and raise a knife. That is to say, to wait for changes, to remain unchanged, that is, to look for a contingency in the constant tolerance. Because a patient can support a hundred brave and a quiet person can make hundreds of movements.

 

Friendly contact. To be generous; to the wicked, be solemn; to those who have no bad habits or good deeds, be strict with them. For example, if a person who has a good temperament commits an accident, he should be patient with extensiveness. However, he must not be patient with the wicked, but must be severely corrected. As for communication with ordinary people, he must be moderately tempered to avoid the negligence of the other party.

 

Mencius advocates "Benevolent Government" (that is, the extension of the spirit of enduring people) and thinks that only "Benevolent Government" can "people ". Only "people and" can "protect all corners of the world ".

There are measurements to tolerate those things that do not change, the courage to change things that may change, and the wisdom to distinguish the above two things.

Standing in line with this, home to work-oriented, people to humble-based, life to endure for this.

Complaining people pour water into their shoes, making the road more difficult.

Putting it down is happiness, and tolerance is equal to peace.

 

Endure. this includes not only endurance, injustice, adversity, but also desire to endure (desire to control). You must know that the natural power of the age can endure many indulgence behaviors, but it is recorded in the account, pay back when you are old.

 

People yearn for heights. However, you cannot go over anything. We must not only have the wisdom to know when we are proud, but also the ability to endure the pain, to satisfy our hearts (the foundation of happiness, to get Joy from suffering. gain greatness from humiliation.

 

Complaints not only lose courage, but also lose friends. Who would like a man who is full of complaints.

 

An intolerable direct manifestation is revenge, and the purpose of revenge is nothing more than flat those who offend you. If there is a measure to forgive others for their offense, it will make you better quality than the counterfeiter. This kind of generous man is a hero of entrepreneurial kings. It is the glory of a person not to complain. Wise men always focus on the present and the future, and never forget the resentment. They will not only hurt your health, but will also ruin your energy, time, and happy mood for enterprising success.