What a man cares about is what determines his level.

After the more than 20-year-old man, he began to learn to run his heart, he embodied in his thoughts and self-restraint. Self-confidence is a man's most important quality, a confident man is like a seagull fighting in a storm. All the seagulls have to say is a word: "Let the storm come more violently!" "Only because he was fearless. A confident man, always able to infect others, whether these people are friends or enemies. To make others believe in you, you must first fill yourself with information. A confident man can conquer all difficulties.

A man of Grace is like a sea, not a drip, but a river. Grace makes men get more favors. It is not the eyes of the world, but the benefits of giving it to people. is so-called "Prime Minister Belly can punting", a Heart like the sea man, belly don't know how many boats ah! The elegance makes men look chic.

Second, develop the habit of reading and writing

After the more than 20-year-old man, he began to go into the society, in the process of interacting with others, the conversation and accomplishment is the most able to conquer others. A man of knowledge must be a frequent reader, a wise man must write often. No matter how busy you are, take time to read books and write articles. Because it can change a man's mind and behavior. A man wants to change his mind. The first thing to do is to read a good book, reading a book is like making a good friend, he can help you go your own way. The life of reading is the most colorful, the time of writing is the most enlightening wisdom.

The man who likes reading and writing can certainly cultivate a good mentality. Because the ocean of knowledge and wisdom is boundless, but the man who likes reading and writing can do the persistent pursuit. The pursuit is a man's thoughts, but also a man's action, never give up the pursuit of the time not engraved in the encouragement of men to fight. This battle enables a man to experience the baptism of wind and rain and grow into a towering tree. Reading makes a man cool, and writing makes a man mature.

Thirdly, try to discover the truth, goodness and beauty in life.

When men reach the age of more than 20, they must learn how to face life. What is "true", now the men more and more do not understand, it is because the men are very impetuous, they do not understand what is "sincere" to life. "True", is to be realistic, do not deceive themselves, do not deceive others, "true", is honest life, honest work, honest man the most lovable.

"Good", nature is the meaning of kindness. To treat others well is to be kind to your life. "Good" in fact, in every one of us around, do not embarrass others, do not make sarcasm, do not insult others, is the kind of behavior. Sometimes a little kindness can produce a good fruit that makes your life happy.

The philosopher said, "Life is not a lack of beauty, the lack of a letter ah beautiful eyes." Yes, life is true, too. Do not always think of their own misfortune, this will only make your life more unfortunate. You think "misfortune" is because you can't face life optimistically, life is always full of hope. As long as you raise your head and look at the sun, you can feel the warmth. In the warmth of optimism to pursue a better life, you can naturally find beauty.

Make friends with thoughtful people

When a man is more than 20 years old, he will start to choose his friends purposefully. Social relationships are very important and your circle of friends will have a big impact on your life. Men to make friends, more kindest friend, not to make a loss of friend. The so-called kindest friend are those who are helpful to you, and these people tend to be very good themselves. Multi-kindest friend is very beneficial to a person's life and work. But the real kindest friend also difficult to meet, because this kind of friend needs you to pay great sincerity, heartfelt sincerity.

A thoughtful friend, he knows that you have not treated him as a friend. If you are only using him, he will not treat you as a friend in his heart. Making friends sometimes has no purpose, you just think this person is very thoughtful and worthy of your acquaintance. But often these thoughtful friends reach out to you in your most difficult times. Friend, is one of the most important elements in a man's life. If a man wants to live like a real man, he must make friends and pay more kindest friend.

Five, must get rid of their bad habits

When a man is more than 20 years old, he has to get rid of his bad habits. Bad habits are cultivated, and good habits are cultivated. To cultivate their own good habits is to get rid of their bad habits. If a man is more than 20 years old and has such a bad habit, it is a very bad thing. These bad habits will hinder the development of your life, life will lose a lot of luster, the cause will be difficult to achieve greater success.

If you still love to sleep in, then the first sun in the morning will never shine on your smiling face. If you are always dragging your feet now, you will never be able to stand in the championship position. If you are not active to study and work, then your future can only be a bleak gray. I believe that no man wants gray life, all men expect to have a colorful life. So in order to make their life colorful, men to the age of more than 20, you have to get rid of their bad habits.

Vi. Learning patience and tolerance

When a man is more than 20 years old, he must learn patience and tolerance. There are a lot of things in society that you can't accept, but when you have to accept these things, you need to be patient. Patience with others is in fact tolerant of others, a man who can tolerate others will appear very generous. Successful men are often also a man who can endure humiliation. Endure lonely man from lonely, man's patience is for a better outbreak.

To those who say we are fools, say "I Am a fool", so that they are overwhelmed! For those who accuse us without reason, don't argue with them, because it will only make you angry. It is better to tolerate others than to hurt others, and tolerance is the best cure for others ' wounds.

Seven, maintain a good mentality, pay attention to their own body

When a man is more than 20 years old, he must learn to adjust his mind and pay attention to his body. The body is the capital of revolution, the mentality is the banknote detector. Men want to get more wealth to have a strong physique, men want to be the richest man in the long run must have a positive attitude of optimism. Attention to diet, regular exercise, adequate sleep, is the guarantee of a healthy body. Do not be anxious, hard work, let mentality decide everything.

You can not go to the morning run every day, in fact, it will not take up your long time, need only perseverance and perseverance. But you must always go to exercise your body, walking is a good choice, this will make you full of power. You can not bathe in cold water in winter, in fact, it is not a big deal, because I have also insisted on a winter. But you must often wash your face in cold water in winter, not only to prevent colds, but also to maintain a sober mind. You can fail, but you always have to maintain a winning attitude, you have no enemies to defeat yourself.

Eight, always keep your smile, let politeness become your business card

When a man is more than 20 years old, he should always keep your smile. Smiling faces, indicating that you are a kind person, all people are willing to deal with the good people. Do not write the anguish on your face, it will only keep others away from you. You are what kind of person, others through whether you smile and greet him to judge. And that judgment plays an important role in the impression you have in someone else's heart.

It is often said that "details determine success or failure," and this detail is often reflected in whether you are a polite person. A polite person who knows how to care for others. Others will give you the chance to succeed because of your politeness and concern. A man's business card is a smile and courtesy, and it is a pass for men to achieve their career.

Nine, the pursuit of a true love woman, you will never regret

When a man is more than 20 years old, he will crave love very slowly. This is the very right thing, do not suppress their feelings from the heart. A man's stupidest and most lovable time is when he falls in love with a woman. When you love a woman but do not know if she will fall in love with you, you must choose an appropriate time to her confession, the woman most desire must be a deep love for her man.

Love such things can not be forced, men must understand. Do not because you can not get your love to let your friendship easily lost, and a woman you once loved to become friends is a rare good. Love is sacrosanct because it is the most willing choice of people, it embodies the respect and trust between people, so men must respect the choice of the woman you love, I believe her choice is for her own happiness and make the decision. As long as you've been chasing a woman you really love, you won't regret it all your life.

Ten, for their own cause to pay everything

When a man is more than 20 years old, he must strive hard for his career. Men most important is the cause, no cause of the man can not be counted as a real man, the cause of men do not have to be vigorous, but must have achievements, can make oneself proud and proud. A career-minded man, but also a winning heart and the same strong sense of responsibility of men. The man who wins the heart is never unwilling to be mediocre. A man of strong sense of responsibility, never afraid of difficulties, men because of their successful career and become tall, so as to gain the respect and trust of others.

As a man, he must give everything for his career. To be successful you have to give, and giving means losing something. If you don't want to pay any price for your career, you can only lose more, and you'll end up with nothing.

Xi. Love and career can be shared.

When men reach the age of more than 20, they should strive to achieve a double harvest of love and career. People often say that if a man chooses love, he loses his career, and if he chooses his career, he will not get love. I just don't think so, but I think the sweeter the man, the more successful career. In fact, love and career are two different things, love the vigorous man, a little will not hinder their success in the cause. A man with love and moisture must be more mature, more charming and more determined to do business than a man who does not know what it tastes like.

More than 20-year-old men, do not believe the extreme people say. As people often say, "Marriage is the Tomb of Love," This is too extreme. The difference between marriage and love is just a little more "daily necessities", can say that marriage is a complete love, before the love is just in a phase of love. Only through marriage can men and women thoroughly understand what is love. Love is mutual understanding, mutual encouragement, mutual support. In life to help each other, in the cause of each other to help, so that love and career can double harvest.

12, must strive to do better than the woman

When a man is more than 20 years old, he must try to do better than a woman in anything. Even in some things that are impossible to do better than women, try to do as well as women. This is not to say that men are born to be stronger than women, but that men are inherently better than women. Because as long as women work hard, it is easy to go beyond men, so men should know that efforts than women do better is the right thing. In today's society, women are becoming more and more important, and women have the right to choose men for the first time. So if you, as a man, can't do better than a woman, then why do women choose you?

Women often say "women can hold up half the sky," and now women do better than men in certain areas of the world that belong to men. So men are not only doing very well in their own fields, but also doing well in the area where they belong to women.

13. Try to help your wife realize her dream

When a man is more than 20 years old, if you are married, you must try your best to help your wife realize her dream. It is often said that "men conquer the world by conquering women, women by conquering men to conquer the world", so a woman who has conquered you, you must try to help her conquer the world. A woman's dream never disappears because she lives with a man, it only becomes stronger. The strong desire and dream of a woman may not appear in front of you, but you must understand it in your heart.

Wife is the core of a man's life, wife life is happy, men must have a relationship. Don't think your wife is going to come home and serve you. Every man's wife cares about her husband, and every man learns to care for his wife. And the most concerned about his wife, is to care about her dream, what to do to help his wife realize her dream.

14, learn to brave some, to take up their own responsibilities

When a man is more than 20 years old, he must learn to be brave and take up his shoulder to bear the duty of belonging to himself. Filial piety parents is a man's responsibility, love wife and children is a man's responsibility, achievement career is also a man's responsibility. A man's responsibility is nothing more than a family and career. These responsibilities are really heavy, but as a man you have to take your shoulder. There is no reason, just because you are a man.

Men have the power to weep, but they have no right to cry aloud. Men have the power to shed tears, but they have no right to weep in front of their parents and wives. Men have the power to give up, but they do not have the power to give up their family and career responsibilities. As a man, you have no choice, you can only choose to bear, with your shoulder to bear.

Never give up on yourself, believe that you can do it.

When a man is more than 20 years old, he must never give up on himself. People give up on you because you have given up on yourself. Believe that as long as you do not give up on yourself, no one will give up you or say no one can give up on you. Believe that you are a man to overcome all the power of the source, do not believe that his man did not have the reason for success, because his foot has spanned the failure of the tomb.

There is a slogan, saying "Believe in yourself, power in the heart." There is also a slogan, saying "I can". Yes, I think, I also believe that as long as every man can believe in himself, you will be able to do it.

What a man cares about is what determines his level.