What a man cares for determines his level.

What a man cares for determines his level.

First, have confidence and grace
When a man is more than 20 years old, he will begin to learn to run his own heart, which is embodied in his thoughts and self-restraint. Self-confidence is a man's most important quality, a confident man is like a seagull fighting in a storm. All the seagulls have to say is, " let the storm come a little more violently , "just because it is fearless. A confident man, always able to infect others, whether these people are friends or enemies. To make others believe in you, you must first have confidence in yourself. A confident man can conquer all difficulties.
A man of Grace is like a sea, not a drip, but a river. Has the grace to make the man obtain more favor, does not struggle for the present world, gives the talented person to be able to benefit infinitely. is so-called " Prime Minister Belly can punting ", a heart like the sea man, belly don't know how many boats ah! Grace makes men look chic.

Second, develop the habit of reading and writing
After the more than 20-year-old man, he began to go into the society, in the process of interacting with others, talk and self-cultivation is the most able to conquer others. A man of knowledge must be a frequent reader, a wise man must write often. No matter how busy you are, take time to read books and write articles. Because it can change a man's mind and behavior. A man wants to change his mind. The first thing to do is to read a good book, reading a book is like making a good friend, he can help you go your own way. The life of reading is the most colorful, the time of writing is the most enlightening wisdom.
The man who likes reading and writing can certainly cultivate a good mentality. Because the ocean of knowledge and wisdom is boundless, but the man who likes reading and writing can do the persistent pursuit. The pursuit is a man's thoughts, but also a man's action, never give up the pursuit of, without a moment in the encouragement of men to fight. In this battle, so that a man can experience the baptism of wind and rain, grow into a towering tree. Reading makes a man cool, and writing makes a man mature.

Thirdly, try to discover the truth, goodness and beauty in life.
When men reach the age of more than 20, they must learn how to face life. What is"really", now the men more and more do not understand, it is because the men are very impetuous now, they do not understand what is"sincerely"To live. "really", is to be realistic about themselves, do not deceive themselves, do not deceive others. "really", is honest man, honest work, honest men the most lovable. "Good", nature is kind of meaning. To treat others well is to be kind to your life. "Good"in fact, in every one of us, do not embarrass others, do not sarcasm others, do not insult others, is good behavior. Sometimes a little kindness can produce a good fruit that makes your life happy.
The philosopher said,"There is no lack of beauty in life, the lack of the eyes to find beauty". Yes, life is true, too. Do not always think of their own misfortune, this will only make your life more unfortunate. Do you think"unfortunate"because you can't be optimistic about life, life is always full of hope. As long as you raise your head and look at the sun, you can feel the warmth. In the warmth of optimism to pursue a good life, you can naturally find beauty.

Make friends with thoughtful people
When a man is more than 20 years old, he will start to choose his friends purposefully. Social relationships are very important and your circle of friends will have a big impact on your life. Men to make friends, more kindest friend, not to make a loss of friend. The so-called kindest friend are those who are helpful to you, and these people tend to be very good themselves. Multi-kindest friend is very beneficial to a person's life and work. But the real kindest friend also difficult to meet, because this kind of friend needs you to pay great sincerity, heartfelt sincerity.
A thoughtful friend, he knows that you have not treated him as a friend. If you are only using him, he will not treat you as a friend in his heart. Sometimes there is no purpose in making friends, you just think that this person is very thoughtful and worthy of your fellowship. But often these thoughtful friends reach out to you in your most difficult times. Friend, is one of the most important elements in a man's life. If a man wants to live like a man, he must make friends and pay more kindest friend.

Five, must get rid of their bad habits
When a man is more than 20 years old, he has to get rid of his bad habits. Bad habits are cultivated, good habits are also cultivated. To cultivate their own good habits is to get rid of their bad habits. If a man is more than 20 years old and has such a bad habit, it is a very bad thing. These bad habits will hinder the development of your life, life will lose a lot of luster, the cause will be difficult to achieve greater success.
If you still love to sleep in, then the first sun in the morning will never shine on your smiling face. If you are always procrastinating, you will never be able to stand in the championship position. If you are not active to study and work, then your future can only be a bleak gray. I believe that no man wants gray life, all men expect to have a colorful life. So in order to make their life colorful, men to the age of more than 20, you have to get rid of their bad habits.

Vi. Learning patience and tolerance
When a man is more than 20 years old, he must learn patience and tolerance. There are a lot of things in society that you can't accept, but when you have to accept these things, you need to be patient. Patience with others is in fact tolerant of others, a man who can tolerate others will appear very generous. Successful men are often also a man who can endure humiliation. Endure lonely man from lonely, man's patience is for a better outbreak.
To those who say we are fools, say " I am a fool ", so that they are overwhelmed! For those who accuse us without reason, do not argue with them, for it will only make you angry. Instead of hurting others, it is better to tolerate others, tolerance is the best cure for the wounds of others panacea.

Seven, maintain a good mentality, pay attention to their own body
When a man is more than 20 years old, he must learn to adjust his mind and pay attention to his body. The body is the capital of revolution, the mentality is the banknote detector. Men want to get more wealth to have a strong physique, men want to be the richest man in the long run must have a positive attitude of optimism. Pay attention to diet, often exercise, plenty of sleepy sleep, is a healthy body guarantee. Do not be anxious, hard work, let mentality decide everything.
You can not go to the morning run every day, in fact, it will not take up your long time, need only perseverance and perseverance. But you must always go to exercise your body, walking is a good choice, this will make you full of power. You can not bathe in cold water in winter, in fact, it is not a big deal, because I have also insisted on a winter. But you must often wash your face in cold water in winter, not only to prevent colds, but also to maintain a sober mind. You can fail, but you always have to maintain a winning attitude, you have no enemies to defeat yourself.

Eight, always keep your smile, let politeness become your business card
When a man is more than 20 years old, he should always keep your smile. Smiling faces, indicating that you are a kind person, all people are willing to deal with the good people. Do not write the anguish on your face, it will only keep others away from you. You are what kind of person, others through whether you smile and greet him to judge. And that judgment plays an important role in the impression you have in someone else's heart.
It is often said that " details determine success or failure , "and this detail is often reflected in whether you are a polite person. A polite person who knows how to care for others. Others will give you the chance to succeed because of your politeness and concern. A man's business card is a smile and courtesy, and it is a pass for men to achieve their career.

Nine, the pursuit of a woman you really love, you will never regret
When a man is more than 20 years old, he will crave love very slowly. This is a very normal thing, do not suppress their feelings from the heart. A man's stupidest and most lovable time is when he falls in love with a woman. When you love a woman but do not know if she will fall in love with you, you must choose an appropriate time to confess to him. As for his choice to accept also choose to refuse it depends on your fate and your efforts. A man must understand that a woman's most longing must be a man who loves her deeply.
Love such things can not be forced, men must understand. Do not because you can not get your love to let your friendship easily lost, and a woman you once loved to become friends is a rare good. Love is sacrosanct because it is the most willing choice, it embodies the respect and trust between people. So men must respect the choice of the woman you love, and believe that her choice is for her own happiness to make the decision. As long as you've been chasing a woman you really love, you won't regret it all your life.

Ten, for their own cause to pay everything
When a man is more than 20 years old, he must strive hard for his career. The most important thing for a man is a career, a man without a career is not a real man. The man's career is uncertain and vigorous, but must have achievements, can make oneself feel proud and proud. A man of ambition and strong, but also a man of the same strong sense of responsibility. The man who wins the heart is never unwilling to be mediocre. A man with a strong sense of responsibility never fears difficulty. Men become tall because of their successful career, thus gaining the respect and trust of others.
As a man, he must give everything for his career. To be successful you have to give, and giving means losing something. If you don't want to pay any price for your career, you can only lose more, and you'll end up with nothing.

Xi. Love and career can be shared.
When men reach the age of more than 20, they should strive to achieve a double harvest of love and career. People often say that if a man chooses love, he loses his career, and if he chooses his career, he will not get love. I just don't think so, but I think the sweeter the man, the more successful career. In fact, love and career are two different things, love a vigorous man, will not hinder their success in the cause. A man with love and moisture must be more mature, more charming and more determined to do business than a man who does not know what it tastes like.
More than 20-year-old men, do not believe the extreme people say. As people often say, " marriage is the tomb of Love , "this is too extreme. The difference between marriage and love is just a little more " daily necessities ", can say that marriage is a complete love, before the love is just in a phase of love. It is only through marriage that men and women have a thorough understanding of what is love. Love is mutual understanding, mutual encouragement, mutual support. In life to help each other, in the cause of each other to help, so that love and career can double harvest.

12, must strive to do better than the woman
When a man is more than 20 years old, he must try to do better than a woman in anything. Even in some things that are impossible to do better than women, try to do as well as women. This is not to say that men are born to be stronger than women, but that men are inherently better than women. Because as long as women work hard, it is easy to go beyond men, so men should know that efforts than women do better is the right thing. In today's society, women are becoming more and more important, and women have the right to choose men for the first time. So if you, as a man, can't do better than a woman, then why do women choose you?
Women often say " women can hold up half the sky, "and now women do better than men in certain areas of the world that belong to men. So men not only in their own field to do very well, but also to be in the area of the woman to do the same excellent.

13. Try to help your wife realize her dream
When a man is more than 20 years old, if you are married, you must try your best to help your wife realize her dream. People learn that " men Conquer the world by conquering women, women conquer the world by conquering men , "so a woman who has conquered you must try to help her conquer the world. A woman's dream never disappears because she lives with a man, it only becomes stronger. The strong desire and dream of a woman may not appear in front of you, but you must understand it in your heart.
Wife is the core of a man's life, wife life is happy, men must care. Do not think that your wife will take you home to serve you. Every man's wife cares about her husband, and every man learns to care for his wife. And the most concerned about his wife, is to care about her dream is what, how to help his wife to achieve her dream.

14, learn to be brave, to assume responsibility on their shoulders
Men to the age of more than 20, to learn to be brave, busty up his shoulder to assume the responsibility of their own duty. Filial piety is a man's responsibility, love his wife and children is a man's responsibility, the achievement of the cause is also a man's responsibility. A man's responsibility is nothing more than a family and career. These responsibilities are really heavy, but as a man you have to busty up your shoulders to bear. There is no reason, just because you are a man.
Men have the power to weep, but they have no right to cry aloud. Men have the power to shed tears, but they have no right to weep in front of their parents and wives. Men have the power to give up, but they have no right to abandon their family and career responsibilities. As a man, you have no choice, you can only choose to bear, with your shoulder to bear.

Never give up on yourself, believe that you can do it.
When a man is more than 20 years old, he must never give up on himself. The reason why others give up on you is because you have given up on yourself first. Believe that as long as you do not give up on yourself, no one will give up you or say no one can give up on you. Believe that you are a man to overcome all the power of the source, do not believe that his man did not have the reason for success, because his foot has spanned the failure of the tomb.
There is a slogan, saying " believe in yourself, power in the heart ." There is also a slogan, saying " I can ". Yes, I think, I also believe that as long as every man can believe in himself, you will be able to do it.

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What a man cares for determines his level.