What is home?

What is home? The home is jointly run by husband and wife, weaving a dream and bitter nest.

The family is not a simple concept. The sociologist said that the family is the smallest cell of society. The marriage scholar said that the family is a world of two people dependent on the storm. The writer said that a group of pig was raised under the treasure. What is home? Many people think this is not worth thinking about. Let's hear a story first. A rich man was drunk out of his villa. His security guard helped him and said, "Sir, let me help you go home! "The rich man asked the security guard:" home ?! Where is my home? Can you help me get home ?". The security guard was puzzled and pointed to the villa not far away and said, "Isn't that your home ?" The rich man pointed to his heart and the luxury villa not far away. He replied intermittently, "That's not my house, it's just my house."

Home is not a house, not a color TV, not a refrigerator, not a space built up by material. The richness of things can give us a bit of sensory pleasure, but it is just a flash. Imagine that in that space, if it is full of violence and Cold War, with a different dream in bed, and with a close look, the "home" will not become its home. And become a battle battlefield. Cars are nothing more than the tragedy in this modern battlefield. It's no wonder that there are some major self-made jokes: "I am so poor that I only have money left !"

Family members who need love. A special sense of truth is needed. Two people who care about each other are home. Here, the family becomes a kind of belief, a religion, and a kind of spiritual support.

Home is the combination of love, home of the world, all gather for love, no love but scattered.

Home is a harbor of affection, home is the cradle of growth, home is the habitat of soul, Home is the place that can best indulge oneself, home is a spiritual paradise. Home is the emotion you share with your family. When you have it, it is ordinary, such as rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, and vinegar. When you lose it, you cannot find it.

Without the harmony of the family, there will be no social harmony, no peace of the family, and no peace and order of the whole society.

How can we deal with the relationship between husband and wife? This is the most critical issue at home. The so-called: "A hundred years of building the same boat, a thousand years of building a total of pillows ." Husband and wife are two hemisphere. "A Half Ball cannot be rolled, and another hemisphere is required ." So how can couples get along to make their families harmonious? Husband and wife must understand, trust, respect, and tolerate each other. It is like holding a handful of sand, holding it loose, it will not leak at all, the tighter you hold, the more it leaks.

Home is a culture; home is a period of time; home is a kind of feeling. A husband and wife have two legs. If they want to stand firm and walk, no one can leave them alone. Why does one leg always complain about the other leg. Some couples say that they have been married for decades without conflict or disagreement. They can assert that at least one of them is not responsible for the family and has no concern for the other. Marriage is a comfortable headache. The family is not a rational place. It is difficult for couples to get confused ." If neither of them is confused, this family will never be ready. "Happy families are similar, and unfortunate families have their own misfortunes," he said ".

The best marital configuration department is not equal to the best marital status, but does not look up to men or women, and love will not happen. Marriage will not be lingering. love lies in "fans". It is not love if you are too sober, computation, or comparison. Happy marriage, love and conscience are everything, marriage is pure "selfish", love is holy "greedy", once you are not selfish, it means that you are no longer important to her.

Marriage is like tea, the first tea is in love, strong fragrance and fragrance; the second tea is like a wedding, fresh to people; the third tea is like a new month or secret year of marriage, plain water, we need to taste it with a normal mind to appreciate the real interest in it.

Qian Zhongshu said: "The family is a golden bird cage. The birds outside the cage want to live in and the birds inside the cage want to fly out ."

Divorce is a "Rich disease". If you are poor, you want to settle, and if you are rich, you want to change. The marriage without love is unstable, and the rest of the marriage with love is also unstable. Time and distance can warm up and reduce love. The worst women also want to find a good man, the worst man also wants to find a good woman, so marriage is an Everlasting Regret.

Marriage is serious, divorce is hasty, re-marriage is serious and hasty, marriage is necessary, divorce is forced, re-marriage is forced, marriage is happy, divorce is happy, re-marriage is good, after several twists and turns, I found that competitors in the world are generally fierce.

Men are philosophy, and women are poetry. Philosophy without poetry is boring, and poetry without philosophy is superficial. Philosophy is rational and poetry is emotional. to read poetry, men must first understand their own philosophy. To understand philosophy, women must first understand their own poems, deep philosophy can only resonate with poems with appropriate charm, so the best is not necessarily suitable for you, and the best is the best for you.

They all say that my wife is a good person. In fact, I know my big shoes and big shoes. I love my wife and love others. The fake wine mixed with water is water or wine. I love my husband and love others. There is only a pleasant start point, there is no happy end, there are too many good men, not to compare with the husband, there are too many good women, not to compare with the wife, it is dangerous.

Seeing the high performance of an official officer is not comparable, not inferior to her husband's incompetence. Seeing the beautiful cool and cool without evil thoughts, and wanting the favor of husband and wife, the weakness of a woman is an illusion, weakness, but not deception, and a man who wants to uniform a woman, there are several men who are not under the uniform of women. Women are not weak, and women are the source of male strength. The men are not from the encouragement of female and female. They are not as good as women, there are no fewer women than men.

Lin Yutang said: "A woman is water. It is wine in the wine, and vinegar in the vinegar ". The value of a woman depends on his man.

Don't say that women can't be separated from men. Men need women more. Men without women cannot live. Women without men can still live. A man is water, a woman is a dike, and there is no water that doesn't want to throw the dike. A man is a tornado volcano. Although his appearance is calm, the ground fire is burning. Once a volcano bursts out, it is the beast of the flood.

Men express love through sex, women understand love through sex, and harmony is the fertile land of husband and wife harmony. Poverty and cold are not equal to no warm home. A good husband cherishes the tender feelings of his wife, sorry for the hardships of being weak and holding the house, I only care about the control and do not understand the pity. I am not a good husband. The wife's sage is the most valuable family wealth. The sage is wise first, and then wise. the silly woman takes the sage as a disadvantage, and the wise woman applies gold to her husband's face, A silly woman blurs her husband's face, and his wife despise her husband, which is the most profound tragedy of the family.

The process of her care must be nagging. This is the relief of her happiness. Never interrupt the happy music in her heart. The wife is a gift of love, and the tenderness is given to her husband. Women who despise her husband will not coquee in front of her husband. Which man is not afraid of his wife? "fear" is humility and a credential of love.

The most ideal relationship between husband and wife is intimacy with proper alienation, while being honest with others is reserved for stability, so that you can have two feelings and a personal world.

If the husband and wife can treat each other as their best friend, then the hands of the two will be very tight.

The most important thing to love a person is not the vow and sweet words. Some trivial things in life can better reflect his affection for you. That is the password of love.

The secret to getting along with a person you love for a long time is to give up the idea of changing objects. For the sake of continued love, the happiness of marriage, the wife must please the husband, and the husband must also please the wife. As for how to please, it is a high-level art. Pride cannot be long, desire cannot be vertical, joy cannot be extreme, ambition cannot be full.

Trust is the most important feature shared by two people in a marital relationship. It is also essential to establish a pleasant and growing relationship. Married Person, half-blind and half-closed life also, there is no perfect men and women in the world, if the eyes are too long, or with a mirror for too long, I am afraid that even God can pick out the problem. The most valuable thing in husband and wife life is sincerity, trust, and thoughtfulness. In a happy marriage, everyone should respect each other's interests and hobbies. Think that two people can have the same idea, the same judgment, the same desire, is the most absurd thought. In a harmonious family, each husband and wife must have at least one "idiot. Couples are like strings on the same string. They shake harmoniously in the same melody, but they are independent of each other.

A matching couple can withstand all possible disasters. When they live together in poverty, they are much happier than a couple who possess all the world's property but are isolated from each other.

In the young age, the quarrel between husband and wife is a tangle of love, while the quarrel between husband and wife after the age is gloomy.
Half of her husband is responsible for being deprecated. My husband is not loyal, and my wife has half the responsibility. If the other party is forced to flee, the greater the responsibility will be. Qualified wives should make their husbands the creators of social wealth through their own efforts.
In real life, a good man may not be able to marry a good woman. A good woman may not be able to marry a good man. A good man and a good man may not be happy to live together. There are thousands of people, and there are hundreds of ways in the world. Each person has different personalities, tastes, and qualities. The way couples get along is different. One hundred couples get along with each other in one hundred ways. Marriage is like a banquet. Love is a staple food. tolerance, understanding, trust, and respect are a single dish. Appreciation, humor, and taste are wine and drinks. Only one banquet with the above varieties is available, it is a perfect banquet. I hope everyone can enjoy a comfortable, peaceful, and permanent meal on the banquet of marriage until the last breath of life.