I am a programmer of php technology. I have been working at home for almost three years. The main source of the Project is Weike. Channels. I am a deaf person and cannot adapt to society. The main problem is communication. No friends, no classmates, only customers. I have never been to work in the company. Don't tell me to go to work in the company. I start a business at home more than my company's monthly salary. Even if I go to work at the company, I cannot communicate normally. I almost live in the world of the online world. I spend almost a dozen hours on my computer every day instead of working so long. Instead, I study, watch movies, play games, and I will talk about my situation first, I am a programmer with php Technology and have been working at home for almost three years. The main source of the Project is Weike. Channels. I am a deaf person and cannot adapt to society. The main problem is communication. No friends, no classmates, only customers. I have never been to work in the company. Don't tell me to go to work in the company. I start a business at home more than my company's monthly salary. Even if I go to work at the company, I cannot communicate normally.
I almost live in the world of the online world. I spend almost a dozen hours on my computer every day, instead of working for so long. Instead, I study, watch movies, play games, do projects, and watch news. Occasionally, they will also go out for a tour.
I had my own entrepreneurial idea one year ago. I still can't find a partner until now. The main reason for my personal experience is to communicate with Lunan.
I want to know what kind of changes will happen in the future: a person stayed at home for a year, wrote a project that he thought was interesting, had dinner, slept, and wrote code for a whole year; one of my friends wrote a project and resigned for two years. We all failed, of course.
Computers are much more interesting than most people in the world (including people you are familiar with). Therefore, people do not think that interpersonal communication is necessary. People need to communicate with each other. Otherwise, their thinking will break down, it will die, just as if I don't eat. If I meet an interesting person in a forum, simple and honest communication is much better than vulgar interpersonal relationships. This is not suitable for everyone, however, since you have asked this question, this method is probably suitable for you. Otherwise, you may not have chosen this option for three years at the beginning.
A friend may not be in space, but may also spend half a summer watching him when I can't write the code. I feel that if I read the code earlier, if you don't waste your time on the so-called study, it's good for women.
It is certainly good to have a good partner to do things together, but I have always felt that the cultural attributes of the Chinese people are not suitable for us to do things together. I tried to do things and all of them failed. The problem is with both sides. How many enterprises are working with their own partners? It may not be a single fight, but it is a long way to achieve it.
I went back and forth to work in the workplace and went to work in a foreign company. I didn't think there was much lack of communication skills. I wanted to spend a year alone and wanted something much wider than making money in my own business, I feel that I have a wide heart and can put more things down. It may be because I have no need to regulate myself for a while away from society.
Nothing.
Of course, this is just me. Fading, whether it is appearance, language ability or social ability happiness, do not want to go to work very much .... I suggest making more friends to broaden my horizons. Find a girlfriend. I don't know the health condition of the house, but can I improve it through auxiliary equipment? Do not feel inferior to this problem. Human beings are social animals. No matter what the body is, the species have determined that you must communicate with other individuals. You have to check it yourself.
- In terms of health, first pinch your belly's fat and go for a running fitness program.
- Psychologically, there has been a long lack of real communication with the society, and the last words are useless. Over time, problems such as social fear may occur. If you are idle, go out and participate in social activities. If you want to watch a movie, go to a cinema, and make more travel conversations.
- In terms of career development, it is assumed that communication is okay. However, you have never experienced team development and do not know whether you understand the degree of development of external technologies. If you still choose to use PHP as the entrepreneurial Foundation, both team building and enterprise technical development require this experience. If you have the ability, you can participate in some open-source projects, multi-bubble communities, and more technical salons.
No matter what kind of career you choose, you must go out of your small room. The main reason is that people will wither.
At first, I was bored in my company. There are people around you who can't say anything. I don't understand each other. You really don't want to go to a group activity, and you don't need to be criticized again. I very much hope to be at home.
Later, I stayed at home for some reason. There is income, no one cares. No pressure.
Gradually become very unhappy. I started to want to play with people...
So I purchased virtual services for lovers and friends. Because I don't want to disturb my friends, they are all busy at work and family.
At first, I had a good time chatting with the service personnel I purchased. I feel that someone is with me. Later, I was quite interested.
I think it is mainly because they are service personnel, so they all follow me .... It's boring to say anything.
If you want to exercise, you cannot raise your mind. Remember what you always want to do when you are busy. -- Nonsense. As a female, I don't have to go out, even saving my face, brush my teeth, and shave my eyebrows. What else can I do. ┑ (￣) ┍
I think back to this time last year, my friends and I were very tired but also very happy, running, swimming, walking and dancing.
This year, my friends left the local area. I was lazy and now I have no dancing. I only have fat meat in my stomach... The world passes. It seems that I am not the same. The change is big.
So absolute freedom is meaningless.
The tree is moved to death. To be active. It's about to die. Although very tired. Actually, let's look at my character.
I once coded it for two months in the hut alone. Every day I talked to people about it.
"Boss, submit xxx" x3
However, it is still well organized to talk to people outside the country. It is completely independent from being alone for a long time and has not become afraid of being born.
To be honest, code and house alone are not the same. Code is a process of thinking, just like solving a mathematical problem, but it takes a long time, there is no fault in thinking and doing things.
Most houses are introverted and cannot communicate with each other.
By the way, I often talk to my dog at home, although it seems like I am talking to myself
However, the subject may be introverted due to inherent reasons, and more inclined to communicate with people in text, to be honest, I don't think there is any inconvenience in my career because it is more convenient than the actual conversation.
However, if people interact with each other, such as friends and lovers, in a more intimate relationship, there are many ways to communicate with each other, such as physical means. This feeling is that the words cannot be conveyed for a long time, what is the impact? Experience a little bit, sometimes people need to be alone, sometimes they need to contact the outside world, work can be at home or outside, the kind of work that makes them happy to work there, there is also more to communicate with family members (at least once a week, whatever you want to say, there is no soy sauce in the House, it is good to order soy sauce !). Then, I want to find a few people with the same interests to do things together or join a team that I am interested in. Finally, I find that I have gained far more benefits than I do! Both humans and computers are worse!
