Write your goals for the year on a piece of paper-Leonardo retzman

I suggest that you write your goals for the past year on one piece of paper, and then write your goals for life or long distances on another piece of paper. Your Goals should be either one, however, there can be only one major goal in all aspects of life, that is, there should be no conflicting goals.

You can also write the target on a card and carry it with you for reference. You can also bury the target in your mind.

When clarifying your goals, you need to answer two fundamental questions: What kind of people do I want to be? What do I want to do? Write your answer clearly. For example, if you want to be a writer, do you want to write a novel, a newspaper or a column, or contribute freely to a magazine? Be as clear as possible. Writing down your goals is just the beginning, but you always have to start from a place. As a saying goes: instead of cursing the darkness, why don't you light a candle?

The second part that spans the distance between you and your target is "action ". The goal is not a dream, but a dream supported by action. Everything we have, from houses to toys, is just the result of an idea being put into action. Do not wait until the situation is perfect, and the situation will never be perfect. Tomorrow, wait a minute, next week, next month, or next year. It is usually the word "never. "One day" usually means "never mind for the rest of your life", so let's start and start now. If you are afraid that you will not be able to complete one task, you must turn the time of your worries into the time of your work.

Successful people know that everything is difficult. However, it does not make things easy, but it will reduce your determination.

What determines you to take action is not what you know, but how you feel. The feeling of your thoughts determines what you want to do. This is why "dynamic sentiment" is so important, especially when you apply it to enthusiasm. When you feel strong enough, you will do all the necessary actions to turn this feeling into action. Life is short, and you may think you can do it. When will you start?

The third part that spans the distance between you and the target is "persistence ". People who use "dynamic emotions" never give up their philosophy of life. If you have a goal and a plan, and the willingness and confidence from the use of "dynamic emotions", will you sit down and give up?

When the lights are on at the intersection, you will step on the brakes and put the stalls in the air. After the train passes, you will continue to move forward, but you will never push the stalls to the reverse shift and turn around. If you are driving on the road and meet a "road closed" sign, you will not camp for the night or drive home. The sign on the road only indicates that you cannot go from this road to your destination. You can go another way.

Many people encounter "detour" in their lives and think that this road is so far. You must know that there are still road signs on the road to tell you how to detour forward. You only need to look for it, follow the steps forward, and finally embark on the right path.

Many successful people find that their greatest success is the result of one step after the greatest failure. Therefore, when you are approaching your goal, you must never give up. Your greatest success is likely to be followed by your complete failure. Let me tell you three secrets of persistence.

Stick to the goal, not necessarily stick to the method. We often hear that others encourage us to stick to our goals, but we do not have to stick to our strategies. We may wish to combine persistence with the experiment spirit.

Before Edison invented the electric lamp, he had performed thousands of experiments. Note that he conducts experiments in a "different" way. Every failure means that he knows another method that he cannot use, and brings him closer to success. You don't have to rush to give up a method, but you may have to change your strategy to some extent. However, the goal is always the same and you don't have to give up.

Objectives and causes. Goals tell you what you are pursuing, but you must also determine why you want to set this goal, that is, what are the benefits of achieving it. When you are struggling to pursue your goals, but you still have to stick to them, these are the reasons that drive your continued efforts, not just the Goals themselves. So you should also focus on the benefits.

Successful users can also use legitimate excuses. Successful people can have the same reason as losers. If you study the lives of successful people, you will find that they will not use the excuses we often hear about low-achieving people.

Some people always seek an excuse to bow down and refuse to correct their mistakes and move on. It is dangerous to find an excuse to repeat mistakes and blame your parents, environment, poor health, age, and age. It will waste time and energy, impede the solution of the problem.

When you say "there is a solution", even if you do not know what to do next, you will also turn negative into positive. Similar ideas and feelings will attract each other: If you say "nothing is done", various negative thoughts will attract each other and persuade you to think that you are right; if you believe that there is always a solution to the problem, positive thoughts will attract each other and help you find a solution based on the strength you feel.

If you think you cannot succeed, you will find it very difficult to stick to it. Lincoln won the election only after countless setbacks, but he was able to continue to overcome every obstacle because he had made his mind in advance. He has already decided not to give up. In his own words, it is "one failure does not give up, 100 failures do not give up ". Do you know who Lincoln is? Do you remember Edison? They have one thing in common-Never give up. Do you know who Justin William is? You never heard of him because he gave up.

Wu zhanghong comments:

Child: whether a person can succeed depends on his mentality, understanding himself, and surpassing himself. It is neither out of reality nor unreasonable. It is the self-challenge to achieve the goal after establishing the goal of life. I believe I can do it. Discovering yourself is both a kind of ability and wisdom, a kind of virtue, a kind of noble personality realm, and the first step towards success.

A person's belief in adversity or difficulty is far more important than anything else, because faith determines fate. Children, you must understand how to adapt to adversity in a timely manner, and persevere and give up. Because people who are flexible in doing things and know how to adapt in a timely manner can always achieve better results than others.