Lower the goal first: to survive and study

Lower the goal first: to survive and study

To survive? From which perspective, the realm and style are too low! Teachers will say that the education for teenagers has always been ambitious. since childhood, we have to establish lofty ideals and ambitious aspirations. How can we study for the survival of individuals? The parents will think that we will not lose our children on the starting line, and will spend our effort and money from kindergarten. Even if we do not expect them to become a child, we will have to figure a future without any worries! The students are even more dismissive about this: Hum, it's too small to look at people! Now the world is peaceful. The rise of China has given Americans an extra level of worry. There are more opportunities for success. Who should worry about survival? So the boys who want to do business are determined not to be Bill. gates wants to be sun Zhengyi. Even if they cannot become Zhang Ziyi, they also want to compete for the main role in the New Dream of Red Mansions. At the worst, they are also "Super Girls ". Is this ideal wrong? Good! To be honest, when students walk all the way, apply Fan Wei's classic line in the sketch: "That's what I think !"

But when we take off the students' coat and become a social person, we will feel the gap between our ideals and reality! Recently, the Beijing Youth Daily sub-Journal published an article by a student who has been out of school for a short time. "In the aura of the holy ivory tower, we do not know how cruel the competition is. If we put on the coat of students at school, we can make minor mistakes and forgive us. If we are a little lazy, We can forgive us; as long as you do some trivial things, some people will scream: more sensible, know that work-study programs reduce the burden for the family, can not help but float. In normal times, when I spent a few months in advance, I had to do more unrealistic things. I never thought of adding extra points to my job in the future. I always felt that my work was nowhere in the sky ." "After graduation, I discovered that the underlayer of the students had taken off, but we were at the bottom of the social pyramid. Without work experience, we could not find a job or a job, no work organization can call up archives, and social insurance cannot be obtained if files cannot be transferred out. To be nice, we are unemployed college students, and we are unemployed people. The most anxious thing is that there is no income without a job, and survival is a problem. Fortunately, no family room is dragging down, but there is no income. What can we do to build a family? "It's really two days out of school!

This old brother is talking about the difficulty of finding a job. Is it all right if I find a job? None! At present, the pursuit of profit maximization is the best rule for enterprises, and enterprises need to save and develop. When the boss decides to reduce the cost for the benefit, he will not hesitate to cut down his staff and will never show mercy for your survival. According to my observations, the survival of only two types of people today is not a problem. One is "others do not want to do the work he wants to do" and the other is "others cannot do the work he can do ", people outside of these two groups of people will have their own concerns, while most of the students who have just become social students are unwilling to be the former and cannot become a large group of the latter. It should be noted that the existing national subsistence allowances policy will not make people unable to survive. My so-called survival problem refers to the normal living conditions under the current economic level. Otherwise, the family will try their best to cultivate us and eventually survive with the national subsistence allowances, the result of this huge cost deficit is not as good as zero investment.

Therefore, we must reflect on our education. Whether it is school education, family education, or social education, there is often a lack of survival crisis awareness education. After entering the society, I feel deeply aware that this neglected education is really necessary. The common phenomenon nowadays is as mentioned in the above article: "When I was just admitted to college, new students from schools, teachers, and parents were like Phoenix, it seems that being admitted to a university is really a big event, and it has been repeatedly stressed that learning is the main thing. You must study hard and do nothing about other things. However, they did not expect that the learning time is limited for several years. Work is the top priority of our lives ." This is a kind of performance preference for students. They will be given a sense of survival and crisis education, which will make them understand that their performance is not equal to their ability to survive. As Dell Carnegie Endowment said, "only 15% of a person's career success depends on his professional skills, and the other 85% rely on interpersonal and social skills." We must pay close attention to the cultivation of various abilities during the school period. We should also make them realize that globalization has flattened the world, and that it is a situation standing down at the top of the pyramid, which does not mean that the world is equal from then on. Globalization and the rise of China have created unprecedented opportunities, and many companies and individuals have successfully built platforms. But how many successes can this platform accommodate? What's more, Bill Gates and Sun Zhengyi started from protecting their own survival conditions, and "Supergirl" will also pass through and fight by strength.

For lower-and middle-end students in their learning scores, education on survival crisis awareness is especially necessary. These students always have such a kind of "bottom line" in their hearts. If the score is poor, it will be almost impossible to eat together in the future! It's no wonder that they don't think this way. How can they realize the crisis of survival? It's not going to happen in online games, but it's virtual! It may be much easier to educate them on survival crisis awareness than other educational realities. You think about how many hundred million accidents have allowed you to live in this beautiful world from the formation of the earth to the emergence of mankind to the birth of you. Should you cherish your life? If you want to survive well, you should always work on your own, instead of eating your father and wearing a mother for a lifetime? In a world where competition is everywhere and time-consuming, it is better for you to be able to stand out. You should be able to survive in step 2, these capabilities won't always be available for absenteeism, online games, and sleep, right? Lowering the goal and learning for survival may be the most basic and most effective driving force for adolescent progress.

The establishment of a sense of survival crisis is also beneficial to people who have already participated in the work. Not long ago, New Oriental teacher Xu Xiaoping posted a message on his blog column about a female Master student signed by the old magazine, aiming to attract everyone's attention and discussion on a "sub-survival state. The female has been studying law, but has always wanted to be a journalist. "After finishing her master's degree, she finds that her job is so hard to find, which is far from her expectations three years ago. I couldn't help defending myself a few words. Maybe it was because I couldn't find a job in the first half of the year before graduation that caused my self-confidence to slide, and my dream was that I could not find a job in this city, I am afraid of drifting in Beijing, so I regard this job as a life-saving tool. The boss promised to solve the problem for me, but asked me to sign for five years. It was a nightmare ". "I always thought that I could only do one thing at a time. I always thought that it would be a victory to successfully complete the reply and obtain a master's degree, it wasn't until I realized how cruel I was to find a job that I had a serious depression that I could survive and didn't choose to commit myself. It was God's plan. "" I hate this job now, I dare not throw it like garbage. I reluctantly do what I don't want to do ." Without knowing what Mr. Xu holds, my idea is that if my mind has a sense of survival crisis, we can correctly handle the conflict between interest and work: Survive first, next, let's figure the development; first adapt to the real environment, and then create conditions to select the environment. With such psychological preparation, the body and body will not suffer from such contradictions. The ancients said well: "the platform of the Thousand layers starts from the ground; the wood of the hug is born at the end of the ml ." In order to realize our lofty ideals, let's start with "dirt" and "ML" first!