Gentle and gentle gentleman

Jin Yong used Qianlong to send a letter to Chen Jialuo peyu in his book, and said that his life was particularly admired by these four sixteen words.

However, it is interesting that no one can check the source of such a good sentence (people think that its realm is quite certain to have a source ). Some people have searched Kong Meng Lao Zhuang and the four books and five classics, but they have not yet obtained this problem. Therefore, they have posted this problem on the Internet and won't be able to get it for more than a year. Therefore, it is called "an exclusive question of martial arts and Chinese culture ". Among them, the closest answer is that "the word is a gentleman, and the temperature is like a jade .", Yijing 15th contains "Modest Gentleman", but that's all.

Jin Yong said that he did not know the source of his "humble gentleman, gentle and gentle", but from the perspective of his early life ideals contained in "ShuJian", this seems to be a kind of realm of life respected by Jin Yong.

The personality of flying and dancing is not a modest gentleman, because the light of the jade is within rather than out. The elegant, open-minded and elegant manners show no strength, no publicity, no sorrow, no paranoia, and a mature and round life.

The Buddhist family has a word, Yuanyuan, which is quite similar to this mature and mellow realm. It is the Buddhist family that stresses the Lord, the Lord, and the Lord. This is also true for the smoothness of the modest gentleman.

To achieve this kind of realm, you need to cultivate. Cultivation is a wonderful word. In essence, life is a process of cultivation, but not everyone can make a positive result.

Being a Buddha and a fairy is a distant dream of an ordinary man, but it is not difficult to sharpen edges and corners, converge to Guanghua, and cultivate a humble gentleman. Accommodating people is a prerequisite for building a humble gentleman. A gentleman's mind is open-minded and transparent.

As a result, we can often see people like this, in the face of loss and loss, we can always smile. The so-called, do not be surprised, free to see before the flowers bloom; To Stay unintentional, diffuse with the cloud around the cloud Shu.

The sword has a pair of blades, and the modest gentleman is gentle and gentle. He is less impulsive and arrogant, but he is less eager and arrogant. Just like a person's polishing process, mature acquisition comes at the cost of innocent childlike innocence.

Of course, there seems to be a faint sense of helplessness behind the scenes of "deep affection, strong sorrow, and humiliation. Imagine, who does not want to pursue permanent life? Just for a long time can not be forced, so a step back across the sky. Why is this not a roundabout tactic to seek a simple turn? Who can say that this faint helplessness is not a kind of survival wisdom?