Give a gift to your girlfriend for romance

I can see that many of my friends on the Internet are worried about gifts for their girlfriends, especially those who have been dealing with computers for a long time... Now, it makes me anxious to face the machine's predecessors all day. I think that I should do something to benefit the brothers, we cannot have outsiders look at us as computers! The following is my research achievement !) The times are evolving and the eyes of one person are limited. We hope that our brothers will continue to supplement and correct them and create their own collections.

To give gifts to a girlfriend, you must first understand the needs of women. However, the needs of unmarried women and married women vary to a certain extent, and their tendencies may vary, but the nature of women will not change. First, women do not pursue romance when they are young. Second, the kind of pride (or vanity, which is not a derogatory term) that makes the envy of the same kind of people is an inevitable need for external competition. For many female friends, this is even the meaning of her life. Third, being a female can prove its attractiveness to the opposite sex. It is the nature that naturally gives women (so she needs you to prove that you love her ). Whether or not you love property or beauty is a manifestation of these essential needs. Therefore, to give gifts to a girlfriend, you must first consider whether or how to meet her essential needs.

Some people say, "as long as they are people, they like to give gifts to others ". I'm afraid only high school boys can believe the beautiful wish of "Love does not require economic foundation. I remember seeing an American movie many years ago, but the specific name cannot be remembered. It is a very rich father and a very poor son (in the United States, dad's money may not be equal to his son's.) one day, his son found his girlfriend and his father in bed. He was almost crazy and wanted to kill his father, just as he raised his hand, his dad turned back and said, "A man with no money is like a man with impotence. In this civilized world, it is useless to have physical strength ". After listening to this sentence, my son suddenly became soft, and the stories behind him could not be remembered. I only remember that I thought, "Dizzy, This is the civilized world of the United States !". Now, let's take a look at our motherland... Haha, let's get down to the truth...

Do I need a reason to give gifts to my girlfriend? (Relationship between gifts and occasions)

In general, giving gifts should pay attention to occasions (birthday, anniversary, appointment, Valentine's Day, Christmas, and other festivals) or giving gifts for a reason. Of course, different days have different meanings, but for lovers, including giving gifts to girlfriends, the reason is not important. If you don't have a special day or no reason, you may bring a surprise to the other party. Didn't you tell her that you were thinking about her all the time? Isn't it a matter of course to give her a gift at any time ?! In addition to paying attention to individual gifts, gifts are generally not limited to different gifts. That is to say, gifts are more universal. However, the significance of the gift should be well explained, not only to mention, but also to touch her. Next we will analyze the art of gift giving in detail.

Art of giving gifts to girlfriends:

Many friends may want to give gifts to their girlfriends? What do users like? In fact, we often ignore other important principles of gifts (that is, the art of gifts), such as how to send gifts? A gift is just a prop, and a gift is given to express your mind. It is equally important to play this "play" with a prop. Generally, the following ART gifts are worth exploring:

Rule-free principle:

Surprise is the general principle of giving gifts, and giving gifts to girlfriends is even more important. Women are very emotional. As soon as she is touched, she is willing to do anything for you. :) always remember, romance is the opposite of "times. I remember the old saying "No sect, no sect, no brute force" by huoyuanjia, and I like it very much. Because of the rule, it takes a long time to make people "tired". Have you heard that aesthetics will be tired? The most annoying man in a woman is to do the same thing at the same time, in the same posture, in the same program. Therefore, "no rule" is the general principle of giving gifts to women and the first chapter of the Constitution. The following principles are more or less related to this principle.

The principle of "time-light time-heavy:

Some people often ask me if it is more expensive or better to give gifts to my girlfriend? On the Internet, I often see people saying that "gifts are light and heavy, and girls value your heart." I said it was an excuse for myself. Do not believe that the millennium lie "gifts are not expensive" is just a good wish. If you don't believe it, try the same actors. On the same occasion, can the millions of BMW and ten yuan headwear have the same effect? There must be a difference in courtesy! Of course, the stolen BMW does not count as much as it does: however, it may not always be a good result if she thinks that you are taking it for granted. If you want to have good results, you have to master the principle of "Light time and heavy time", that is, you cannot let her suffer from "Severe fatigue ". Occasionally, depending on your own strength, the "heavy medicine" will receive very good results. In this way, when you send a "Light gift", you can say "the gift is light, but it represents my heart! But "light" must be "light" and tasteful.

The principle of "Romance in real time; elegance in time:

Once heard of the high people say: "The elegant women are also common people." In fact, they are not only women, but also men. What is "vulgar"? "vulgar" is a person! So, ordinary people are vulgar! What's more, isn't it "vulgar? Some people say that my girlfriend is very romantic, but no one is living in a vacuum environment. I don't want to eat fireworks, but I still need to drink Yufeng! I think your girlfriend must also "Eat, drink, and sleep" like our mortals? At the same time, secular, practical women also have the nature to pursue romance. Therefore, no matter what type of girlfriend you belong to, the vulgar things should be vulgar, the elegant things should be elegant; the gift should be romantic, romantic, practical, and practical. Today we will deliver practical products, and next time we will deliver romantic products.

Sometimes they are sent by themselves, sometimes by a third party:

It may not be a good thing to do everything yourself. If you give a gift to your girlfriend yourself each time, you should have a third party give it a gift. There are a lot of online gift services. You can find a chance to go on a business trip or just when you are busy. This not only solves the problem that you are too busy, but also delivers better results. Why don't you try it. Third-party gifts have many benefits, but a surprise is one. However, it is easy for a third party to express itself. Some intentions are expressed by third parties, which may be humor or innovative. Third-party gift services generally provide free gift cards. you can express your wishes on them.

Timing:

Everything in the world is time-based. It is very important to give gifts at a certain time point. For example, at midnight, you were the first to wish her a happy birthday. Of course, it would be more special. A gift is presented as soon as you meet each other or after you finish what you like to do together. It also represents a different atmosphere and meaning. A pleasant surprise in the morning and the last touch before going to bed have different meanings. For a strong professional female, she may give a gift at lunch with her at noon, which may make her feel that she is also a charming woman. Therefore, sending gifts at different time points can also surprise the original gift. The timing is especially important when the gift is lighter. Before giving a gift, do you need to make a foreshadowing.

Public messages are often sent, and private messages are occasionally sent:

A very important requirement for a woman is to envy herself! A lot of men cannot understand this kind of demand from women. Therefore, they call it "vanity" of women ". In fact, men who really understand women will be happy with their vanity, rather than blaming them. The reason is very simple. Today's society is still biased towards a man-dominated society (however, it is changing. Didn't listen to Wang Shuo saying that women are going to govern? :). Therefore, women can only compete indirectly through men. Why cannot a man be more than a car than a house be more than a man ?! There is no such reason in the world. Therefore, you should cooperate well to meet her needs. I don't see the current 80 s more and more exaggerated, more and more open? This is called the waves of the Yangtze River, and men are smarter than the other generation :)

Therefore, the Office will send flowers, propose proposal in public places, and ask her female friends for "support" (never ask a man for support )... More and more fashionable. Never think of it as vulgar. This is the essential demand of women!

If it is inconvenient to disclose your relationship for various reasons, you can use a third party to give it anonymously, or give her some gifts that can be "dazzling.

Of course, there is always a need for a man not to be a "Lightbulb". So, some gifts should be given in private, and some things should also be done in private :). Because it only belongs to you two. For example, it is always difficult to send underwear in public, right? Do you always have to be "drunk" with a third party for a low-end red wine ?...

"Focus on participation" principle:

If you want to get something, the last principle is the most important one. It's as annoying and boring as the man who goes to bed with love! Haha, if you are a younger sister reading this, and your boyfriend is a man who just gives you something, I advise you to dump it as soon as possible, the reason is that I have already said in the previous sentence: Some people think that the ceremony is sent, and the task is over. If so, she will think that you are using "gift money" to "sell" her. Didn't you want to enjoy the time of love with her? As I said at the beginning, gifts are just items. Where are actors? What plays (scripts )? No fewer than one. So remember, focus on participation! If you give her underwear, you must try it on with her. Praising her is also a compliment on yourself (of course, it is true, otherwise you will spend time, it can only be idiot); In the light of the candle, sweet red wine must be made together. The wine and beautiful women must be enjoyed together to share the wine in a harmonious society. :); if you give ornaments, you must help her with it and kiss the necklace she just hung on her chest. By the way .... It must be unforgettable. If you give her a swimming club membership card, never let her go alone... The birthday must be together, let alone.

Is it a single gift or a combination gift?

I personally advocate combination of gifts. My reasons: First, the meaning of a single gift is often relatively simple, and the gift combination can better express your love. Second, the gift combination shows a kind of thought, instead of sending her a message as soon as she finds something in the supermarket, the combination is easy to innovate, and there are many options. The combination is also highly likely to impress her heart, she may not like one of them very much, but may like the other. Give her a reason to praise your correctness. What is wrong with her chances of winning multiple victories ?! This is called "comprehensive strength": But the combination of gifts is exquisite and requires a great deal of attention. You must never make out of order. The combination of gifts also focuses on the combination of ingredients and ingredients. For example, many netizens have come up with an idea to say that a condom is provided for a girlfriend's birthday... Haha, the condom can certainly be sent. If it is a ingredient, it may make her think of you, humor, considerate, or novel. (If she thinks about it, it depends on her relationship with you ). But if you set it as the main material, I'm afraid the effect is not good (maybe she will think you are too colorful, you are too selfish, you treat her ...).

Generally, the main material is to take care of her hobbies and personality characteristics, mainly for practical and commemorative type, while the ingredients should be combined with the occasion and purpose of the gift (such as the first appointment, or birthday ...), To create a romantic atmosphere or to enhance the representative significance of the main material. The following lists some common "ingredients" for sending girlfriends ":

"Face" high-end brand products: The brand can make women envy of the same type, of course, the purpose is to make her long face. If it is economically permitted, it cannot be less. If you have no money, you can buy small things with brands. This type of products such as LV bags, Coach bags, Tiffany jewelry... As for what the brand is, of course it is recognized by her circle. McDonald's is a low-end "junk food" store in the United States, it is a place where construction workers eat three hamburgers to fill their stomachs. In China, McDonald's is a fashion to take girls to a meal because it is a high-end brand in China. If you don't know what a brand is, ask the female friends around her, female colleagues. It's okay if they are women in her life and work circles. This type of product is suitable for public delivery, and must be delivered when her female friends and colleagues are present.

Couple products: these products mainly represent your feelings with her, just like a man who does not like her or say "I love you, the symbol of love is like "fried potato silk". You can choose a practical option, such as a couple table, a couple shirt, or a couple's bag. It can also be romantic, such as a couple pendant or a couple's ring. Of course, if you can personalize your name or the name of the other party, it would be better.

Romantic bedroom Decoration (my girlfriend is not my wife, so practical household products should be avoided), such as her zodiac animal that can be placed on the bed, or some exquisite crystal ornaments that girls like.

Jewelry and fashion ornaments: necklaces, bracelets, bracelets, earrings, pendants, scarves, scarves, belts... You don't have to give me an example. Today, there are fewer and fewer gold jewelry lovers, but more and more silver ornaments, crystals, and stones. In fact, gold cannot be sent. This depends on how you express it. For example, if you send a 24 k gold jewelry, you can say, "You know why I choose the most popular gold jewelry that many people think is the most popular? It is vulgar and noble. Because it is the most pure in the world, just like you, only one in the world !" However, if your financial strength can buy gold and diamond, I certainly prefer diamond, because Diamond's "expensive and elegant" is the peak of natural romance.

Girl accessories: such as underwear, pajamas, underwear, BRA, etc. These gifts mainly show your close relationships. It is your expectation to remind her of your intimacy or to guide her to intimacy :) this type of supplies must be made of good materials and comfortable, and some must pay attention to the size. If you do not know the size, choose pajamas or those with tight size requirements.

Daily necessities for girls: This type of gift mainly reflects your care and practicality. It is suitable for girls who are less likely to take care of themselves. These products are divided into two categories: one is used outside and can be seen by everyone. Such as clothes, hats, bags, boots/shoes, tables, and belts. This category is either to send famous brands, such as brand-name bags. Unless your eyes are consistent with her eyes, and you are familiar with her size, otherwise, I do not recommend that you give such a look. Otherwise, the embarrassment of try-on/wearing is not to mention that I didn't remind you of it; the other is that she uses it privately, such as a sanitary towel, and occasionally delivers such gifts, the effect will be very good, make sure that your experience is correct. However, it is best to combine several items and pack them carefully.

Emotional business products: it is conducive to communication between you. If you often chat online, cameras and personalized fashion mouse are suitable for fashion laptops (such as IMAC) of young women. If you often send text messages and make phone calls, you can send fashion mobile phones, if you have no money, you can send accessories such as fashion mobile phone covers.

Body and beauty cosmetics (it is best to "Upgrade" her category. For example, if she uses non-branded cosmetics, you will send her a set of branded cosmetics. If she uses breast enhancement products in China, you will give her a set of foreign products; she uses artificial synthetic skin care products, you give her a set of natural essential oils; or she is looking for weight loss products everywhere, you help her find the safest natural one. Upgrading her existing products is the safest option. Don't be born out of nothing. She doesn't think she is fat. You have to give her a set of weight loss options, she will definitely think about whether or not she is too fat ). Such as collagen, pearl powder, and other Nourishing Yin beauty gifts can also be considered. There are also some fitness club membership cards, yujia fitness cards, beauty cards and so on, is also a good choice. But remember to boast of her on cards or languages. If she grows up to the upper level, she must boast of her beauty. If she looks very general, she will find some of her characteristics, such as her good body and temperament ...... Alas, she must have a good place. Otherwise, how would you like her? Do not be hypocritical.

Knowledge-based gift: if your girlfriend is a business-oriented, independent or learning-oriented. Then, sending a knowledge gift will show your support for her and the generosity of men (in front of such girls, do not show that you are afraid that she is better than you ). This type of girl requires your spiritual resonance. If she has encountered some difficulties recently, you can send some inspirational books or DVDs. If her feelings with you are being tested, you can give some books of the "love" type; if she is taking a postgraduate exam, you can give some books or tools of the "exam" type; if she is learning a foreign language or a professional skill, you can send related books or auxiliary learning tools. But remember to write "Never get tired" on the card. Otherwise, I will feel bad ".

Casual and romantic gifts: Perfume and spices, vacuum bath products, essential oils, etc. Of course, you should tell her that this is your favorite smell or "this is the best match with your taste ". If she is very busy and tired recently, she will send some bath products to show her care. It can also be a travel package ticket to Lijiang or a place she most wishes. But never let her go alone.

Commemorative class: This type is best personalized and can be retained for a long time. It is not practical to engrave your pattern or name, or to display a variety of commemorative things, such as photo frames, cups, and T-shirts. Especially when you are on a business trip, it is good to bring a small commemorative gift by the way. The practical type can also be the sweet red wine and ice wine for women, which can be engraved on it and can be treasured for many years, representing the meaning of "The longer the cool", which is also very good, he and she decided to open the sharing on a certain day of a certain year. However, you need to choose some Romantic styles.

Select a gift category based on her personality and hobbies: for example, if she is a travel-loving or frequent business trip, you can prepare a convenient travel bag for her, containing all the travel essentials. If she is fond of hiking, you can prepare a set of mountain climbing equipment for her. If she likes music, iPod/MP3 is also good .... It depends on how much you know about her.

Dolls and toys: a lot of married girls still suffer from child nature, which makes her happy. Mainly for some naive girls. Dolls can be plush, baby, Hello Kitty. Some pottery and glass products can also be used. Toys are somewhat novel and the best way to make her happy. Don't forget to say to her, "I like your innocence and purity the most !"

Flowers: I don't need to talk about it. However, I personally prefer to treat flowers as ingredients rather than ingredients, except for some special occasions.

Ingredients are generally used to increase the romantic sentiment. If the ingredients are used well, you can change "vulgar" to "elegant" and add "practical" things to the romantic atmosphere. By the way, there will be a "eye-catching" effect. Ingredients that you are familiar with generally include:

Flowers: It is incomparable to nature. No one said that the wild flowers in the Valley are better than Princess Solomon's gorgeous clothes ?! Rose, Lily... Choosing based on different occasions and purposes is too much learning. Wait for me to study and write a thesis;

Candle: the candle is an irresistible temptation. It is best to choose some special shapes, such as the foot cup, the heart-shaped rose color, high-heeled shoe type, and so on.

Chocolate: there are too many people talking about it. I don't need to explain it.

Ribbons: with gifts

Heart Decoration: can be used as outer packaging or card

Balloon: Birthday set or field activity

Cake: used for birthday or anniversary

Red wine, ice wine, and champagne: Why do I use red wine or ice wine? If you have the financial strength, a bottle of romantic liqueur may be the best "Catalyst", especially a legitimate "drug", which can create countless excuses and opportunities for you, it can inspire your infinite imagination. (However, do not really taste drugs. This article is not your responsibility.) You can also use red wine or vodka to make some cocktails with elegant styles. However, never use beer, Moutai, or others unless she is an alcoholic :)

Western food: however, you 'd better know Western food too, or find a master to learn first. Don't make mistakes like steak which is very familiar with order (however, if you are an extremely personalized person, you can be a simple and confident person, then you can order a very familiar steak according to your hobbies. Maybe she will like your alternative steak. Who knows)

Movie: This ingredient is too old. Don't talk about it.

DIY hand-made products: it is better to use ingredients to show your energy and thoughts. I do not advocate being the main ingredient unless you are professional and want to show your own crafts and talents.

Different ingredients can be used in different scenarios. Dude, it's hard to find a girlfriend, but you can't get a girlfriend like a boss. My girlfriend is much more intelligent than my boss :) be sure to use your mind. Do not turn the "eye-catching" style into "Superfluous.

Finally, like sending other people, the packaging of gifts must be very important. If your hands are stupid and you cannot decide, you can use some professional gift shops or gift networks, they generally provide professional packaging and design.