Give me future children-be sure to watch them before the age of 25 (transferred from shuimu)

Child, I hope you will always be an idealist. You can be a farmer, an engineer, an actor, or a tramp, but you must be an idealist. When you were a child, we told you a story about heroes. Instead of making you a hero, we wanted you to have a pure character. when you were a teenager, we touch you with poetry, painting, and music to fill your mind with a high taste. These noble tastes will support your life, so that you will not forget the fragrance of roses in the worst winter. The ideal will make people stand out. Do not worry about your own shape. The ideal is pure of your temperament, and the most beautiful woman will also be boring because of vulgarity. The path to the ideal is often unsatisfactory, and you will suffer for it. However, children, even if you fight for it, the idealistic outcome will never be miserable. In a seemingly bumpy life, you will get to know many wise men and gentlemen, and you will see the scenery and miracles that many others cannot meet. Although the choice is mediocre, it is safe, but not colorful. Do not give up your own ideals for the fly, or change your beliefs for a certain trend. The appearance of the material world is too complex. You need to know how to reject the temptation of vanity. The ideal is not an affordable thing, and it often cannot bring you the enjoyment of the world. Therefore, you must get used to the ways in which no one appreciates you, learn spiritual enjoyment, and learn to be different from others.
Secondly, child, I hope you are a steadfast person. Life is too short-lived, and there are too many imaginary things. You can easily get dazzled and accomplish nothing in the end. If you are a pretty girl, many male will spoil you when you are young. What you get is too easy, which will make you thin and float; if you are a very smart boy, you will think that you can achieve many things and be light-handed. Remember, everyone has limited capabilities. We can do one thing well in the world. Write a book and be a housewife. Do not underestimate ordinary people, do not be opportunistic, and do not attack what you cannot do. When you grow up, you will know that it is too difficult to do one thing well, but never give up.
You must understand and cherish your feelings. It is not easy for a man or a woman to interact with each other regardless of the wall. There may be misunderstandings and frictions in the process of making friends, but think about it. How many people can join in the world? You must understand that your friends will eventually leave, and you should be grateful if someone in your life is with you. To love yourself and others, you must understand yourself and others. Your heart is as soft as water, and your eyes are as charming as spring. You will cry, and you will sit alone in the dark and listen to sad music. You must understand and appreciate the tragedy, which enriches your mind.
Hope you don't want to be vulgar. You are an independent person. No one can erase your independence unless you compromise the world. Learn to appreciate the truth and see the truth under the mask. There are many smooth people in the world, but few are outstanding. And often outshine and hide in the mean. In form, we cannot fight against the established secular world, but in our hearts we are our kings. If you have a charming smile on your face, I will hide it in shame. Many secular things are dazzling but have no value. Do not place yourself on the balance of the masses. Otherwise, you will be at a loss and the cloud will be everywhere.
As a person, I hope that you will not interrupt other people's conversations, but not be very charming. You should take at least two hours to study every day and write back to your friends. Do not always think about what others should do for you, but how to help others.
Do not accept others' favor if you want to pay back others' things. Remember that others' things are good for others; their own things are bad for themselves.
One more thing, though difficult to do, is very important. You must have the courage to face up to your shortcomings. You will grow up in a year, and you will gradually meet people better than you, and you will find that you have many shortcomings you hate. This will make you frustrated and inferior. But you must face it up and avoid it. You must correct it a little bit. It is more difficult and meaningful to defeat yourself than to conquer others.
No matter how the world changes, the excellent qualities of human beings are eternal: integrity, courage, and independence. I hope you are a good person.