Good luck design (Shi Tiesheng's Prose)

There will inevitably be setbacks in life. If it is too perfect, it will not look perfect.

I first saw this article, years ago,

Although there are many differences, I still often feel grateful for my fate, my parents and family members, and the company of many people along the way,

Although I have never mentioned it to anyone, I feel very proud from the heart and thank God for all this,

Although wealth and beauty do not match me, but I already have so much, how can life be bad ?!

Work hard, work hard, get rid of all your bad habits, love will have, comfort life will have, all beautiful dreams will have!

 

 

Good luck Design

(Shi Tiesheng's Prose)

 

If there are too many regrets in this life and you are alone for a while, you may wish to imagine your future as you wish. Why don't you think about it? I often think like this.
I think that if there is an afterlife, I will first take advantage of some innate advantages: smart, beautiful, and good health. Fate is unfair from the very beginning, and people will be lucky and unlucky in their life. For example, if a person is stupid, should he blame himself? However, all the consequences resulting from this are solely the responsibility of the owner. Even though he is scorned, he does not know who to blame. For example, if a person is born ugly, it will not be helpful to find a way to beauty. Is it his mistake. So why is it so rare for girls to like him? Therefore, it becomes very difficult to get married. Once a child finally exists, don't talk about others. Even he wants the child to never look like himself. Why should he be like him? Besides, some people have a wide shoulder and legs, and are handsome (or Ling Na is charming, Xiao ting Tingting). They are born with strong energy and seldom get sick, the opposite is true for some people. Especially for the body. So I only hope that I will be able to exercise caution in my next life. I have a strong and beautiful body like Karl Lewis, and a handsome and elegant look like Zhou Enlai, intelligent and smart, like Albert Einstein's brain and inspiration.
It is important where the birth is located. I have seen many healthy, beautiful, especially intelligent teenagers in the remote and isolated northern Shaanxi countryside 20 years ago. At that time, I thought that if they were born in a proper place, they would have done a lot, no matter what they do, they must achieve remarkable results. However, in the back of the country, it is still a great honor to have a full stomach. Which of the following is the luxury culture? They do not have the opportunity to go to school, read books, read newspapers, television, or even seldom watch movies. They do not know the world outside, and they can only follow the old path of their generation, daily work, and daily work, year after year. Then they married and gave birth to a child, and became family members. Their Talents ran out to become simple and undreamed men. Then they grew old as their fathers did, leaving only monotonous years with doomed traces. Then they feared, prayed, and panic, and listened to death at will. Then, if the place remains unchanged, their children will be so blunt that they will perform the same process from generation to generation. I hope this will never happen to me in the future.
So we were born in a big city in a famous government house. Our father was the president with remarkable achievements. If it wasn't for a wealthy tycoon, it wasn't for a famous scholar, or his parents were common figures, you have grown up in a pampered and flattering environment since you were a carefree reality, brilliant prospects, opportunities, smooth sailing ...... Is that good? In general, such a situation is also a disability and a cage. This kind of situation often creates dummies. The probability of being stupid is very small, and the percentage of contributions is very low. In addition, girls of a certain level are not willing to climb such a high level.
Born in the back of the country, there is a sense of ignorance, not good; born in the name of your house, there is a risk of arrogance and ignorance, it is not good. What happens to a place between the two? Well, it may be good.
We are aware of the rich and splendid civilization of mankind, as well as the rough and difficult journey of life. We are also aware of the rich, luxurious, and dangerous life of the officers, and the time of the poor and affectionate lives of the civilian population; there are not only the opportunity to read from a group of books, but also the experience of wandering around the world in the society. It is not only able to give advice to good teachers at key moments, every time, we have to work hard on our own, but it is not just a smooth journey. We have tasted the beauty of human kindness and friendship, and have learned the cool nature of the world, so we can see this world as Roman Roland said: "I have seen it, then love it." -- This is a good place, but where is it?
　　
You 'd better be born in a family of ordinary intellectuals.
That is to say, your father is an intellectual, but do not be the kind of hot-winded intellectual. Otherwise, the danger and misfortune of the "guifu mingmen" style may still fall into your head: there is no healthy and simple childhood. When a person grows up, if he cannot fall in love with his childhood, it is a great defect. You should have a large group of boys and girls from different families as your friends, quarrel with them seriously, and then cry and make up. When your parents are not at home, call all your friends and try to eat everything in the refrigerator for a day. You can also take an adventure with your friends, get some money, hide your parents, and then set off. It doesn't matter if you lose one of your new shoes after you break the new hat. It doesn't matter if you touch your knees with blood and sprinkle a bottle of purple syrup on your shirt. Your mother won't blame you, because when the night glow becomes increasingly light and the night is getting thicker, your father will not be angry, and your mother is glad to be so lucky. "They're back. They're back !" As if the whole world has been peacefully liberated, and a group of ordinary and majestic fathers kneel out to greet you, just as a group of mothers turned to sorrow at the moment, so they looked at your faces and kissed your heads. A lucky person's childhood must be like this.
Your mother must have knowledge, but do not care about books as much as your father cares about you. Don't be like some stupid intellectual women. If you think that your name is difficult, you will bet all your hopes on your children. If you have given birth to a girl, you will expect her to be a lady in the future, after raising a baby boy, I thought I had a little Beethoven. The mother of a lucky person must be a lucky mother. The way she taught you is not from pedagogy, but from her sincere love for all creatures and everything in the world, and from trembling and praying, sincere calm and passion. What commands does she give you? She is confident that you will love the world.
　　
When you are two or three years old, you just need to play. Don't worry about reciting "Three Hundred Tang Poems" and adding and subtracting less than a hundred digits to play peat and mud, then you don't need to wash your hands and then play with your grandfather's beard. By the time you were four or five years old, you had to drill holes in your mother's leather shoes to see what the effect would be, and it would be even more amazing to play the sand into your father's recorder. When I was in elementary school, you had to score three or four points for your homework. The rest of the time was to do something else, giving your father the opportunity to pay for several pieces of glass. When I go to middle school, especially when I go to high school, all acquaintances are impressed with you. Various awards do not constitute your good luck, good luck means that you didn't spend too much time on your homework. You have a wide range of hobbies.
You love music, the classical symphony, the modern rock music, the gentle opera, and the rough and unrestrained folk songs. You like art. You feel the life from the color, and smell the flow of time on the online bar by the shape of the space, and discover the cry of the creature in the position connecting the world. Sports are also good at you. You have a wonderful experience in almost all sports. You make sports more than just sports. It is dance, the most natural and honest dance on Earth, art, and the most simple and brilliant art form selected by God.
　　
Next you are in love. You are studying in a prestigious university, and you have excellent reading skills. Various awards are coming to you again. Your movements are full of man's brilliance, obviously, the girls who follow you and admire you are already in groups, but you have always been a mean and sincere denial, good faith, and clever escape, some extraordinary girls shed tears. But one day, when you relax on the sports ground, you suddenly saw a strange girl jogging. She was no less handsome than you, and her life loved her, the generosity of youth to her is no less than you, and she does not seem to discover you at all, as if there is nothing except her and her beauty in this world. However, you are shocked by her beauty and self-confidence. She is stunned by her elegance and strength, and she is overwhelmed by her appearance. So you don't want to run, just look at her. You really want to show respect to her with a smile, but she doesn't give you this opportunity. She ran around and then she went away. That's simple. After walking for a long time, you are still standing in the same place. The playground is empty and you are alone. But you keep her in mind, and the God of luck is still with you. You sold your thousands of skills around her without showing off, and finally caught her attention. You had another lunch with her at a friend's house. You actually met and talked a lot about it. It was a good and warm discussion. Since then, you will not go to her, she will come to you, spring, Autumn, spring, summer, autumn, or she will come to you, or you will go to her, spring, summer, and autumn ...... In short, you will eventually become a genus.
　　
Maybe you have noticed that I suddenly have some doubts: can you enjoy happiness in such a satisfactory, smooth, and successful love and marriage? There are no setbacks, no ups and downs, no expectations, no slashes, no backslashes, no backslashes, and no waiting, will you feel the joy of success? Will there be an unforgettable happiness after the success? Or, will it dilute its charm because of its smoothness? Will it block the desire for perfection, limit the imagination, and lose the passion, so as to follow a physiological program in the long years to come, but the mental path is deserted, followed by numbness-will it? The Earth is so convenient and satisfied to bring the moon into its own arms, without the overcast and clear circles, without the tidal fluctuations, without the distance, there will be no distance, without the extractor, there will be no gravity, what is that? Clearly, it's death. If you are more honest, things may be more difficult: humans will die, the Earth will be destroyed, and the universe is moving towards the hot silence. What is the value of all our intelligence and wisdom, struggle and efforts, good luck and success? What is our purpose? What is our path to salvation? Is it true that we have no way to go? Yes, we are in a desperate situation. Now we only take advantage of a cheap one, that is, the death has not yet arrived, we still have time to think about ways to deal with the desperate situation, of course not to escape, of course, you can not run. For other methods, see if there is any.
Process. Yes, the process -- only it is left. There is only one way to deal with the environment. In fact, the only thing you have is the process. A person who only wants to make the process wonderful cannot be taken away, because death cannot turn a wonderful process into a wonderful process, because bad luck cannot stop you from creating a wonderful process. On the contrary, you can turn death into a wonderful process. On the contrary, bad luck is more conducive to creating wonderful processes. As a result, it will inevitably fail. If you stand out in reality, appreciate, and taste the wonderful process, you will deliver the desperate situation. Dreams make you drunk, Distance becomes joy; Pursuit enriches you, failure and success are accompaniment; when life proves its value in the form of beauty, happiness is enjoyment, pain is also enjoyment.
Process! Yes, the significance of life is that you can create a beautiful and wonderful process. The value of life is that you can calmly and excitedly appreciate the beautiful and tragic process. However, you can enter this aesthetic situation only when you see the vanity of the purpose, and you can find this aesthetic rescue only when you see the despair of the purpose. But will this vanity and despair make you suffer? Yes, unless you suffer for it, unless it is large enough, it cannot be wiped out, It is unshakable, unless so that you are willing to switch from the purpose to the process, from the anxiety of the purpose to the attention of the process, unless such pain is with you and always with you, you can always enjoy the pace and dance of mankind, praise the cry and singing of life, and gain pride from unyielding, extract happiness from suffering and create meaning from nothing until death and angels come to pick you up. You still haven't played enough, but you don't have to worry. You know how the process can be completed? The process continues everywhere, in the world, in heaven, in hell, the process is God's clever design.
But what about our design?
　　
I saw it -- I came back. I can see that our design can only be like this. I don't know what to do, and I don't know what to do. God loves me! -- We have only one sentence left in our design. Maybe we have only one sentence.