Blink of an eye, after the Spring Festival, today is the first day of New Year's work, the early eight. This year and the biggest difference in previous years should be a person this year, and girlfriend talked for more than 6 years also divided, resulting in a person this year.
A person to go home, various friends and relatives of all kinds of questions, can only laugh to say that character, divided.
After the blow is also very big, a variety of self-thinking, their own value of thinking, the meaning of living, self-development, how to finish this life, how to deal with all kinds of relationship thinking, in short, is very messy.
When I was with her, I always thought that I would go on like this for a lifetime, and never thought about breaking up again.
However, take home, several times quarrel, the family feel bad, engage I also began to be forced to calm thinking, to tell the truth, now still a little miss her, feel sorry for her. Still in love, disgusting.
Then went running vent, the result is still thin. Front is vent, the back did not think through running also ended my 27 years of fat career, began to become thin, minus almost 50 pounds, hehe, the result leads home, first asked my daughter-in-law how no, the second ask weight loss cheats.
But the end, or the end, is over anyway. Whether willing or unwilling, always opened a new chapter in life, since the first day of work, should cheer up, think how to live, think about what to do next year, think about how to do.
Or there are several goals.
1, the peace of mind to improve their own technology , because the feelings of the matter, a lot of things are beginning to waste, perhaps said many things began to think again.
System in-depth learning under the operating system kernel, figuring out the principles of each component
System Summary under the computer network security aspects, understand a variety of commonly used internet attacks, to prevent
Java focus on high-performance and distributed aspects of the research, mainly ripe all kinds of distributed protocols (try to achieve their own high-efficiency communication protocol), familiar with multi-threading, NiO and so on (can mimic open source aspects such as netty to achieve their own high-performance service side)
2, peace of mind under the industry business development, familiar with all kinds of internet finance-related business
3, the body continues to exercise, at least adhere to 3 days a jog, at least 1 hours each time, 9 km near.
Already do not need to lose weight, but exercise can not be less, usually more exercise
The principle is that the opportunity to participate in the outdoor activities must participate, have the opportunity to exercise must go, run at least once every 3 days
4, emotionally with the fate of it, the daughter-in-law to recover a bit unreliable, the home seems not too satisfied, daughter-in-law family philosophy seems to me not too, tangled together will only more trouble, silently bless her.
Emotionally, let me be single this year.
5, work, as leader said, to strengthen their own landing , work the biggest drawback is too drag. (Estimated and I have always been in primary school never do homework related, hehe). This year to achieve vigorous and resolute, work less open communication software
6, more time to see the philosophy, history, literature, Books , began to think about how to live their life, try to see their own
Finally, take more time to write a blog . You can express yourself with your own words!
Good New Year, the feeling and summary of the year