Growth notes of a son-in-law [14]

2014-06-25

You can choose your retreat, but you have a long life. Do what you love first. Don't leave the road from the beginning.

China's exam-oriented education is sad once a year. I don't know how many hot majors have been squeezed out this year, and how many disappointed candidates have been transferred to the unpopular majors. In China, it seems that most people are doing things they don't like and do jobs they don't like. "Successful people are doing what they want to do." The dream is always beautiful, and the reality is always cruel. We all live in the shackles. Many beautiful plans are often put on hold or even abandoned by real changes. I don't believe in the so-called career planning more and more, because I have encountered many variables in my short career, including relatively large transfer opportunities, it's totally irrelevant to my career planning. So far, I have been a programmer. I believe most people even encounter more variables than me. Therefore, I think career planning should be a form of development in the process of change.

Do not inherit the unsuccessful thinking model of the parent. My father is still enlightened in this regard. Since I went to college, my mind was relatively self-reliant and my father would not impose his will on me, he has always encouraged me to do what I want. But in many cases, they often come up with some very subjective points in front of me and think that is right. Although I have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, my personality is somewhat influenced by the subtle process from small to large. When I get out of society and more rich people come into contact, the more I understand this sentence, the more hateful the poor will be. Qiu Fu is really a very pathological idea. In fact, most rich people, after their contact, will find that they know more about others than ordinary people, have higher quality and are more polite.

Being a human cannot be too careless. This is the most profound feeling of my work over the past few years, and I always remind myself of the most words. Maybe rich people are not concerned about small losses because they are rich enough. But as a poor guy, I always remind myself that it is a blessing to suffer. Most of the time, because we care about some small things, our mentality may become very poor, and the tangle process may also cause some unwise choices. Life is so long, and some things are not ours. Do not force them.