How can I continue the programmer's path?

I am a girl, that is, the legendary female Cheng. By September 1 this year, I have been working for three years. Looking back at my programming path, I have a lot of feelings. The most obvious feeling is that, so far, I feel that I will be getting fewer and fewer, and the programming pond is getting deeper and deeper. As my work time increases, I am more confused, I don't know in which direction should I continue my future programming?

At the beginning of my work, I should choose a language suitable for myself or a hobby. Remember that my first job was ASP. net identity. net ERP (only responsible for a few of the small modules) projects, is pulled into the Java Project Development Team, until the departure is Java Development, the second job is to do. net, is a popular WPF technology to develop a coupon Point conversion, increase or decrease, and coupon printing project, the project is relatively large, not completed until the resignation, the third job is easier than the previous two jobs. It has never been assigned a class and is mainly responsible for the development, maintenance, internal sales system, and Reservation System Maintenance of the company's official website, finally, I made a secondary development of exchange2007, Which is used internally. Now I am in the third job. Because my work is easy and stressful, I seldom pay attention to new technologies and exercise the original technologies, I am not confident in myself. If I want to change my job, do I choose B/S or C/S? Is it e-commerce or game development? So many new technologies? Which one should I learn and focus on? WPF, Silverlight, WCF, Asp. net mvc3, flex, As2/3, SOA too much, but I am very clear, only focus. net, but I am more interested in Game Development and want to do some R & D projects. Ah, continue to be confused and find a way out ......