How do girls catch up with MM?

I am a girl. I am very disgusted to see some boys who want to catch up with their favorite girls and dare not catch up with her.
From the perspective of a girl, I know more about the girl's psychology. Most girls do not take the initiative to pursue their favorite boys, except for girls who really like it or who are brave. So if you really like a girl and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative. Don't fight with her, and you may feel terrible.
When a girl is being chased, the psychology is very complicated. She may be very happy, but with a little fear, she has a conflict of resistance to the boy who broke into her peaceful life, she did not mean. Don't think that she is testing you. She is actually fighting herself, and she is afraid of being hurt.
Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her dislike. If you don't take the initiative or she does not take the initiative, it will fade down slowly. It would be normal if she refused your initial confession. Don't be discouraged. Who knows what this girl is thinking?
Maybe you confess twice, and she will be moved by you. It is easy to be touched by a kind of girl.
If you suffer a setback, you will immediately leave and never answer this girl again. You will be able to protect yourself, and then silently seek your wounds, the girl may feel sorry and regret it! Maybe she will secretly cry, regret to reject you, and then look at your indifferent eyes, she is also very sad, but she will not say to you, will never ask you back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt the girl's sensitive heart.
She will think that you do not really like him, or how can you give up on her?
Some people say it's hard for boys to chase girls. However, I feel that this phenomenon is inseparable from the Social Role Positioning of men and women. From the perspective of health and society, women are always passive. If, in turn, men are all shy, and women are brave enough to go forward, the world will be messy! A woman's shame is always beautiful and touching ~ I have always heard of how many difficulties a brave man has overcome and finally wins the hearts of beautiful people. On the contrary, there are few examples.
Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are bound with things and leave a bad reputation. However, I think boys are still very fond of this girl because they have suffered some setbacks. It means they really like it and are very sincere. If they fail, they will not regret it, nothing? Who made people like it? I hate being confused by others, and I hate the kind of boys who don't have their own ideas and care too much about what others think of themselves. It's best to be unable to find a girlfriend.
　　
A man is brave. A girl is emotional and easy to immerse in love. Although you have worked hard, and once you really touched her, you will get more and more love. Such examples are everywhere. Girls are very gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What is the hard work at the beginning for the sake of sweetness? And most of the girls love to be very dedicated.
　　
Therefore, it is recommended that some boys be brave enough to pursue their favorite girls. Don't be so timid. One is to make people feel that you are not male, and the other is to make yourself uncomfortable, however, the most important thing is that you cannot get anything at last. Happiness is always earned by yourself. Don't count on others to give it to you!
　　
I think it is quite good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like. Girls are often passive, and passive ones can only choose to accept and refuse, so I would rather take the initiative, love my love, no regrets!
　　
----- Life is wonderful and happy. Learn to find it!
　　
I. What kind of first impression should I give to mm (Time: getting started with mm)
1. I think the most important thing is to let mm See your ambition.
The greatest charm of a man is that his career is successful. Young people cannot talk about "success" for a long time. At this time, you must make mm think that you are a self-motivated person.
Other things can be nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell mm that you are confident in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you have a long-term plan, in short, your future is not a dream.
2. Be confident and responsible
Don't be like a child. Girls are very lazy and want to depend on each other. You need to show your confidence and sense of responsibility.
There is always a better choice than no choice.
3. Don't be too serious, but don't be too casual.
This is a serious issue. You can make fun of it.
Girls all like cynical men, so don't seem to be very concerned about anything. It's too dull.
4. More mature
In case of calm, calm men have a fatal appeal to mm.
Ii. How to further contact with mm (Time: Start of tracing)
1. The most important thing at this stage is not to worry about it. Don't make things so clearly that people can see at a glance that you are chasing people.
Think about it. Most people will not look at you at a glance, but they will not hate you at a Glance. They are children of ordinary people's families (unless you look like Andy Lau or Kevin Cocos Turner at chow runfa ), goodwill needs to be realized with the increasing understanding, so the key to the problem is your opportunity for further development.
From the girl's perspective, think about it for others: If you rush to get an object, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find that I don't like you after a while, isn't it just about you? Therefore, if you start to figure out your mind, you will be immediately bored.
2. Start slowly
First of all, we need to identify the relationship as a "friend", which is originally a "common friend". If you want to be a "good friend", you can also ask the other party to be a "confidante" or something, in short, never say "catch up with you ".
Think about it. If you don't mention "Catch up" at all, then girls will not have the opportunity to "reject" you-how can you reject you if you didn't chase her ?!
This reduces the psychological pressure on girls and enables smooth interaction. Do not assume that you will marry you in three days. You must have full contact and understanding, and your feelings will not come out of thin air.
3. Do not be impatient during interactions
You must be relaxed and don't get bored with others all day long. I have a good friend who told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"Cool, cool, and cool" (this is the result of my years of painstaking efforts ).
You don't feel good when you get stuck with others all day long. If you get cold for a day or two, girls will think of your benefits.
In addition, do not show your ambition. It is too expensive. Sometimes you can play tricks.
4. Create opportunities as appropriate
As mentioned above, do not immediately turn things into "you are chasing others", and you need to get a chance to approach a girl. It depends on your creativity.
You can collect information and find a way to turn the waiting rabbit into an encounter. You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite the other party to do something with you.
In short, this is the most technical aspect. You can ask for advice from your predecessors.
5. Avoid: it is impolite to give gifts to others.
Some people are eager to catch up with girls and often like to buy things and send them to others.
As the saying goes, "You don't have to pay for anything." If you send something to someone like this, people will feel that they owe you something, so they will find a way to return it to you, if you cannot give it back to you, you will find a way to avoid losing your favor.
If you want to show your sincerity, you may wish to invite girls to spend money together, for example, looking for a good restaurant to eat, or looking for expensive places to play together or something. Girls naturally can see that you have spent a lot of money, but after all, money is spent by two people, instead of taking home things.
3. What is "girlfriend?
1. "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.
You start to interact with girls, from "ordinary friends" to "Good Friends", to "very good friends who don't talk about anything", a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" pulled her hand; "moon on the Moon", you attacked and kissed her. At this moment, she is already your girlfriend. No matter whether she acknowledges it or not, she thinks you are his boyfriend.
I know the best. I never asked "are you willing to be my girlfriend" when I went to bed. Finally, the girl was in a hurry: "Why are you not asking me to be your girlfriend !"
Therefore, do not rush to crack the window paper. The more embarrassing the situation is, the more favorable it is for you.
2. What is "confession?
As mentioned above, confession is actually a form. The correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, so that you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always think that they promise to be their own girlfriend first and then how to do it. I can only say that they are very "simple" and very "stupid ".
3. Is there a time to force a confession?
Yes, for example, when a third party occurs, or you are not mature with a girl, the two may be separated for a while.
At this time, the confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. Similar to the grim situation in GO games, the late party is forced to release a "victory" and wins, if you lose, you can only say "bad luck is born ".
4. Do not export the word "love" easily
I often see "bold confession" in forums. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment, and even responsibility.
A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.
4. Civilized love, cannot be forced
1. Not every mm can catch it.
A good girl will always have many people to catch up with. It is impossible to fulfill everyone's wish. There will always be losers. For example, even if you have worked hard to master the most advanced mm principle, you won't be able to catch any one of twins.
From another perspective, a rural nanny who has not graduated from elementary school is willing to "Become a horse" for you even if it is good for you and earn 600 yuan a month to buy you a 700 gift (overdraft ", you will not fall in love with her. If she is crying every day, you must be bored.
Therefore, love requires material foundation and at least balance.
2. Chasing mm is a serious social activity.
Do not bother people and leave them behind. Why is my big husband having no wife? Some mm is indeed Snoop (a minority). If you are not convinced, you can be angry and use facts to prove that "she was blind at the time". Never miss yourself.
　　
The last two points are added:
(1) Never be cynical in front of MM. Cynical sometimes means "you fail ".
② You must reply to the post. Otherwise, no girl will like you ~~~