How far can a person go? Let's see who he is 』

 

How far can a person go, depending on who he or she is;

How good a person is, depending on who he or she provides guidance;

How successful a person is depends on who he or she is.

Because the earth is close to the rose, it absorbs its fragrance, which can also emit the fragrance and bring the fragrance of roses to others. In fact, we are also the same, and what kind of people we get along with, over time, will have the same "taste" as him, the so-called "Bad taste" is like this. On a forum entitled "creating wealth", a spokesman gave a small test to the audience. He said, "Please give everyone a piece of paper, write down the six people who spend the most time with you, or six friends who have the most intimate relationship with you, write down their monthly income, and calculate their average monthly income. This average value reflects your personal income ." The test results surprised everyone.

We have an old saying in China: "near Zhu Zhe Chi, near Mo Zhe Hei ." Americans also have a saying: "They live with fools, eat, drink, and live with wise men. They always think diligently ." These two statements are actually the same principle: the influence of friends is very big, so big that it can influence or even change your life. How far can you go lies in who you walk. If you want to fly high, please join the e and become one of them. If you mix up with the chicks all day long, you are unlikely to fly high. Someone once interviewed Bill Gates on the secret of success. He said, "Because more successful people are working for me ." Chen anzhi's "Super success learning" also mentions that working for successful people first, working with successful people, and finally letting successful people work for you. People you interact with are your future. Contact with excellent people and you will be well influenced by them.

In an experiment, German behavior expert hainreat found a very interesting phenomenon: the goose that just broke out of the shell will instinctively follow behind his mother at the first glance, but if it does not see its own mother at first glance, but other movable objects, it will automatically follow it later. It is particularly important that once the goose forms a follow response to an object, it will no longer form a follow response to other objects, the formation of this follow-up reaction is irreversible. This phenomenon was later referred to as the "printing effect" by another German behavior expert Lorenz ". The "printing effect" is not uncommon in the human world.

You are often confused with people who drink and gamble, and you cannot forge ahead. If you are often accompanied by people in the drilling camp, you will not be steadfast. If you often talk to people who complain, you will become full of complaints; if you often interact with people who are full of "money", you will become a profit-only person, who can learn from wealth and learn from profit.

Things are clustered by groups of people. What kind of friends represents what kind of future. If your friend is a positive person, you may become a positive person. If you want to be better, your friend must be better than you, because only they can provide you with successful experiences. If you always do the same thing with a group of people, your growth is obviously limited.

People are a kind of circle animals, and everyone has their own social circles. The difference is: Some people have small circles, some people have large circles, some people have high energy, some people have low energy, some people manage circles, and some people do not manage circles; some people rely on the circle to find the perfect match, and some people leave the circle to be stretched. Nothing can be done.

No matter how big your circle is, there are usually no more than people or even fewer people that really affect you, drive you, and influence you. Generally, there are only three or four people. Your daily mood is good or bad, and often only related to these people. Your circle is generally limited by these people.

Therefore, it is a question worthy of our serious and serious consideration and consideration to make friends with people, form a sphere of influence, and form a circle of people, even the biggest thing you have ever had.