Chapter II
Recognize yourself: What kind of person you belong to
You have to know yourself enough, there are three types of people below,
(1) Those who have tasted
The little one is curious about all the new things, whether it's the first contact sport or the better job opportunity,
or a new relationship. They like to start from the beginning of the feeling, like to buy a variety of equipment, like to the new vocabulary, like all the freshness. Once they have tasted the sweetness of the fast growing period at the beginning of the learning curve, they will be carried away by joy. However, after the platform period is what they did not think of, it is unbearable, at this time, the enthusiasm of freshness gradually subsided, they began to miss, began to look for various excuses. Then they go back and look for a new project, and once again experience a zero-based thrill, maybe this time they might be lucky to get through the first platform, and of course they might end up, and then continue to start the next new project.
(2) forcing the breakthrough
The force of the breakthrough often has a firm character, they courageously rushed to the second place. They pay attention to the results, regardless of the cost to complete the predetermined goals. They are always dreaming of quick mastery of the secret, and every time after class, the teacher asks that this is often the kind of person. No matter what they do, they will plan well in advance. But when they are really on the stage, the feeling of no progress makes them unbearable. They begin to question themselves and blindly work hard, and they do not listen to the advice and advice of their colleagues and friends. In short, no matter what to do, the force of the breakthrough is always relentless pursuit of progress, but can not avoid the curve after the rise of the twists and turns. At this time, they will be frustrated, disappointed, but also the negative emotions to the people around, its friends and family, work colleagues, business partners, intimate lovers, no one spared.
(3) The complacent person
The performance of the status quo is another way, after the initial progress, they may be willing to stay in the platform period. As long as they do not delay things, they do not make progress, no matter excellence. They don't care about business problems, but they've been complaining about why the chances of advancement are not on my list. For example, if your tennis partner is progressing quickly and you have been standing still, one day you will not be able to play the game. Marriage is also true.
Three categories of people are not distinct, the same person in different aspects of the likely performance is not the same. All you need to do is recognize yourself, and everyone has a clear positioning for themselves. Observing the appearance of these kinds of people, we can know why the road to success is so difficult. More importantly, we can use this to better identify themselves, on the road to success more determined to go on. There is no shortcut to success, all you need to do is step-by-step, don't give up.
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