How to stay lucky?

Why are some people always lucky because they know how to choose. People want to make the best decision to change their lives, but it is very difficult, because this is something that needs to be finalized. Maybe you don't need to make the best decisions and choices all the time. To make things better, maybe we only need to make better decisions. When making a choice, You need to be calm and enthusiastic, and ask yourself meaningful questions to guide yourself to make better decisions. Asking questions is to motivate yourself to understand the real questions and find the most appropriate answers.

1. Keep your mind calm

In the face of a situation, we should rationally focus on our real needs, analyze and obtain more choices, and think clearly from the beginning to the end of each choice. Better results will naturally come into being. In fact, this process is to encourage you to think more deeply about your needs, review your decisions, and make better decisions. You can ask yourself the following three questions:

(A) What are your real needs?

Think about your real needs, and distinguish between desires (what you want) and things that can bring you benefits and help (what you really need ). We want a lot of things. We really need few things. First, we need to satisfy our own needs, and then chase what we want. To focus on your actual needs, you must first make the specific and clear considerations and accept the decisions that allow you to stay close to your actual needs, say "No" to anything that cannot meet the real needs ". Feeling and analyzing your specific and real needs will naturally allow you to make decisive and better decisions. Similarly,More focus on what you need to do, so that you can be qualified and have the capital to pursue what you want to do..

(B) What are the choices that can meet the needs?

In most cases, there are multiple options, but some options you have not noticed or even intentionally ignored (used to being familiar with and secure, and unwilling to take a comfortable zone ). To find more options, you must start by asking questions and collecting "necessary information, "Necessary information" refers to information that helps you make better choices (provided that you understand your real needs) and can learn from others' experiences, more needs to be observed, analyzed, and confirmed by yourself. Many times, we feel that we have no choice because we have closed ourselves (out of fear or laziness). You should collect information to gradually let yourself get rid of the unknown state and further find out more information, get more options, and then select the one that best suits your needs. Information is a series of facts and people's views and feelings.

(C) Have you considered it carefully?

The slower you go, the earlier you arrive.Life is like dominoes. Almost all decisions are connected and affect each other. Some small decisions may bring about huge changes. Therefore, we must carefully consider every decision. The more Zhou Xiang thinks, the less unexpected the situation will be, and the more comfortable the response will be. Make as comprehensive predictions as possible for what you want to do, where you want to go, and what you may want to face. Therefore, asking a few more questions about each of your choices can help you better understand the consequences of the choice, so as to make the best choice to meet the real needs.

2. Listen to your voice and take care of your feelings.

Decisions need to be determined by the mind, as well as the feelings of the heart. The decisions that pass through your inner identity are actually determined to conform to your own character and belief. Everyone's decisions are subconsciously influenced by their beliefs. decisions that do not violate their beliefs will make you happy. Character is the sum of personal beliefs and the way in which these beliefs are realized. Faith means self-recognition of personal values.The more clearly you know your own character and belief, the more you can make better decisions. Faith leads the final decision just like a lamp in the dark.In turn, everyone's decisions reflect their thoughts, feelings, and beliefs, and convey their own world outlook. Those who are honest with themselves, have a keen intuition, and are good at profound introspection can often make better decisions.

3. Keep lucky

To make a better decision, you must first stop executing a wrong decision, or stop and review a decision that may confuse you. What are the criteria for identifying wrong and confused choices? Check whether the execution process is close to your real needs? Does the execution seem to be difficult? If you know it is wrong, stop it. Don't get used to the familiar and ineffective methods, and don't stay in the comfort zone.

In fact, everyone is their mentor, and everyone is more and more intelligent. by looking at the consequences of their past decisions and decisions, you can understand many things, learn from bad decisions and learn from good decisions.