A lot of friends in the circle now will laugh and say: "Chicken soup, not just that, today excited, impulse two or three days, the back, should eat to drink, the original so now still like that." ”
Similar to this situation, many people talk about the word of effort, always with a kind of the attitude of a person, sneer at.
Maybe a long, long time, only 1% of the likely to get the results they want, but, ask yourself, do you really work hard?
I mean the effort, not your mouth shouting hard, but still stay up late to chase the play to read comics. In fact, you are the only one who knows if you are trying.
People around have been shouting every day to learn PS, to learn web production, to learn video clips ...
One months later, two months passed, seemingly nothing changes, still sleep lazy sleep, playing games, chasing Korean dramas.
To put it simply, I think the first element of hard work is being uncomfortable.
Probably most people still remember the state of their own college entrance examination, my high year, the memory is particularly clear, at that time, I think that time particularly hard, sometimes their own endorsement back will cry, is really actually crying out. At two or three O ' night, repeated memories of those seemingly boring, uninteresting historical events, history books, has a variety of expansion of knowledge points, blue and black three colors of the marker pen to fill the entire history book filled with dense.
Close friends, the library opened the door he went, the library closed he came back, without cell phone, without a computer, with only one and a thick notebook, accompanied by his is only those extremely dull, in life may not be used for a lifetime theory.
The cold wind to morning reading, nature did not lie in bed sleeping in comfortable;
See those boring theory, nature did not chase Korean dramas, play the game comfortable;
In the library to stay a day, naturally not than in the dorm to play mobile phones, read novels comfortable;
Follow the online video to learn that they have never touched the PS, video clips, there must be no brush micro bo, to see the satin comfortable;
You ask yourself, is it because you are too comfortable, so you like to go all the way comfortably.
Sleep to eight or nine in the morning, go to two classes, then eat, come back to play computer, play games, time is rich, and then find a sister to talk about love, shopping for dinner to see movies.
Not satisfied with the status quo, the inner faint uneasy, feel that they do nothing, there is no expertise, but also like the ease of the present, do not worry about anything, eat and drink on the past.
The ancients said, born in sorrow died of happiness, of course, is reasonable, life is too comfortable, too easy, it will kill your morale.
Second, it's about finding something you like.
To be honest, in any case, this long life will always pass, but I hope, while still have time, energy, to do those things like.
Love this thing, really have unexpected power. Because liking itself makes all the uncomfortable things interesting.
I hate to stay up late, but when I first came into contact with audio clips, I cut them all day and night, slept four or five hours a day and stayed up until two or three, but the next day was still very energetic.
Around friends like to write things, contact with the web when, soak to the computer, one day can code word tens of thousands.
Because I do like things, so stay up late, get up early is nothing.
When you try to do what you like, you already feel happy, and the final result is a surprise.
But I think a lot of people, I'm afraid I don't even find the things I like?
It doesn't matter, do not like things, go to find their own interests, do not understand, did not touch not afraid, precisely because do not understand, so it is interesting ah.
In this unknown world, try to do those things like, do not idle down, all the time to use their favorite things, do not fear no results, do not be afraid of success, the most afraid of your life mediocrity, but also comfort their ordinary valuable.
Serious, hard to do something, and finally no matter what the outcome, but you must really like that sense of fulfillment.
In order to dream, in order to like, desperately to do, it is quite lovely.
Third, perhaps if you do not want to work for themselves, but have you ever thought about the people around?
Not everyone born, there are countless network circles, paved the way forward, in fact, we all know that we are only the world, the most ordinary one, not rich second generation, nor official second generation, each step to use blood and tears to change, sometimes may not go, began to reverse.
Many people walk a few steps, do not want to move, because feel particularly tired, if you are just a person, you certainly can not work hard, but, we are not a person, we also have people around.
Last spring Festival holiday, in the mind to bring something to Mom, in the street, when, am bought a slightly expensive clothes, to mom, forget to tear the tag.
I was told by my mother for three or four days, always said to take back, too expensive. I despise the appearance, said can not retreat, let her wear.
The whole spring Festival, that dress mom wore once, or aunt aunt's family to our home, they all said clothes look good. Mom is a face happy to say, I bought, my eyes good, said this when the eyebrow angle can not stop rising.
At that time, do not know why, I feel very sad.
Holiday ended, just back to the company, mobile phone message prompt remittance 5000 dollars to the account, see the text message, I knew it was my mother to call me.
After a while, my mother's text message sent over "in the outside to work is not easy, don't always give me the money, I am very good at home, eat well, drink good." ”
The National Day home, found that clothes hanging in the closet, as if not through the same.
At that time inexplicable sad for a long time, suddenly think of childhood, home is very poor, parents are special province, my impression, mom did not buy new clothes, aunt aunt sometimes take some old clothes come over, mother happy and picked up the same.
So many years, the mother is still special province, but to me, but particularly willing to spend money, whatever I want to small gadgets, snacks, she will always give me the best possible.
Do not struggle hard, I take what to give her the best?
No matter what the final result, I always believe in the meaning of hard work.
You work hard, you are worthy of your own blood;
You work hard, you are worthy of the hard times you have endured;
You work hard, you are worthy of the people around you.
Afraid you work overtime to stay up once, shouting the black-hearted boss, out of hope.
Fear that you will fail once, and shout that you are gold but nowhere to shine.
I'm afraid you have to drink and spit a few times, shouting social darkness, no money, no right, want to give up.
Are you comfortable with the world in chaos? Are you really trying to do what you love?
If you have been grinding off the edges and corners of life, you are defeated by the reality, I hope you also believe that the meaning of hard work, do not disappoint themselves, not to disappoint the people around, how to be as satisfactory, but to be worthy of heart.
I always believe in the meaning of hard work