If you can, hug me

What do you want to do most when you love someone?
What I want to do most is to close my eyes, hug him, and use my hands to gently touch his face, arm, and chest ......
I want to use my touch to remember what I love deeply.
But how long have I not done this?
I stopped my hands dancing on the keyboard and twisted my fingers. They seemed like the land that had been shining for a long time in the hot sun, and became rough and dull due to lack of runze. I was surprised to find that my touch may have started regionalization because of my neglect of use.
I raised my palm and looked at my fingers. They should be slim and sensitive and have the most detailed tactile functionality. However, this meticulous feature has gained a lot of attention in terms of vision and hearing.
This is understandable. Unlike vision and hearing, the touch is always in the audience position. Normally, whether you want to listen or not, many things may break into your eyes and ears. Touch is a more subjective feeling. Before we play its role, we often need to use our own hands to push the heavy gap between people. This gap may be hidden and unknown, but we can all realize that they are everywhere.
For example, a long pause suddenly occurred while waiting for a long conversation. It was an unpleasant long pause because two people could not find the best way to express their emotions at the same time. This silence is uncomfortable. Every time there is a thick wall between two people.
To push these gaps away, it is a huge project that requires a lot of time, emotion, wisdom and courage, and a little chance of integration.
Is our sense of touch out of favor?
Actually, the language that the finger can read is very special.
When you close your eyes and let the touch take you away, you will find that the touch also has sound and color. It can be said that the fingertip also has the eye and nose functions.
On my windowsill, there is a pot of gardenia flowers that are sprinkling with the fragrance of the season. In the fragrance of Fang Chun, you may close your eyes, hold your breath, extend your hand, just to touch, just to feel the white petals outside Lang Jie, the other is smooth, soft, and refreshing. In the most pure sense of touch, you can also "see" The easily damaged white, "smell" to the sweet aroma.
Why?
I think this is because, in all senses, there is nothing else, more directly connected to our imagination than the touch. Through imagination, we can connect with our hearts in the shortest time to generate a sense of identity. A touch is a bridge directly connected to the depths of the soul. Each finger and every inch of skin are a small sensor of the soul.
When you touch the baby's soft hair and pink face with your hands, you will be amazed at the initial delicate and smooth life. You may unconsciously put your hand light, for fear of hurting her, and hurt the weakness that almost cannot be tolerated in this life. However, she will cry because of your disturbance. Her eyes are closed and her mouth is opened with grievance.
At this time, she could only come up with her mother and pat her baby with her hand, wipe her tears, and touch her red face with excitement. Only in this way can she stop and cry smartly. Wu's eyes open again and look at this strange world, and the only thing in a strange world that makes her feel familiar and safe-mom, she will not be restless. This is the power of touch.
Nature and love are continuously injecting into the baby's body through the mother's hand. Love is so deep and warm that the baby's skin can penetrate into the deepest layer of her mind, helping her eliminate all fear of the unknown strange world. Because of the touch, the warmth of this love is deepened.
One time I was touched by a certain camera on TV for a long time. The two fathers and sons, due to a long lack of communication, have become two "Strangers" that are no stranger to each other ". Communication between them is all done by the mother in the middle.
At last, the TV station invited their family to do the program. Both the father and son can talk to each other, and face to face immediately becomes speechless. The host tried every means to bridge the invisible emotional cracks between them. As a result, the confidence of the host gradually disappears from the stubborn insistence of the father and son. Even if the father and son are sitting on the same sofa, they are not willing to directly talk to each other. They even refuse to take a look at each other.
When the program was about to end, the poor host proposed that the father and son would hug each other. At that time, I felt that this was simply using physical methods to solve chemical problems (I am not good at mathematics and physics, and I don't know if this is feasible. Intuition is not feasible .). How can the gap between decades be resolved by a metaphysical hug?
After the proposal, the two men sat quietly for about half a minute. The whole site was quiet. The camera continuously swept back and forth on the faces of the father and son. The two men were both very serious and did not mind at all. At this time, I found that they are actually very similar, whether in appearance or in the heart of something. However, the two people, like this, seem to have decided to stay deadlocked.
The atmosphere is really embarrassing. The helpless host is only Hahaha. He stepped forward and forcibly pulled both the father and son together. It was simply pushing them to hold them together.
That son, he is not a strict man. At most, he is a combination of boys and men. So I think his mind will be more immature, the desire to embrace is also stronger than the desire of the father. After ten seconds of contact with his father's body, his eyes turned red, and for another ten seconds, he hugged the other life body that gave his life, tears burst into his eyes, and slid down his cheek.
The miracle is at this time.
Naturally, his son leaned his face toward his father. Then, he gently motioned his father's cheek with his cheek twice, just like any small animal, in the arms of their parents, they will subconsciously make the same action.
The father, a mature man who had never been confused, was finally broken through the last line of defense by this close mo. He also cried, tears mixed with his son.
The scene was still quiet, and only the band was playing "as long as you are better than me" gently. However, the mother standing aside cried silently, and many people quietly shed tears in the audience.
The Director, host, and production of this program must be very satisfied, because it is almost impossible to end with a sudden surprise and emotion.
The surprise and emotion that was created was the occasional two-pronged action.
So I believe there must be a door behind the touch.
When you touch what you like or are touched by him, this door will be opened quietly, all the bad emotions in your heart, such as resistance, fatigue, irritability, anxiety, and pain, will flow along this door to your body; quiet, comfortable, intoxicating, pleasant, and so on are not easy to get happy pleasure, but also come.
However, I have not experienced the experience of feeling love and beauty for a long time. With a slight hesitation in my hands, I missed many very valuable opportunities to Touch Beauty and emotion.
Sometimes, people who feel that their senses are incomplete are not happy. In the boundless darkness and silence, their long-standing touch is awakened, especially clear. In a unique way, we can feel a side of the world that has been ignored. Who is happier than normal people?
When you love a person, smart people will turn into deaf and blind people voluntarily. They just stick out their fingers and use ten times their thoughts, read the secret language hidden in your body and body.
If you can, hug me and let us all have a touch and a spiritual conversation.