Interpersonal Communication: Seven attitudes are the most annoying

Source: Internet
Author: User

When people are in the workplace, they must participate in social interactions. The scope of social networking is closely related to their careers, hobbies, lifestyles, and geographical locations. In real life, some people cannot make friends or
It wasn't long before I made a friend, and my friend left him again. I usually had a bad relationship with my colleagues. The reason is that the bad psychological status in social media hinders the normal development of interpersonal relationships, that is, the social pathological psychology mentioned by psychologists. There are several common causes to avoid them:

1. Inferiority:

Some people are prone to inferiority, or even look down on themselves, lack of self-confidence, have no courage to do things, be timid, follow your own voice, do not have their own opinions. If this kind of psychology cannot be overcome, it will wear out a person's unique personality.

2. Cowardly psychology:

It is mainly seen in people who are not deeply involved in the world, have a relatively small experience, have an introverted personality, and are not good at words. Because of timidity, even if you think the right thing in social networking, after careful consideration, you dare not express it. This kind of psychology can also be observed by others, and the result is to have opinions on themselves and do not want to be good friends.

3. Suspicion:

Some people tend to look at each other with untrusted eyes when they are engaged in social networking or work with friends, so as to be suspicious, capture the shadows, and make irresponsible remarks, however, the relationship between friends is affected when I ask other people what they say when they do things.

4. Reverse psychology:

Some people are always fond of being arrogant with others to show that they are unconventional. If you say yes to anything, I think it is bad. If you say yes, I will say it is wrong, make Others dislike yourself.

5. Playing psychology:

Some people regard making friends as an on-demand scene. When they are in the dark, they may encounter different things and respond everywhere. They love to brag and talk about beautiful things. When they meet someone, they will say how deep they are in contact with someone. This kind of person-to-person interaction is just superficial.ArticleTherefore, there are no friends with deep feelings.

6. financial greed:

Some people think that the purpose of making friends is to "make use of each other". They can only interact with friends who are useful to themselves and can benefit themselves, and often "cross the river and bridge ". This kind of greed for wealth and wealth will damage your personal personality.

7. Indifference:

Some people treat all kinds of things as long as they have nothing to do with themselves, or mistakenly think that the words are sharp and arrogant, that is, "personality", so that others do not dare to approach themselves, and lost some friends.

 

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