Keep a candle

In the middle of the night, one person and one Buddha sat in the temple.

Person: Buddha of shengming, I am a married person. I am crazy about falling in love with another woman. I really don't know what to do.

Buddha: Can you really write that the woman you fall in love with is the only one in your life?

Person: Yes.

Buddha: you divorce and marry her.

Person: But my current lover is gentle, kind, and virtuous. Is it cruel or immoral to do so.

Buddha: It is cruel and immoral to have no love in marriage. It is correct that you fall in love with others and do not love her.

Person: But my lover loves me very much and really loves me.
 

Buddha: Then she is happy.

Person: I want to marry another person after I divorce her. How can she be happy?

Buddha: she still has her love for you in marriage, and you have lost love for her in marriage, because you fall in love with others, it is said that you have happiness, what is lost is painful, so the person who is suffering is you.

Person: but if I want to marry her again after divorce, it should be because she lost me, and she should be suffering.

Buddha: You are wrong. You are just a specific piece of true love in her marriage. When you do not exist, her true love will continue to another one, because her true love in marriage has never been lost. So she is happy and you are painful.

Person: She said she only loves me in this life, and she will not fall in love with others
She said she only loves me in this life, and she will not fall in love with others.

Buddha: Have you said that?

Person: me. Me .. Me...

Buddha: Now you can see which of the three candles in the incense burner is the brightest in front of you.

Person: I really don't know, it seems like they are all bright.

Buddha: these three candles are like three women. One of them is the one you love now. There are millions of people and even tens of thousands of women, you don't even know the brightest of the three candles. You can't find the ones you love now, why are you sure that the woman you love is the only one in your life?

Person: me. Me .. Me...

Buddha: Now you get a candle to your eyes to see which one is the brightest.

Person: of course, this is the brightest.

Buddha: Now you put it back to its original location, and then you can see which one is the brightest.
 

: I can't tell which one is the brightest.

Buddha: in fact, the candle you just took is like the last woman you love now. The so-called love is born with the heart. When you feel that you love her, when you put it back to its original place, you can't find the brightest feeling. The so-called "Only Love" is just a mirror. In the end, it is nothing.

People: Oh, I understand. You didn't want me to divorce my lover,

Buddha: Let's go.

People: I really know who I love now. She is my current lover.

Buddha: Amitabha, Amitabha.

Really brilliant, as long as you keep a candle in your life, you will be able to see more and then you will be dazzled.