Learning and Family Education Z

Hello, I am Wang Ning.
To stand here today is purely accidental.
Why is that accidental?
Because, South ya is a talented place, class 164 is a good group.
Personally, the class top more than 20 students, the timing is appropriate, who test the first place in the class is possible.
Mother said to me: the first Test, do not have pressure, this time has proved that you have to test the strength of the first place.
Later, the appearance of the position up and down floating are normal, with ordinary heart treatment.
First of all, because the time is tight, this speech was written by me and mom and dad,
Here are some ideas about children's learning and family education, and we will discuss:
1, about the score.
From elementary school, mom and dad are asking me that.
As long as the study attitude is good, test scores will not blame me,
So, I have no stress on the score in the exam,
So very few play the wrong time, the result is also poor.
My experience is: do the homework as well as the exams, as easy as doing homework.
Junior high School, my mother told me again: the exam, as long as the test out of your true level, you can.
For example, a test, your true level is 90 points, you test 90 points, it is very good.
If, for some reason, you have only 70 points, then mom and dad will be sorry for you, because your efforts to pay did not receive a reciprocal return.
In our home, scores caused by the response is basically calm, test 100 points or 80 points, no too much repercussions.
Life everywhere is the examination room, calmly face, test out their true level is good. In our home, material is not linked to scores, grades.
Material things, can bring convenience to life, and mom and Dad's economy can bear, will give me to buy, and grades do not matter.
Mom and dad think that the hook is easy to cultivate children's utilitarian ideas, and deviate from the nature of learning and life.
I am not short of pocket money, there is a bank card in the wallet, home of the small box, mom and dad often put hundreds of yuan change spare.
Mom and Dad's philosophy is that in today's time of temptation, children are not short of money, love, the probability of a detour to the outside will be much smaller.
2, enjoy life.
The ultimate goal of education is to give children the ability to create a happy life and enjoy life.
We feel, enjoy life, don't say when you grow up, but start today, from now on.
Once, a grandmother said to me, your parents to you so good, you must study hard, grow up to repay your parents.
Mother corrected this statement, said to me: "The return of parents is not a very high score, but from now on, live well, every day."
So, learning is just an important part of my life, but not all.
Make friends, watch movies, dress up pretty, play with puppies, play games on the internet, relax,
To the country to accompany my grandmother, grandma and grandpa, talk about the boys and so on like these let my life is very rich,
Also let my life full of love, the fire of life burning passion.
My mother said that she felt my understanding of love in every composition.
3, Reading Classics.
Reading Classics is the key to learning Chinese. is also an important way to understand life.
The classics become classics, must have its remarkable place.
From last year onwards, I began to read the name of foreign classics.
I strongly feel that my composition, examination and reading topics have taken a step.
When reading, and do not necessarily feel the obvious effect, but write the composition, the writing of literary talent seems to be not his own, trickling out.
This is the cultural influence, unconsciously into the reader's life.
It is recommended that you do not let children read the fast-food books, such as various magazines, fairy tales, how to success, etc.
To read the classics of the world name. You may not be able to find the feeling when you start reading, but you will find the rhythm when you read two or three.
Once, my mother asked me: When you read the name, do you feel the pleasure?
I said, feel it! At that moment, my mother was relieved. Because, pleasure, is the highest level of enjoyment.
From the role of the stage, reading classics can make the Chinese performance improvement is very about, this very about the examination, is how important.
4, the influence of music
The ultimate meaning of reading, music, and other forms of art is to make a person feel happy at a certain stage and let the soul stretch and light.
The children are very nervous, mom usually pick me up, or drive out together,
Choose some elegant music to put in the car according to the situation.
I was relaxed, unknowingly exposed to some of the world's famous music, and some lyrics well-written songs,
This time my composition took a high score, is the usual in the car to hear the music for the theme of writing.
5, moisten the matter fine silent.
Now the children Rebel Heart is very heavy, I am no exception.
such as reading, listening to music, these things,
My mother was very casual, not showing traces,
According to my emotions, when I want to rest or do other things,
She will respect my opinion and not be forcibly assessed.
6, training the independence of children, have ideas.
From childhood, my parents consciously cultivate my independence.
Because, children can not live forever under the wings of their parents.
Respect the child's choice, this is the most important.
Because, many things in life is not only a choice, there are many choices,
There is a certain truth in every choice.
Do not use parents ' choice to evaluate children.
For example: When I was five years old, the weather was very hot, out of kindergarten, very thirsty, want to drink drinks.
My mother gave me the money and let me buy it myself.
I am shy, because I have never tried, afraid, I will not go.
Mom told me that now you have two choices,
One is to buy, and then drink. One is not to buy their own, then endure, go home and drink water.
I hesitated for a moment, chose not to buy, endure.
My mother thought it was a choice, respecting me and not judging me.
In primary school, it rained after school, and mother would not take the initiative to send an umbrella.
She knows, I always think of ways, for example, with classmates to support an umbrella,
For example, in the classroom to do homework first, such as to the supermarket to shelter from the rain, the way to stroll the supermarket.
Because, I once told my mother, your daughter is not as stupid as you think, always think of ways.
Another example: Now I buy clothes, my mother is only responsible for the money.
Last time, and classmates to buy a stall, 25 yuan bought a shirt, put it to school,
Mother said also beautiful, but suggested that I cut those threads, don't let people at a glance to see stall goods.
The second time, I went to buy another one, take it back to feel small.
My mother did not judge me, suggesting that I give a shorter friend than me.
This is my choice, mom and dad all respect me. Do not make negative comments.
That is, I think all the way, my father and mother all the way to respect, I grew up, do not escape, learn to think, have their own ideas.
7. About carelessness
Often hear parents say their own children, my family children this wrong topic many know do, is careless ah.
Here, I would like to talk about our family's views.
From the five grade, my mother told me: Careless, is the ability is poor, learn not solid performance!
At any time, do not say because careless did not test well.
Parents are also asked not to find excuses for their children to shirk their responsibilities.
Careful, calm, down-to-earth is the necessary ability,
If you have these abilities and occasionally lose one or two points, you can understand,
More than two points, is a lack of capacity, learning is not solid.
This view, my mother began to communicate with me in grade five, I also gradually agree.
Therefore, I can test high scores under normal circumstances, the results of stability, this view should play a big role.
8. Ability to nurture children
Parents have to let go, under the control of the scope to let go.
For example, to do one thing, the child to do, may only play 30 points,
You are not satisfied, scold him, even instead he did, then the effect of the matter can play 90 points.
But please parents note that this 90 points, is always your 90 points, the child is still 0 points.
If, you let him do, in a way that he does not dislike, pointing,
This time it could be just 30 points, and next time it could be 60 points,
Next time, maybe 95 points, even better than you do.
Therefore, parents should learn to be smart and weak, to give the opportunity to children,
and to encourage children in a timely manner. Mom and dad are going to be old,
Learn to give the stage to your child and let them play.
Children only in the practice, thinking, continue to grow up, independent, and then beyond the parents.
After the wave of the Yangtze River, my father and mother are often very happy to shoot me to death on the beach.
9, appreciate the child, support the child's self-confidence, protect the child's self-esteem
The Chinese nation is a humble nation.
In the education of children, but easy to go into a misunderstanding.
Do not pay attention to the advantages of children, and excessive emphasis on children's mistakes.
When I do the right, mom and dad will be in time to affirm me, praise me.
When she talks with her friends, she will fully affirm the merits of the children when she talks about them.
We occasionally hear that the surface will pretend not to care,
In fact, we are very concerned with these advantages of being sure,
We will continue to insist, getting better.
Will calibrate your words and deeds as well as the parents describe.
When the child is wrong, analyze it in a factual way.
Do not shiver, do not turn over the scores. It's better to face things right and correct them.
Things go on, keep on living a good life, do not emphasize and extend the negative emotions too much.
The most wrong way to do this is to reprimand the child and throw the child's face in front of the public.
Parents, please take care of your child's fragile self-esteem!
Of course, people will have shortcomings, I also have some shortcomings, it is not here to say, hehe.
10, inevitability and contingency.
At first, I said I was by chance,
Now I want to tell you, when mom and dad carefully care for the child,
This chance, is inevitable!
Children have a hard, strong, careful, caring and so on these qualities,
Accidental admission to one or several times the first place becomes inevitable.
In the end, I extend my most sincere thanks to my teachers, my parents, my father and mother, who are concerned and educated:
You guys are working hard! Thank you!
To the once care, help my friends, students say: Thank you!
I wish teachers and parents: work smoothly, good health!
Wish the students: happy life, Academic success!

Learning and Family Education Z