[Let me see the story] the story of a couple of programmers

It seems that this article is very old when I am hanging out on the internet today. /But it is worth reposting.

I just got married. My husband is a college student and a computer Major. After graduation, I came to Shenzhen with great enthusiasm. I hope to build a warm nest with the efforts of two people, I hope that I will always love each other and have a happy life. After one year of graduation, my boyfriend's husband was suddenly found to suffer from hepatitis B, and soon my husband was dismissed by the company, they did not apply for any medical insurance for my husband. At the same time, I was dismissed by the company because I had three plus signs on the ticket. The doctor said, I was just infected, it may produce antibodies, or it may be unable to resist the virus and become ill. The girl I was living with removed when I was not there. When I saw the blank bed, I think fate will really catch people. For the first time in Shenzhen, I felt very cold, no job, and moved away from the original Corporate dormitory. My boyfriend lost because of a blow, which made me feel very sad, for the first time, I did not cry, but walked down the street for half a day and said to my boyfriend, "it doesn't matter. We have some savings. Let's rent a house. I am going to find a job, you have a good illness, and it will be better.

Fortunately, I found my job within a week and rented a house near the company. During that year, I was afraid that he would be bored when I was not at home, we spent 6400 to buy a computer and 1580 to activate ISDN. In this way, my work and boyfriend started a difficult way to seek medical treatment. He slept at home during the day and went online, when I got an injection in the hospital, I went home from work every day to cook. It was very expensive to play interferon. Every time I spent thousands of dollars, because my new company didn't have a high salary and I didn't dare to use my savings, I have prepared to pay for all the medicines, so I have never bought new clothes or TVs in a year. I am a super TV fan, my mom washed my underwear even when I went to college. Now I don't even know how I persisted at that time. I was a willful girl and I love to laugh and cry, however, since my boyfriend was ill, I seldom cried in front of him. If I wanted to cry, I secretly cried alone. I remember one time, my husband returned the test results without any signs of improvement, at last he couldn't help crying. I was so sad to see him, but I didn't cry. I tried my best to make him laugh, but at night I cried while washing my face in the bathroom, now, it's a bit difficult. After that, I swear that I had to make my boyfriend happy again. One time, we came back from the hospital and saw the result on the ticket. When the doctor marked the number of virus copies as small, at last, I couldn't help crying on the bus. It was strange that I didn't seem to think about these past events.

After hard work, I finally got a high salary and a high position, and my boyfriend's health was not that bad, but he was out of touch with the outside world for a long time, however, I have seen many mature and attractive young people. I can't help but feel that he is childish. From then on, the conflict arises. We quarrelled, accused him arbitrarily, and reconciled. Finally, we had a big fight several times, when I really want to leave him, I think of the days we spent together, and I love him. As always, it is good to write here, reading books makes us understand the truth and the importance of discussion and communication. We start to talk about the differences in character between us, the ideological gaps caused by the Environment, and finally we accept them, we promise each other: we work together. My husband does not like communication. Besides me, he prefers games most. He is a loyal computer enthusiast, and I like to play games. He is a lively, cheerful, and talkative little woman, I finally want to understand that there is nothing wrong with my mind. I have a lot of pressure on my work, but I feel very angry and childish when I see my husband, so my husband allows me to work happily.

I don't want to write it anymore, because I started watching Korean dramas. After eight years of ups and downs, we got married and are ready to buy a house, I don't know if my husband can see this post. Whether I can see it or not, I want to say to him: Dear husband, I love you. I hope you will feel happy because of me. I will try my best, strive to make us happier.

I would like to say to everyone who is happy or is experiencing misfortune: Don't be intimidated by misfortune. As long as you love life and actively strive for it, happiness will come.

Because the desire is sincere, it will certainly be realized.

Today, I went to work very boring. I shouted my husband to chat in Sina because their organization banned QQ and MSN. I said I felt bored now, my husband suggested that I write a small game with him and then play with them ...... Fainted!

In fact, there is a big gap between my life and my dream when I graduated, and I should make more efforts than other girls. My husband is in poor health, I am dismissed from the company, and I am in partnership with others to do business, not only was he cheated on 30 thousand yuan, but he also cheated on all his painstaking efforts. Many times, I was confused, whether to back down or face everything bravely, I have only one advantage over boys: I am a female, and I am not a dinosaur. I can marry a rich man without having to work so hard, I seldom talk to my friends about the stress that my husband has put on my life because of poor health. When I decide to shoulder the burden of my life, I know that no one can replace myself, all the help is limited. If you want to make yourself happy, you must be strong. If you have worked hard and experienced so many times, you really feel that as long as you are strong enough, there is no big deal, I used to be a programmer, and so did my husband. So I know that it is hard to do technology, and that it is not very colorful to be a technical boy. However, if you love computer, you can work hard, plan your development direction, and then work hard. There will be a great return.

In addition, I hope that the society will not discriminate against patients with hepatitis B. My husband used to be a serious patient with hepatitis B. We live together and I am very healthy. My husband once looked for a job because of my health, these once put a lot of pressure on my husband and made a lot of resistance to our life. In fact, my husband is smart and competent, and I am very angry about this and want to swear, but I don't know who to scold.

I hope everyone can treat themselves well and others well. We wish everyone who likes computers a happy and happy life.