Letter to daughter's youth birthday (reproduced)

Xiao Meng, the beloved daughter:

This is an ordinary and quiet night, a busy day of homework you have entered a sweet dream, I sit in front of the study desk lamp, this is my father and mother 14 years to write you the first letter, it will be your journey of life an important spiritual covenant.

In fact, I always do not like the composition of the proposition, reluctantly falling on the paper every word will make people feel jerky and tasteless, but for you, this "occasional" I am sure to write, and to hardest to write, not only for a responsibility, but also for the supreme emotion of the world.

Tens of thousands of babies are born every minute of the world, and it is very meaningful for you to be as scheduled as you are to our family. If there is a real presence in this world, my beloved daughter, then your birth is the most precious gift that God has bestowed on her father and mother in this life. From the moment you born, your every move, smiles all the time to affect our hearts, only because you are flowing with us the same blood.

There used to be something called "The greatest Love in the World", which we often read in literary works, but never really understood until you were there.

The first time I saw you sleeping in the infancy of the young and quiet small face, suddenly a share of happiness has never been all over the body, and lingering. Perhaps you do not believe that, in the hospital maternity ward accompany the day, Dad unexpectedly excited three days three nights without a wink.

Experienced a painful ordeal of the mother, exhausted to lean on the bedside, the face is filled with a shallow, happy smile. Child, suggest you take time to read Xu Zhimo's prose poem "Baby", then every year on your birthday, on the cake on a big candle, for your mother.

Those years mom and dad just graduated from college into society, all day long for life, income is barely enough to maintain a livelihood, want to in the vast Metropolis Ann home really is not easy, a big Beijing even can not tolerate us a narrow bed, in order to be able to spend the room in the dark basement, we even have to choose flash marriage. Although there is no place to live, but we have never hesitated: "A home can have no money, no house, but must have children, no children's home can not become a complete home." "14 years ago, you were born into that dark, warm basement.

When Father Young, sometimes temper very bad, just married that years, like many small couples, we also often because of some trivial recognization quarrel, not to let, the situation was very bad. And then, because of your arrival, everything changed. If you want to change a man, give him a daughter. This time your mother won the game completely.

There is a song to sing: "Home is my most willing to burden." "For that love, even if you pay more is worth it." Although the conditions are difficult, the pressure of life often puzzles us, we have been confused, wandering, but we have never given up, we always believe that, as long as the insistence, everything will be better, because there is love there is hope.

When you were one year old, our family moved to the ground, though it was just a small two-bedroom. Five years later, we moved into our present home and fulfilled the desire to prepare a small room full of childlike joy for you alone.

Mencius three move, evictions and place. From kindergarten to primary school to high school, we have struggled to get you into the best schools in Beijing, but just want to create a good education environment for you. From your birth until now, no matter how hard and busy work, we have always insisted that you stay by yourself with the big, even never asked a day nanny, just because we believe that in the child's way of growth, the role of parents is irreplaceable.

Although AdAge said: "Poor son, rich daughter." "No doubt, in the eyes of Mom and dad, daughter is the apple of the eye, for you, we would like to pour out all including life to hurt you, love you, pet you, care you, but we will never go without principle to spoil and let you." Children's education is a very deep knowledge, as parents need to constantly learn and adjust, we really made a lot of effort and effort. In order to cultivate your perfect personality, in order for you to thrive, we have to choose the rational way of education. Too heavy love afraid of your young heart can't afford, so we love you very attention to control. At ordinary times, mom and dad are strict with you, just to teach you something is not necessary for, a lot of time we are in with you to grow up with your bad habits to do tenacious struggle, this is not only test your will quality, but also test our patience and perseverance. Mom and Dad are ordinary people, there will be a wrong time, sometimes the attitude of impatience, sometimes even emotional runaway, angry at you, but one of the good intentions, I think you will be able to realize that you have been a smart and considerate child.

All these years to accompany you to grow up, children, I want to tell you, from you we also learned a lot of things, at the same time, your deep love to bring us unparalleled happiness and happiness, for this, mom and dad always be grateful. In fact, love a person really can be so simple, the other we blessed, only Hello, is enough.

Now, your mother and I are already middle-aged, from your energetic body we seem to see their former youth, and the face of the reminder of the years, we began to sigh fleeting. Man's life is so short, son, while young cherish all the good things you have now. Flowers Xie can be opened again, the moon is short can be round, many things to wait for life, a lot of things missed can re, only that youth, that fleeting youth, this page once turned over will not come back.

When the years flow, Fang Hua not, suddenly look back at the moment, memory that such as a dream like a poem Bloom whether like the round on the hill on the quiet full moon like no regrets.

Beloved daughter, will eventually have a day, the wings of the birds will be wings, at that time, we will be a kind of mood: is not shed, is concerned about, is to meet, is the expectation, how many days and nights, countless points drip, like yesterday as vividly, Watching you from a starving baby into a slim young girl, we take your hand carefully lead you through the first half of life, leaving the road, full of unknown and hard, but far more beautiful scenery, you must learn to face more exciting life journey. Before you go, please remember to put our love into your bags, so no matter how rugged and long the road, you will not feel lonely and afraid along the way.

Beloved daughter, there will eventually be a day, at the end of the gorgeous red blanket, I will hand your hands to another man's hands, that moment, we will be a kind of mood: we have been hard-raised for more than 20 years of daughter Ah, it is so suddenly with others, all the ups and downs will be in a moment together, At that time I will be repeatedly told your mother do not cry, do not sad, we should feel relieved, after so many years of toil, we finally boil out, from now on, we want to protect your burden to others, that you choose the person worthy of your commitment to life.

Home has a daughter to grow up, look at your height day by day gradually more than mother, our hearts feel gratified. When you are about to step into the life of the most beautiful gorgeous flowering season, mom and dad to grant you some advice, a few in your adulthood before you try to learn things:

First, learn to be thankful

Perhaps just a thank you, a smile, a hug, even inadvertently a look of the expression, it is enough, thanks to the rain moist earth, thanks to the Beidou light voyage, thank the mother for life, thanks to life to bestow the true meaning. With a grateful heart of the people will know what is true happiness, is the happiest people in the world.

Second, learn to bear

"Who broke the vase" story you have heard in the hour. In this complex society, everyone plays their role, bear their own responsibilities, to the country, to the family, to friends, to themselves. People will win the respect of people who face difficulties and mistakes and choose to play bravely instead of cowardice.

Third, learn to tolerate

We know that goodness, peace and humility are the virtues that are inherent to you. Remember the young you once solemnly to appease the resentful father: "Angry is to take other people's mistakes to punish themselves." "The Sea of the rivers, the capacity is large, Bili, no desire is just." Take a step back, give others some understanding, some tolerance, you will feel the world in front of the enlightened.

Four, learn to be strong

From a young age to encourage you to face difficulties to teeth and not frown, fell it doesn't matter, climb up, and then remember not to fall in the same place. Because we understand, although girls, but sooner or later will be rushed out of the shadow of their parents, alone to meet the sunshine and the Baptism of wind and rain. "Tian Jian, gentleman to self-improvement." "The experience of failure is not a heavy blow for those who can face it bravely, but a precious treasure of life." Life will always have too many unhappy, frankly to face, go to the water-poor place, sit and look at the clouds.

V. Learn to be optimistic

Once, the former President of the United States Roosevelt's home was stolen, lost a lot of things. A friend of the hearing, busy writing to comfort him, advised him not to care too much. Roosevelt wrote a letter to his friend: "Dear friends, Thank you for comforting me, I am now very safe, thanks to life." For, first, the thief stole my things, and did not hurt my life; second, thieves stole only some of my things, not all of them; Thirdly, the most fortunate thing is that he is the thief, not me. "Life is the most important thing in life," said Thackeray, a British writer, "Living is a mirror, you laugh, it laughs, you cry, it cries." "The level of attitude, see light gains and losses, the courage to give up, optimistic open-minded, your life will appear exceptionally easy to calmly."

Vi. Learning to enjoy life

Dad once told you there is a wish: when I am old enough to walk, if you can sit in the window on the couch to listen to you play the piano is a very happy thing. From childhood we cultivate your interests and cultural culture, without any utilitarian color, do not ask you to grow up after big leagues, just want to let you feel the colorful beautiful world, become a talented, have taste, have temperament, charm, sunshine upward, love life people. People live in the world, wealth is important, but a lot of happiness is money can not be replaced.

Learn to take care of yourself

Although we are willing to, but we still can not take care of you for a lifetime. Mom and Dad give you the life only once, you must cherish, to know that from the day you came to the world, your safety and health is not just your own business. Human beings worship and praise the goodness and beauty, precisely because this world ugliness too much, you need to know some of the laws of nature's survival. The heart of harm can not be, the heart of the people must not be without, the necessary vigilance will not hinder your sincerity to others. Jinzhuzhechi, Howl, remember that careful dating, in addition to family, friends of your influence is crucial.

Eight, learn to grasp life

Defeating yourself is sometimes harder than conquering the world. Perhaps humble origin, perhaps foyer eminent, perhaps destitute, perhaps extremely wealthy, but never give up the basic principle of life. Although the flow of life, although the trend and for, but never drift, the face of the bizarre world to stick to their value bottom line, the temptation to face the night do not lose the course. Remember that there is no free lunch and you have to be self-reliant. Opportunity is always reserved for those who are prepared, when it is fortunate to come to your head, you must hold tightly, rely on their own efforts to achieve the dream.

Think of Hong Kong radio station host Liangjizhang once wrote a memorandum to son, copy a few sentence also give you:

☆ Bad for you people, you do not mind too, in your life, no one has the obligation to Hello, except me and your mother. As for those who are good to you, you have to cherish, Thanksgiving, but also to be more defensive, because, each person does everything, there is always a reason, he is not really for you, because like you, please you must understand, and do not have to see the other person as a true friend.

☆ Life is short, today you are wasting your life, tomorrow will find that life is far away from you. Therefore, the sooner you cherish life, the more you enjoy life-saving days, the more you hope to live longer, the sooner you enjoy it.

☆ Although many successful people do not have a lot of education, but does not mean not to study hard, it will certainly succeed. The knowledge that you learn is the weapon you have. People, can white hand hing home, but can not be unarmed, remember !

☆ Family only once fate, no matter how long I spend with you, also please cherish the time, the next life, no matter love and do not love, will not see.

Must admit that Dad is a heavy emotional person, when reading the last sentence above, my heart is really deeply touched. Little daughter, Dad, there is no great advantage in this life can be inherited to you, only hope that you can like me.

Meng Meng, the beloved daughter, no matter how the years change, no matter in the ends, mom and dad's two hearts will be a left and right side always accompany you, in you feel lonely and helpless, give you warmth, give you courage, give you strength.

Believe that the day will come when our love you can feel.

Most beloved daughter, you have to remember:

We love you so much, you are the greatest pride in our life !

Always love your mom and dad

Early November 25, 2011, Beijing

The eve of the birthday ceremony of 14-year-old daughter Xiao Meng

From http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_591cc41601011nnh.html

Letter to daughter's youth birthday (reproduced)