What is the hardest thing in life? Poor? No. Frustrated? No. Old? Dead? None. I said that the hardest thing in my life is not suffering from an unfulfilled responsibility. If a person can satisfy his or her needs, he or she is not bitter. If he or she is able to score points (not to share his or her hopes), he or she is frustrated and never bitter. Old and dead are inevitable things in his or her life, it's not hard. Only a person born in the world one day, one day should be something. When the work is not done, it seems that there are thousands of pounds of heavy load on the shoulders, and it is no longer bitter. Why? It's because you have to blame your conscience for not escaping!
The promised person did not do one thing, and the money owed to the person was not paid back. He was not rewarded by the favor of the person, even the face of this person almost dared not to see him; even if he did not see his face, his shadows wrapped around me in his sleep. Why? He can't help it! The responsibility for him has not been removed yet! This is true for a person, family, society, country, or yourself. I am responsible for anyone who has benefited me. I am responsible for what I should do and what I can do. If I have made up my mind to do one thing, I have made a contract between myself and myself in the future. I am responsible for myself. With this responsibility, the conscience will always be monitored in the back end, and the daily responsibilities will not be fulfilled. In the night, the first day will be a bitter day; the responsibilities of the whole life will not be fulfilled, then they died and went to the grave with pain. This kind of pain is better than ordinary poverty and death. So I said that there is no pain in life. If there is any pain, of course there is no worse than this.
What is the happiest thing? Naturally, it is the first pleasure of life. The old saying goes: "Let go." The saying goes: "My heart has fallen to the ground 」. At this time, people will be relaxed and happy, which cannot be described in words. The more important the responsibility, the longer the responsible day, when the responsibility is over, the sea is wide, the peace of mind, the happiness will be multiplied several times! The joy of the world comes from suffering. In order to know the joys and sorrows of being responsible, you must be responsible for your life. This bitter circle is a kind of fun in this dynamic world. But it is not responsible, and the conscience blame, these hardships are found by themselves. Once you turn over the past, you will always be happy when you do your duty everywhere. When you do your duty, you will always be happy. The right to happiness lies in yourself. Confucius said: "No Entry and no self-sufficiency.
Why did Mencius say, "a gentleman has a lifetime of sorrow? Because the more the sage hero, the more important his responsibilities are; and he often wants to put this kind of responsibility on his body, the burden on his shoulders never let go of the season. Zeng Zi also said: "There is a long way to go." It's no longer a long way to go ?」 The sorrow and sorrow of those who are benevolent, even though they have been suffering for a lifetime. But he did his best to do his duty there, and he was so happy there, so he was still happy, not bitter!
Some people say, "since this is a result of responsibility, If I unload my responsibilities, will it never end up suffering ?」 This is not the case. The responsibility is to release it, but not unload it. If life is always like a two or three-year-old, there is no responsibility, and there is no hardship. When it comes to growth, the responsibility naturally falls on your shoulders. How can we hide? But there are differences in size. If you do your best, you will be happy. If you do your best, you will be happy. If you want to hide, you will never be able to relieve yourself.
Today, we have finished our plan for the third exchange meeting. The next week we will begin to implement it, and then we will start to publish the news. It's so comfortable to put down a big stone in our hearts. As described in this article.
Jackei