Many words must be lost, lost in 20 places

Good words a sentence three winter warm, assault June cold. Speaking is an art, not a science. You should pay more attention to the problems that appear in the following "Say"!

1, easy to condescending

A person's identity is high and low, sometimes the height is personal feeling. Once you are feeling "high above", the relationship may change.

2, easy to self-show

In the conversation, do not show off their strengths, achievements, not to be or clear or dark, roundabout for their own boast, so as not to make people disgusted.

3. Easy to be eloquent

When the other side of what you are talking about, do not understand or not interested, do not disregard each other's emotions, he always eloquent.

4, easy to interrupt

To let people finish speaking, do not easily interrupt the words of others.

5, easy to complicate

To fasten the topic, do not complicate. When people are talking about music in an enthusiastic way, suddenly someone is putting the football game in, apparently not known as "heat."

6, easy to flirt

When talking with people, posture should be natural and appropriate, gestures should be appropriate, not pointing point, wink, not to dig the nose, give a person with the impression of frivolous or lack of upbringing.

7. Easy to be absent-minded

When listening to other people's speech, the thought should concentrate, do not look around, or face with tired, even yawn, or look callous, no expression, let people feel disappointed.

8. Easy to dig and mock

Others in the conversation, there has been wrong or inappropriate, should not be ridiculed, especially in the case of many people, especially not, otherwise it will hurt the other party's self-esteem, do not talk to people other than gossip. This is not only detrimental to others, but also harmful to themselves, because the interlocutor will be wary of you, in the back also speak ill of him. Not to make other people's physical defects, as a joke.

9, easy to insincere

To different views, to the city to speak out, do not blindly echo. Also do not casually praise, compliment others, otherwise, I think you are not sincere.

10, easy to be mysterious

Would have been accustomed to the matter, do not intentionally "processing" to marvellous, the tone when the anxiety, when the break, or sell "Xiaoguanzi", play deep, let people elusive. It's very annoying to be so mysterious.

11, easy to warm and cold uneven

When a few people talk together, do not press their own "appetite", not to be treated as someone else's identity, and keen to talk to some people, and to snub others. An unfair conversation is not pleasant.

12, easy short Talk

Must not soak in the conversation, the trivial "digs" the topic, the waste everybody's precious time, should be enough, said finish to go, enhances the conversation the efficiency.

13, can not say the words of the funeral

Some people often like to talk about bereavement, discouraged words, in fact, life should accept the encouragement of others, even if there is no man for me to cheer, but also to self-encouragement. They do not encourage their own aspirations, instead of saying something depressing, of course, will be bent on the stoop.

14, recognization words can not speak

When people are angry, often unconsciously, speak out recognization words, sometimes hurt others, and sometimes hurt themselves. When people are being bullied, it is best to keep calm and not to speak casually, because what is said on the air head is often difficult to hear and therefore cannot be spoken.

　 15, complaining words can not speak

When people are dissatisfied, they often say complaints, hate supervisors, hate friends, and even hate their families. You often complain, be heard, exaggerated, gossip, said you want to deal with this person, to deal with that person, finally self-eating bitter fruit, why come to.

　　 16, the words can not be said

Some people frivolous, not respect for people, tolerant, often talk about some of the words, sometimes beggar, sometimes is not selfish. Language is a temporary, but his personality is underestimated, the damage is permanent.

17, boast words can not speak

Some people in the conversation between, like to promote themselves, styled, self-exaggeration, others listen to must not agree, so self-exaggerated and no beneficial, cattle are not to be told by others.

18, not real words can not speak

Buddhist "Five commandments", "lying Ring" is one of them. Lying is "see the word is not seen, do not see the words, yes said non, not say is", that is, the so-called "lying." The most afraid of lying to become a habit, they are not aware of.

19, confidential words can not speak

There are a lot of secrets between personnel, including family and units. Should form the habit of not casually talk about confidential, you want to publish confidential before, first think of the possible adverse consequences, know the seriousness, will not open the mouth.

20, privacy words can not speak

Everyone has privacy, their privacy certainly do not want to be known, other people's privacy can not speak. Even if you expose other people's privacy, did not cause the other side to fight back, but has exposed their unkind character.

Many words must be lost, lost in 20 places