Meet is fate, get along is a blessing, friend is mutual affection

Taoist saying goes, life two, two three, Sansheng everything. The Chinese believe that this three-part fate is doomed to create an infinite possible life.

The doomed fate of these three points is a gift from heaven. Can understand with seven points of heart, to cherish this three-gift gift, life can be repaired very complete.

/** Fate **/

When everyone thought that Karen Mok has put down love, ready to do a lifetime of strong women, 41-year-old she in the full attention under the marriage hall.

More enviable is that Karen Mok married 17 years old when she made her cry, let her smile of first love.

The most beautiful love is just to go for a spin or the original you. Karen Mok, 17 years old, met the boy when he was studying in Italy, when the whole class envied the golden couple. But because of the young ignorant, two people dating a year parted.

Karen Mok's subsequent emotional experience did not get a satisfactory result. First a 3-year secret underground love, after breaking up to let her sadly after a long time. Then ushered in a "one-stop wait for the period" of 9 years of love long-distance running, she is waiting for the man.

Karen Mok's first lover also experienced a failed marriage. 24 years later, they met each other in the same place.

Fate is really the most wonderful thing in the world, so that the dusk of the cloud, purple Chardonnay flashed. When they were four eyes, they were the best of each other.

The world is so big, if a person will eventually belong to another person. When to hold hands is not important, it is important to hold hands and never separate.

Karen Mok in his own new song, "Half-life" to sing, "Finally I and you half a lifetime to meet, only for you I see, the most true side." Can't go back to the forward, half a lifetime is forever. ”

To repair the same boat crossing, repair thousand world can sleep with the pillow. Fate is beautiful, all rely on our efforts to live out the best of their own. Experienced all the discipline, to repair the heart of good, we began to understand what is the most suitable for their own people, learned to cherish.

/** Blessing **/

Master Hongyi said, the blessing of man is very meager, if not cherish, will this very thin blessing to enjoy the best. The ancients said "queer", that is the meaning.

In his reply, the wife Liao was pregnant with their first child. She had a huge belly and waited anxiously outside the door for the news of her husband.

Lin Yutang opened the classroom door to see his wife that instant, he suddenly felt a lifetime flat light also doesn't matter, married Cui Fung is already the greatest blessing.

The newly married couple's life was very tight when they first came to study in the United States. Lin Yutang did not think, the banks of the family born of Cui Fung will be careful, in plain food can also do a lot of tricks. Later Lin Yutang's financial aid was stopped, Cui Fung to let her husband study, sell jewelry to maintain family expenses.

Later Lin Yutang became famous, and Liao was very uneasy. Because at that time many cultural celebrities abandoned old family's his wife, looked for fashionable knowledge feminine.

Lin Yutang comforted her, said: "Phoenix Ah, you rest assured that I do not want any talented woman for wife, I want is a good mother and wife, you are." ”

Lin Yutang He said that life is happy, nothing more than four things: one is to sleep in his own bed, the second is to eat their parents to cook, third is to listen to the lover to talk love, four is to play games with children. The most important thing is to pity the people in front of us. Together with this person, good life, the years quiet good.

"The fault of our modern people is to eat love as a meal, to treat marriage as a snack, to love the way of marriage, there is no failure." He said, "It's good to eat a marriage and treat love as a snack." ”

Lin Yutang and Liao marriage 50 anniversary, he sent Cui Feng a medal, engraved on the American poet James Whitkonlery "Old Lover" a poem. "Concentric phase concerned, a wisp of love." The years passed, and the silver temples were thin. If the nether is different, desolately should be in the house. If you want to open a smile, unless you meet. ”

A blessing is more valuable than the benefit. In Cherish blessing, we know to be grateful to people around, know how to cherish, know how to thrifty.

/** Mutual Affection **/

Qian Zhongshu said: "One borrow one, one to go, the mutual affection is so closed." ”

Chow Yun said that his success is inseparable from talent and diligence, but one thing is more important, that is mutual affection. EQ is love, this is important and important. IQ is not everything, high, a person to stay over there, you do not touch the following levels of people, useless, always narcissistic. Let your talent fall to the ground. The whole social level, the whole relationship of human relations to pull a little closer, or our society slowly, slowly will pull very far.

Chow Yun High School did not graduate on the job, the bottom of the social wallow for a long time, did the waiter, sold the camera, experienced these alienation, hardship and retreat of friends, mutual support lover, silently supporting his people ... The mutual affection between these people are very important to him. Once, he went shopping alone and was recognized. An aunt was about to take a photo with him and found her cell phone was dead.

The elder brother took the initiative to take her to charge, then the group photo. He felt that the fans had silently supported him for more than 30 years, and now they only wanted to see him for 3 minutes and should not refuse.

That year Ng man tat owed gambling debt, have to Chow Yun-Fat to borrow money turnover, did not expect to send brother refused. At this moment, however, suddenly a director invited him to make a film, he turned over by acting at the bottom, not only to pay off the debt, but also won the Hong Kong Golden Statue Award for the best supporting actor.

Chow Yun-Fat went to the scene to congratulate him, but he still hated heart, deliberately blind. But later the director told Ng Man Tat, the original will invite him filming, originally is Chow Yun highly recommended. ng man Tat saw Chow Yun again, crying and holding his apology.

Chow Yun and his wife once had a child, but when the baby was about to be in labor, her umbilical cord was choking around her neck. It took the wife 7 years to get out of the pain of her bereavement. To prevent his wife from suffering this despair and injury, Chow Yun-Fat made a decision-no children in this life.

He said: "No regrets, we two people are happy enough, the other I will not ask for." He held back the longing for the child, and refrained from all the pressure from the outside world, he subtracted all the worldly, and regarded her as precious, and spoiled her alone.

Where life does not meet. Every time, such as Lotus Water, are the most precious and beautiful world mutual affection. If the mutual affection is deep, it will be whole days spent. The longest mutual affection is the intersection of a friend.

Fate, blessing, mutual affection, is the heaven to give us the face of life smile. What we can do is not to miss and regret, but to cherish the present, do not let it miss.

We do not have the ability to foresight the most beautiful encounter at any time, do not have to waste time to cling to things that do not belong to themselves.

Years like a river, the left bank is not forgotten memories, the right bank is worth grasping the years, the middle of the fast flow, is quiet good time.

Meet is fate, get along is a blessing, friend is mutual affection