Meet such a greedy "post 80" girl on a blind date in Shanghai

Small order:

When I was reading an article two days ago, I learned that "Times" is China's "post 80" nickname "Me Generation", translated as "my generation ", this means that we always consider ourselves at the beginning. When talking, we take "I" as the subject and focus ......

However, I don't think it is necessary to make such a fuss. There are two reasons: First, foreign children may not go anywhere. Otherwise, John Maxwell's book does not need to always emphasize "Pay attention to others". Second, my "post-80s" colleagues are not in the minority, and they did not find out how high they really look and how much they look.

Er ...... As for myself, it must not be Me Generation. There are also two reasons: first, I was born before 80, with my ID card and account book as evidence; second, I made C, so it's the "this generation", not the "Me Generation"-"Me Generation", that is, they make VB.

I seldom reposted articles. Why? Cough! SNAT ~~~ Reprinted today! Why? This is because you have seen the real forks and forks! My chin was shocked. I finally understood the truth-a lot of money may not be a good thing ~~~~

Reprinted:

"Post-80": Who said that the fate of a big money will change?

2007-08-0311: 52: 00

Narrator: Si Shuang

Born on: February 1, 1980

Age: 26 years old

Occupation: Ta

Local place: shanghaiese

Only-Child certificate: Received

I met Si Shuang because a single man I interviewed previously invited me to a party which was actually a dating arrangement, it is also the most powerful lineup I have ever seen, and the most serious dating meeting similar to negotiation.

The meeting will be arranged at the 88-storey coffee shop on the golden ocean building in Pudong, Shanghai. The cup of coffee there will cost 88 yuan. My friend's career is still a bit of a fortune, it was just a couple of years old who were busy with starting a business in their 30 s. This Grand arrangement of blind dates seems to have moved to the heart of the Shanghai girl who had never met.

However, he soon learned how to marry a Shanghai girl.

That night, the heroine Si Shuang and her family arrived one and a half hours late. After receiving a call from one of them, they stood at the door of the elevator and waited, there are about seven or eight people who can walk down the road from the elevator, that is, the heroine who does not see the blind date is awesome. A friend is a little anxious and is busy asking a girl who is older and has a bright face, I was told that the girl is in the dressing room and will come up later.

After all the people are arranged in their seats, the 88 yuan coffee began to smoke like a cup of ground, and the girl Si Shuang Ting walked out of the elevator with her mother's company.

The girl's skin is very good, the porcelain is shining like light, the eyebrows are clear, and the dress is fashionable, is a typical Shanghai Xiaojia biyu.

When a friend looked at his eyes, he was quite satisfied. As soon as he waved his hand, the waiter's fruit plate and ice cream went on to a pile of pages. Before waiting for a friend to open his mouth, the introducer introduced him, I said that this girl seems to be sending a blind date to their house. It seems like this, Dad, Mom, grandfather, grandmother, big aunt, little aunt, uncle, and aunt, probably all of them have time.

Seeing that their dress is not like a family with special financial conditions, the first sentence that Si Shuang said was: "Mr. Huang, didn't your two houses be bought by loan ?" The first sentence of Si Shuang's father is, "Is Nong a Shanghai account ?" The first sentence of Aunt Si Shuang is: "Mr. Huang, you will ask for a nanny in your family in the future. But this niece can do nothing ."

I attended this blind date meeting as a friend of Mr. Huang, but when I saw the two-round discussion of the female's family, I did not leave the word "money", so I asked Mr. Huang to provide proof of deposit, I was a little upset. I inserted a sentence: "Is the little girl pretty? Will she cook"

I didn't expect Mr. Huang, who was exhausted, to breathe a sigh of relief, which caused Si Shuang's mother to be unhappy: "What do you mean by Nong? will you cook? You can ask about it. How many of our only daughters are going to learn how to cook? In addition, my daughter has read from a prestigious school. It is the best course. Our primary school is the ×× Primary School and the best school in Shanghai, the ×× Middle School in the middle school, the best middle school in Shanghai, and the university is also the best university in Shanghai. Moreover, it is because of such excellence that the university is reserved as a TA and such an outstanding daughter, will I cook for you? Don't be confused ." Seeing that Si Shuang's mother reacted so strongly on this issue, I was also surprised. Mr. Huang was also embarrassed to be there. In order to find a step, I had to say, "Well, she won't cook, how can couples live in the future? After all, it is real."

"Hum," Si Shuang's mother gave me a white look. "What time is it now? The idea of having a wife to live and wait for a man is outdated. My wife hurts, we don't want to let such a good girl marry you. Will we let her cook for you? I don't know how to cook it. You can eat a restaurant. I can cook it for them. Besides, I can ask a nanny. I can't afford a nanny, and my daughter won't marry either ."

In any case, if this happens to me, the blind date of the day will be lost. I feel a little sorry, Mr. Huang. I told him that I was investigating the Love and Marriage of the first generation of the only child, I want to ask him to forgive me, but he smiled and waved his hand. "It's not your problem, it's my problem. I not only borrowed money from both suites, I don't want to hire a nanny in the future. I want to marry my wife. This is not their appetite."

When Mr. Huang was about to give up, the introducer sent a message saying that the girl proposed that as long as Mr. Huang could ensure that the house was paid off in one lump sum before he got married, they would still be willing to contact each other for a while, because Mr. Huang does have a good shape. Besides, she is only 6 years older than a girl, and she is quite willing.

It may have been a bit of love at first sight. Mr. Huang successfully promised their conditions. Just as I was so happy that my friend Mr. Huang had been single for many years, mr. Huang, who has been in love with her 26-year-old girl Si Shuang for more than three months, sent me a long-distance call from Shanghai: "generation gap, generation gap, we cannot communicate normally between two generations, I really like her, but I dare not marry her. Recently, her mother urged me to buy her 3 karat diamond ring engagement, 3 karat diamond ring, more than 0.5 million for famous brands. They really thought they had found a huge payment. I was just a small boss who was working hard, in order to buy a house, I have been scaling down, And I seldom beat golf. To marry my wife and make my life quality fall so fast, I am about to collapse."

Despite the complaints from a friend, I can tell that he really loves the girl and is ready to marry her.

I can hear from my friends that this diamond ring is not bought, and girls are not even very active in dating. Mr. Huang, who thinks he has paid a lot, cannot afford it. One day, he suddenly told me that he would bring a girl to Beijing for a few days to relax. By the way, he looked at the diamond ring in Beijing. I was a little surprised. He smiled on the phone and said, "When we meet, you have a good chat with this girl for me and help me determine whether she liked me or my money. I am a little confused now."

Because I have met girl Si Shuang in Shanghai, I am very familiar with seeing each other in Beijing. I proposed to invite them to dinner. I can see that the girl is very happy, after dinner, we went to Houhai to find a quiet place to have tea. My friends offered an excuse to see their partners in Beijing's business leave early. I knew that this was giving me time and space to "investigate" the girl.

I chatted with Si Shuang slowly about clothes and cosmetics. The warmth of shanghai girls is indeed quite comfortable, but her unconcealed desire does make people feel pressure.

I asked her, if I had bought a diamond ring this time, I would probably be able to set a wedding period with Mr. Huang? I didn't expect her to smile. This is just a gift. It doesn't mean anything. She can't determine whether Mr. Huang is a reliable man. How can she marry easily?

I was surprised: "more than 0.5 million, just a gift? What exactly does this girl think ?"

Under my guidance, Si Shuang slowly talked about herself:

My family environment is not good. My parents came back from the Corps. I grew up with my grandparents and my parents got married very late, it's just as pet me as a baby, so I won't do anything, especially my mother. She said, as long as girls are charming and beautiful, they can read books well, you do not need to do many things.

As a result, I have never done anything myself except reading books. I thought that after I entered college, this is almost the same as that for girls in my dormitory. When we are together, we will never do housework better than who is, who is the least, and who is the lazy. We usually don't roll over the quilt. If we roll over the quilt and tidy up our bed, we will be scolded by other girls. Once I just roll over the quilt, I will check the dormitory, we were rated as the worst dormitory. All the girls in the same dormitory scolded me and fined me for inviting them to eat ice cream. After four years of college, all my clothes and so are taken home and threw to my mom. On Monday, my mom sent me to school. Other girls who are not in this city spent money to wash them, five yuan for shirts and three yuan for underpants and so. Anyway, there are a lot of laundry around the school to serve college students.

My mom often said that even though our family has a moderate financial condition, I am their only daughter. She said nothing will make me worse than other children. In my memory, mom loves to buy me a gift. I got countless gifts from small to large. Once, she bought me a pure gold necklace with a monthly salary, and my father was very upset, it's a luxury to say that I was just a teenager wearing this kind of things. For this reason, our family has not eaten vegetables for half a month, but my mom is such a person, she will never make me feel wronged.

When I was in my sophomore year, my mom began to introduce my boyfriend to me. My mom said that our family had a poor environment and it was up to me to marry a huge fund to make a change, my uncle and aunt also said, "I am the first girl in our family to get married. I must marry a rich man and make a model for their children.

At first, I thought I was not convinced. Later, I saw that their expectations were so high that I could not marry anyone who had no money. I thought my mom was right, with my own salary, I can buy a house only when I am a teenager. I should marry a man with more money, so that I can live a good life soon. I have money, my dad, my mom, isn't it that hard? At this moment, I realized the meaning of my mom's saying "to change the fate of our family, we have to rely on me to marry a huge fund.

I used to associate myself with a boyfriend from Singapore. He is two years older than me and I am an alumnus. I still like him very much. He is generous and gives me many gifts, but my mom later heard that his parents were working as instructors in Singapore, and there was no money at home, so he had to let me break up with him. Then he went to the United States, I am sorry for this, but I can't help it. I know that my mom is so determined just for my good.

Later, my aunt introduced me to a Chinese American who is 12 years older than me and has more money. He said that he could take me to the United States to settle in. I could be a full-time wife and, I also promised to buy a house for my parents in Shanghai. We had a good look at the house. When we were about to get engaged, he told me that he wanted three children, two daughters and one son, I was so scared that when I went to college, I made an appointment with the girl in the same dormitory. I don't want to give birth to any of them. I don't like children, but I don't want to bring my own children. That's terrible. I told my mom about this. My mom said, "You can promise him to give birth to only one. No matter your daughter or son, you can only give birth to one. If he agrees, he will get engaged, if you disagree, you should have never talked to him.

As a result, he insisted that he did not agree with my idea of having only one student. He said, why can't I have more than one?

In fact, I have no common language with him, but I will talk to him on the face that he will buy a house for his house when he can leave the country, in this case, we cannot talk about it. Of course, it means that it is disconnected.

Later, my mother spent 6000 yuan to register a member at a senior dating Club. It is said that the registered members are elites and successful people. Because I am young, they are very beautiful. The club people are very enthusiastic about me. They always say they will introduce the best and richest people to me, but more than a year has passed, I have also met hundreds of successful people before and after, and none of them can continue to develop. Basically, I am wondering if I have no more than a cup of coffee or a meal. On one occasion, I happened to meet a man who had met me in a cafe. I Just greeted him politely, but he ran up and said, "Miss Si, I'm lucky to meet you, you still have a good impression on me. Can you think about it again?"

His words left me stunned for a long time. "What do I think about ?" "Think about interacting with me for a while ." I never said that I could not contact you. "No, the club said," You are not interested in me. You don't agree to contact me ."

This man's words surprised me. I was so angry that I went to the club to find out what was going on. As a result, one of them quietly told me, A young and beautiful girl like me, a club, usually won't let me easily find contacts. The longer they keep my archive photos on their computers, the more money they make, because many people want to meet me after reading my documents and photos. However, if they want to meet me, they have to pay for it, the price is very high. Generally VIP members can arrange to meet with me, and that is the level that can be reached by paying 8000 to 10 thousand yuan. After the meeting, many men were very satisfied with me and asked to contact me. Then the club would tell him, "the girls didn't look at you and didn't want to contact you, let's introduce others to you."

Generally, men have a strong self-esteem. People in the club say they haven't been taken into consideration. They often don't ask that girl any more. In this way, without my knowledge, I was so angry that I became the child care of this senior dating club, but I couldn't help them. At most, I didn't want to meet the men they arranged, but I threw away my money.

Later, I heard that most dating clubs do this, and some clubs offer discounts for young girls, allowing you to join the club at a low price. Then, they keep arranging for men to meet you, virtually, you become their cash tree, but they don't care if you can find the target of your dealings. Besides, to make money for you, you just want to see who you are, they also tried to break it up for you, not to say that you are not good, that is to say that the man is too bad, so you come here often because you want to solve the marital problem, but when you run into such a black dating club, you never want to meet the right people in your life. This is actually just a scam.

In retaliation for the friend club that used me as a child care provider, I promised the man who met me in the cafe and asked me to continue his dealings with him for a while.

When I met him for the first time, I remember that he gave me a business card as the chairman of an investment company. In addition, he drove a Mercedes-Benz and lived in Pearl River apartment, it is one of the most expensive houses in Shanghai. I think his economic strength should be good.

After a while, I found that others were very stingy and seldom gave me gifts. In addition, I often took me to eat fast food and said that he was in short time. I think he was trying to save money. Once, when we went shopping, I had a Dior bag and needed more than two thousand yuan. I asked him to buy it for me, but he was shocked! A slap-in-the-air bag costs more than 2000 Yuan, just how much it costs to buy a cowhide bag ."

Although I insisted that day, he still bought me his bag, but I can see that he was a little unhappy. When we had dinner together, he suddenly said to me, "I want to marry my wife, not my wife."

I am also very unhappy, and you are welcome to return to him, "Are you really rich or fake? Well, I feel bad when I buy a bag. My friend also buys more than 10 thousand LV bags, what is this."

He was so angry that day that he went away and said to me, "You know how much salary you earn in a month, more than 2000 yuan, A bag without your palm will use your salary for one month. Do you think this is normal? My money is what I 've earned so much. I won't squander it like you ."

I do not deny that I am a real "Moonlight family". Since my work, I have spent more than 2000 yuan a month, and I have to ask my mom for it in a few days, but if I have money, why am I looking for you? Isn't a man spending money on female? When I went home, I told my mom that my mom didn't do it either. "If I blow it to him, who will marry his daughter to such a stingy man, won't I just buy a bag? He hasn't been asked to buy a house for us yet. Such a man cannot help ."

My mom said, whether a man is good to a woman is mainly reflected in whether he is willing to spend money on a female. Only a man who is willing to spend money on you can be considered, I agree with my mom's words. Although the man later gave me flowers and apologized to me, I should ignore him. Such a stingy man is not in my view.

Later, I met my current boyfriend, Mr. Huang. Others are good and powerful. This time, my mom asked him to buy a diamond ring for me to test his economic strength, besides, he has two houses. If both of them are bought, we will live in one and give them to my parents.

But what upset me was that he always said that I was too capricious, too charming, and too immature. He said that he was six years older than me if he had a generation gap with me and had difficulty communicating? My mom said that the male is a little better and will know that it hurts me, but he is only engaged in social work all day, and his time with me cannot be guaranteed. This time he came to Beijing, I told him to break up with him before "forcing" him to come, saying that I am willful, my mom is my baby daughter, and I am not willful who is willful, my mom said, men like charming girls. I'm not so charming, but he doesn't like this.

I am not mature. I admit that I have come along with a prestigious university and stayed on campus after I graduated from college. I have little experience with reality, but why should I be so mature? I just want to be my little girl. Can I talk about fashion and gossip every day? But he said that I am a thin man. He wondered how I got my college diploma? I got all my exams. I was praised by my first class teacher, who said that I was the most exam-able child and never had to worry about my parents and teachers.

My mother said to me, a girl only needs to be beautiful and slim. She doesn't need to know much about it, but he doesn't say so. He said, except for being beautiful and slim, we should be considerate and considerate. I know that he said this because he was always angry with one thing. That was because he was on a business trip to Hong Kong and I had to go with him. As a result, after arriving in Hong Kong, I went around early and late every day and bought five handbags with famous brands, I don't know if he has a fever of 40 ° in the hotel room. Later, the hotel man helped him call an ambulance. When I returned to the hotel, others disappeared, I didn't see any words left for me at the service desk. The next day, I went on to go out for a visit. I didn't think of asking him for help until my credit card burst. He told me that the infusion was in the hospital, which made him very sad, I think I am a girl who is especially ignorant. However, my mom didn't tell me how to take care of others. My mother took care of me from childhood to college. Besides, my mother also said that the man I marry in the future must know how to take care of me, love me. Do I still need to take care of men?

If it weren't for the sake of seeing him have two houses, I 'd like to blow it to him. This kind of man has too many requirements. You say that I want to have a looks and a body, I have read from a prestigious school all the way, and I have already been perfect. In our classroom, there are a lot of people chasing me, that is, my mom is honest when I look at others, this time I bought the diamond ring, it was settled. If I didn't want to buy it for me, he wouldn't want to continue with me. We are indeed two generations, our generation does not like virtual objects. If you are interested, you have to take some practical actions. Otherwise, don't waste time on each other. My youth is precious, I don't want such a man to be delayed.

Coincidentally, Si Shuang's voice just fell, and his friend Mr. Huang appeared at the door of the teahouse. I think sI Shuang will be a little embarrassed, but he said hello to his boyfriend with a look, it seems that the girl who just sent the oath was not her.

The atmosphere is not correct. I also want to sneak out in a hurry, and my friends didn't leave me. In the next few days, I am in a dilemma. I don't know what to say when my friends ask me for an answer.

As the saying goes, if you choose to split a temple, you will not get married. I really don't want to get involved in the marriage of other people. What's more, the Shanghai girl Si Shuang is a little terrible. In my opinion, it is a secret, but I don't want it to be related to me, Because emotional things often come to the blind spots, and no one can tell.

About three days later, my friend sent me an email from Shanghai, which says, "a girl who has been playing with you for three days for only one diamond. Have you ever met me? I met, for fear, girl after 80 ."

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