My heart broke when I saw my wife cheating.

Happy families are the same, and unfortunate families have their own misfortunes. It is hard to imagine the damage that a beloved wife has cheated on her husband. The protagonist of this article experienced a series of Psychological Conflicts and struggles, and then divorced again. However, his life cannot go back to the past. His psychological shadows cover him, and he does not know how to face his wife or where to go ...... I never expected that there would be a problem with my marriage for seven years. I have been married for more than seven years and have a lovely son in the second year after marriage. My wife and I are very loving and have never been blushing since I got married. I work in a law firm. My wife works in an advertising company. She is a department director. She enjoys a lot of social media, but I understand her very well. I believe in her character, believe in the deep emotional foundation between us, and never imagined that our marriage would have problems. One day, after finishing the official work, I thought that I hadn't had dinner with my wife for a long time. I went to a special restaurant and booked a seat. Then I drove to pick her up. After arriving at her organization, I parked my car across the road and sat in the car waiting for her to get off work. I wanted to surprise her. At this moment, a Mercedes-Benz car stopped in front of me. Inadvertently, I suddenly found my wife out of the car, and a handsome middle-aged man also came out. He seemed to have something to tell him, and said something in his wife's ear. Then he patted his wife's buttocks. The wife beat him twice angrily, and the man turned his head and drove away with a smile. The wife stood there and watched the distant shadows and turned into the unit. At that time, my heart sank and I felt an ominous feeling. In the following days, I will pay special attention to my wife's whereabouts. I will drive to her unit as soon as I have time, quietly slide to her office, and then rush to leave without disturbing her. Every time I saw her desk work, I felt that I had a lot of heart, and the stones in my heart were slowly put down. One day, I found another unexpected thing. That day, because we slept too late at night, we both slept in the morning. After washing, she hurried down the stairs without makeup. When I dressed my son and prepared to send him to school, I heard a buzz. Looking down, my wife was in a hurry and forgot to take her cell phone. I picked it up and saw it was a new Samsung mobile phone. When did she have another Samsung phone? Since she has two mobile phones, Why don't she tell me another number? When I turned on my cell phone, all the received, dialed, and missed calls were all on the phone with "Tian Xin", and suddenly thought that "Tian Xin" was pronounced as "sweetheart ", the blood in your mind is surging. At this moment, I heard a sound of familiar footsteps in the corridor, hurriedly put the phone back to the original place, and then pretended to have nothing to do with his son ready to go downstairs. As soon as we got out of the door, our wife hurriedly said that she had forgotten her cell phone. When I asked her to help her get it, she looked at me in a panic: "No, no, let's go. Don't let your son be late ." Intuition tells me that there must be a secret between her and Tian Xin. During that time, when she fell asleep late at night, I quietly got up and opened her cell phone to view her call. Naturally, they contact each other every day. At most, they make 15 calls a day, and one call lasts for more than two hours. My guess is finally confirmed. On one occasion, she was negligent and forgot to delete a text message. I opened it and the blood rushed up again. "My dear, I love you more and more, I really want to eat you in my mouth ......". When I rushed to the bedroom with my cell phone and tried to pull her up, I held back. I work as a lawyer. I know that it is impossible to prove anything with these call records and a text message. Lying in bed, I thought calmly, maybe I used to work too busy and neglected to care for her. I want to believe that she is responsible for our feelings based on her character, even in some "Small episodes", I will pull her out of the swamp with the most sincere love. The moment I saw my wife cheating, I felt totally split. Next, I only deal with some major cases every day and try to spend more time with her. I was very disappointed when I looked at their call records and found that they were still frequently in contact. Once I accidentally heard my colleague say that there was a computer software that could burn two mobile phone numbers to one and connect the phone numbers and text messages. I immediately bought this device from my friend. After mastering the operation method, she quietly burned her number to my mobile phone card that night. At four o'clock P.M. the next day, I was at work, and my cell phone suddenly prompted me to send a text message. I quickly opened it and saw that the text message was sent by Tian Xin, i'm so angry. After a while, my wife called and said that she had a sister who had a birthday and she would not go home for dinner at night. I immediately thought that she might have been dating "Tian Xin", and immediately stopped her work and arrived at her unit, waiting at the door. As expected, when I got off work, the Mercedes-Benz drove over on time, and his wife walked out of the door and went straight to the car. I have been quietly following. They stopped before arriving at a hotel, and they saw the man walking into the hotel with his half holding his wife. From time to time, they whispered something in her ear, tease her to twist the man's face ...... Seeing this moment with my own eyes, I feel the sky is broken, and the whole person's heart is broken. I feel that my life has come to an end. I immediately picked a sharp fruit knife from a nearby five-gold store and prepared to break it with them. At this moment, the mobile phone rang and the school teacher called me. She asked me why no one answered your son today? My son is still young. Who will take care of him if I have no parents? I am so angry that I can drive my car to my son's school. There was only one son in the classroom. He saw me come and rushed into my arms. On the way, my son stood up and said, Dad, how is your mouth bleeding? As I wiped my mouth's blood, my nose was sour and I knew that I didn't know when to break my lips. In the evening, after I settled down my son, I turned a bottle of white dried meat out of the cupboard and drank a cup of light. I wouldn't drink white wine, and my tears ran straight away, so I felt the sky was spinning around and feeling uncomfortable. I turned from my sofa to the ground and threw all my vomit on the ground, so I couldn't remember anything. When I woke up, I was already lying in bed, and all my clothes were changed. Again, we can see that the table is too late at two o'clock. When my wife came in, she poured me a cup of water and brought me a hangover to take it. I said, let's talk about it later. I saw her shake up, but immediately concealed a smile and said, "What do you want to talk about? Then I went to clean up the living room. Lying on the bed, I felt a burst of stomach cramps, and the silent tears rushed up again. My friends envy me a happy family, and my career is also a little achievement. But at this moment, I really want to break my life from the 18-storey roof. As a man shouldn't have lived like this. I want to show them a tragedy. For a period of time, I have been down all day, and my work efficiency is very low. Gradually my mind is clear, instead of living in pain, it is better to break down quickly. I usually handle a lot of divorce cases and have experience in this area. I decided to divorce, but it would never make them happy. I want to create a tragedy for them. I want to transfer all my family property and give her a base salary. After several days of careful consideration, a careful plan was formed in my mind. First, I called a friend who runs a company in a distance and told him that I had to do a business and temporarily transfer the money to another company, then we can pull it out and transfer it to a friend's account. After the specific solution is mature, I will start to take action. His wife is engaged in advertising business and does not know much about economics and law. After everything was ready, I told her that a classmate opened a company in the south, which is very beneficial, but lacks funds. I hope we can join the company together. She agreed without a long discount, and she gave me all the details with confidence. I tried to pay off our house and pay more for the loan. The shares accounted for 51%, which means we have mastered the initiative of the company. She said you should take the lead. When I completed my preliminary work, I felt empty and did not have any joy of victory. Looking at her carefree look, I really don't know how to face it when she learns the truth. In the days to come, I will report to her about the great development situation of the company after the shareholding, and I am fully prepared to withdraw the funds. I felt quite uncomfortable looking at her in the dark. As a matter of fact, she is a simple woman who never defended others. It may be because of this weakness that others can take advantage of her. I often think that there is no absolute limit between the disadvantages and advantages of a person. Sometimes, the advantages of a person are also the disadvantages of a person. Once the advantages evolve into disadvantages, they will be fatal. I couldn't help worrying about her for several times, but swallowed up again. Every night, I often wake up alone. Looking at her curled up, sleeping, I really can't bear to abandon her. There was a thought in my heart. Forget it. I didn't expose her. I gave her more consideration and care, and made her feel the warmth of her family. It was like a cloud. I want to give her the last chance, but she hurt my heart again. It was Valentine's Day. I bought flowers and a crystal necklace for dinner. I want to give her another chance. If she still cares about me, we can start over. In the afternoon, I took a vacation and went directly to pick her up. On the way, the burned-out phone rang, and the man said, "Today is Valentine's Day. You cannot be late ." The wife said, "Don't worry, my husband believes me so much. I will leave him alone for a reason ." Then she complained, "Yes, today is Valentine's Day, but my husband said no at all ." The man immediately persuaded him: "Don't get angry with your baby. When you meet me, I will fill in all the information he owes you. Let's get crazy at night ......" The anger in my heart burned up immediately. I parked my car on the side of the road and picked up the rose and dumped it to the ground. I bet on myself, I'll give her another chance. If she leaves with me, I'll give her a showdown. As long as she doesn't get in touch with him, I'll forgive her. If she refuses, I will break the gap with her. After arriving at her organization, I took a look at my mood. She saw me panic. When I said I was going to have dinner with her, she tried to say she couldn't leave at night. I asked her twice in a row: is there a problem? She said yes, but she never dared to look at me. I asked her if she had to go today? She nodded without hesitation. At that moment, I was so angry that I really wanted to turn around and give her a big-ear photon, but I still had to hold back. She came back late at midnight. When her head leaned toward me, I pushed her head away, and she immediately looked stunned, and then began to turn into tears in her eyes. To be honest, I have never said a word to her since I got married for seven years. This is the first time I treat her like this. Looking at her tears, my heart was soft again, and she was taken over slowly. After seeing the necklace I bought for her, my wife was so excited that I had to put it on her. She couldn't help but say, "Sorry, I really shouldn't have swept your interest ." I said, "It's okay, as long as you are happy ." So far, I must speed up and implement my plan. The next day, I went to the South alone. After several days of busy work, I finally completed my plan, but I was not happy. Walking along the river at night alone, overlooking the great rivers and waters under the night, my heart is full of sorrow and sorrow. The moment I showdown with her, she knows what's lost. In the next two days, my son's birthday is coming. I want to give my son a showdown after the birthday. At eight o'clock that night, when I got home, I found that both of them were not at home. I dialed her cell phone and shut down. I drove to school. The teacher said that he did not remember who took it. I immediately dialed her cell phone. No one answered it at first, and then I hit it again. Finally, she answered the phone, and a heavy blow came from the other end. She nervously said she was just busy and forgot to pick up her son. I hung up the phone angrily and went directly to the police station to report the case. Later, she kept calling me, but I never answered the phone. Later, I simply shut down the machine. With the help of the police, I found my son at the bus station. When I took my son back home, she was sitting on the couch in a daze. After our son was settled, we sat down in the living room. "You already know, right ?" She asked, I nodded. She sat there and looked at me with tears falling down. She said that he was only one of her clients and never had a deep relationship. After serving as the department director two years ago, she just caught up with the restructuring. The company pays dividends based on profits. As the supervisor, she has the responsibility to manage the Department better. In her most difficult time, he pulled some major customers to solve her urgent needs. She was very grateful to him, and she had frequent interactions. In the end, everything happened under his attack. She said she had to blame herself every day. She said, I knew it was wrong and promised it would never happen again. Could you forgive me. What should I say? I really want to cry. Doesn't she know my heart is bleeding every day? How can I use the word "Forgive" for her fatal injury to me? That night, we were separated. Lying on the sofa, I couldn't help thinking: She is actually a very virtuous woman, caring for me. Every day, she always cleans up her house and makes my favorite meals. Every morning, I always walk out of the house wearing her washed and ironed clothes; every night, she will whisper in my ear and gently wash away the fatigue of me ...... Who else will do this for me. I thought our love would be deserted. Who knows that we will perish in just seven years. The next morning, when I packed up and prepared to move to the unit, she cried with my leg and begged me not to leave her. The heartbreaking cry made me feel like a knife. However, I was forced to pull her apart. She held her tight and cried even more fiercely. After some tears, she saw that I had decided, and then she fell to the ground and cried, and I never left. The man came to me the next day when he moved to the company. I was furious when I saw him. He said, "I will give you 0.2 million. Don't leave her ......" I shouted, "What qualifications do you have to discuss with me !" When he picked up the stool, he gritted it on his head. He flashed it and hit him on his shoulder. Several of my colleagues rushed up to stop me, and he escaped. A few days later, my wife and I met at the divorce registry. She saw me at the door and begged me to give her another chance. I said, "I have already given you many chances, but have you ever cared ?" She was speechless, with tears surging and trembling. When it was her turn to sign the consent form, I saw her eyes red, two hands trembling, refused to write for a long time. Out of the Accreditation hall, she stopped me when I was about to leave. Cried and said, "After all, if our husband and wife have been playing for seven years, let me be your wife one day, because I really cannot accept this reality ......" What else can I say about this small requirement. At home, she made a table of my favorite meals. When she burned the last dish, she cut her hands and lost blood. I ran over, habitually stuffed it into my mouth to suck for her, and then found a Band-Aid to pack for her. She always looked at me and burst into tears. During her dinner, she drank a lot of wine and said a lot. She said: "before you got married, you promised to accompany me to visit the sea, accompany me to Tibet, and accompany me to hiking, but you never paid for one. Remember later, I promise a woman to do things as soon as she is busy. Don't disappoint her. Also, say out your love ......" Before that, I burst into tears on the desk. My tears can no longer stop. She does not drink at ordinary times. After a while, she gets drunk. I settled her in bed. After my son got it, I fell asleep on the living room sofa. I don't know when, my son cried and woke up. I immediately pushed open the bedroom door and saw sleeping pills on the ground spread across the ground. She was lying in bed motionless. I immediately picked her up and ran to the hospital. Her parents also rushed over. Before her wife's bed, her mother could not accept the heavy blow and immediately fainted to the ground. Her father, a 60-Year-Old cadre, suddenly fell down to me and said, forgive her for looking at our old faces. In the face of two kind old people, my tears burst. She is the only child. If her daughter leaves them, how can they survive? I love her so much, and she used to love me so much. When she joined me with resistance from her parents and relatives, I was just a poor wage earners. How can I watch the tragedy of their family. Even if they are separated, it will take some time for her to bear them. That afternoon, I transferred the money to the bank and paid the house back. After she was discharged from the hospital, her mind was subject to sequelae because she swallowed too many sleeping pills and often experienced temporary mental disorder. I was afraid that she would lose something and moved back from the Organization. Her parents did not feel at ease until they watched us get a new marriage certificate before leaving. On the surface, we combined, but seldom communicated. In front of her, I was always unhappy with a cold face all day. She also seldom talks and is always careful about what to do, for fear of making another mistake in front of me. Sometimes, when I see her, I feel very strange. I can't even believe that she was the old wife who gave me love. I tried to accept her again, but I couldn't do it all the time. In my mind, I always played back the scenes when she was in love, and then I saw her as uncomfortable as eating a fly. For this reason, I have also been looking for a psychiatrist, but I still cannot see the shadows in my heart. It may be that the deeper the love hurt, the more painful it is. We have erected a thick glass between us to see the presence of the other party, but we can no longer feel the temperature of the other party. Every night when I can't sleep, I always think of the details of my past mutual love. All of these are getting farther away. Sometimes I hate myself for being too indecisive to struggle in the marriage of death. But when I saw a child with her, crawling on her body and playing around, there was no replacement, but I couldn't afford the courage to break up with her. What should I do in the face of such a marriage?