Need to think twice before you speak?

This morning, colleagues in the group chatting and joking, I said a word, and then by another colleague hit a bit.
The thing is, leader the lead in the open Android Group a sister joke. They had a good chat. Hi, I just want to change the next oneself, as much as possible to speak, and then press the ENTER key said a word, "I looked, big cock not in the group AH." "Then the chief followed," It's not about the big cock thing. "I didn't take it seriously," I read.
But in a moment I received a message from another colleague, "How can you talk like that?" "Well, I sweat on the spot." It was hard to say a word and was hit at first.
Big stud used to be our iOS group boss, recently promoted to Product manager, then he left us. Our iOS group was combined with the Android group and was led by the previous Android team.
Big cock Girlfriend is the beautiful sister of the Android group.
What I said, I thought it was a joke. My colleague said, "Your sense of humor is so low, no wonder you annoy your sister." This group is the road total (our eldest brother) pull, how can have big stud? Big cock is no longer a move group. The road is always the boss. ”
I wanted to be upset, but then I thought, he said well. I say that, don't give way always feel uncomfortable. I was immediately anxious for my emotional quotient. Suddenly, it's too complicated to socialize with people. I wanted to be sexual, so that it would be easy and stress-free. But is the workplace easy to find? Be careful of what you say! If you are not careful, you may be scolded by others.
Think of a meal with a colleague friend. He gave me advice, "in front of the leadership do not behave too humble, you are always modest to say that you can not, in fact, they are in the face of their eyes to say that they are not good to recruit you in." ”
If it hadn't been for him to remind me, I would never have thought that there was a point.
I don't usually like to speak in front of someone I don't know very well. I usually just say a lot to the people I feel more like, say the truth.
Just as I grew older, I found fewer people who were able to speak the truth with ease and with no defenses. Even if the former is a good friend without words, many years later may become very unfamiliar.
Suddenly I thought of being born alone. Some people, start without words and not talk about the relationship is very good, but one day suddenly because of one thing and parted, even enemies. Don't you see Zhang between?
It's really a pity to think. Gold is easy to get, a confidant is hard to find, it does. Bo Teeth in the sub-period, Taoyuan three jieyi, how rare.
Today is a long knowledge, but I still hope to be able to speak without worrying about the environment to work, study, life.

Need to think twice before you speak?