Yesterday, I saw a report from the internet saying "my mother is too tired to help her with her homework." due to the short length, the full text is as follows:
Yesterday (September 4) was the first Friday since the start of school. Ms. Li, who lives in the jiajiao community on Jiang 'an, told her that she had been a "Gunner" for her daughter for a long time at a regular parent meeting. She hoped that the teacher would "reduce the burden" on her third day ", it immediately aroused great controversy.
Ms. Li's child, Fei, has been promoted to the third grade of the key junior high school. Before the first day and second day, Feifei wrote her homework every day until am late at night, and she became increasingly stuffy when she was very cheerful. Due to a lot of homework and insufficient sleep, Feifei lost more than 20 kg of weight last year, and his face became pale. In order to make her daughter cheerful, Ms. Li also bought a pet dog. However, my daughter has no time to play with a dog, but she hides in the room and holds the dog to talk when she is very tired.
"My daughter is strong enough to never go to bed without finishing her homework ." Ms. Li accidentally discovered that most homework questions were familiar and suspected of "repetition" and "sea battle of questions. After receiving a positive answer, she helped her daughter with her homework every night without her husband and Teacher. "Of course, I mainly do repetitive questions, or I can help you copy the questions to help the children save time ."
Yesterday, Ms. Li's practice was opposed by a vast majority of parents and teachers. They believed that the work done by parents is detrimental to integrity, and it is obviously harmful to children. Some people think that they can help their children write their homework more seriously.
After reading this report, I searched the internet using the keyword "parents do homework on behalf of students". I felt that this was not an individual phenomenon. I thought back to my elementary school two decades ago, there are also similar situations, which can be said to be a similar and long history. It is a sigh of relief! Of course, you can be honest and wise about this phenomenon, but there is basically the same thing, that is, this situation is a last resort. No parent is willing to do this. It is not their fault, but the embarrassment of the current education system.
The question of reducing the burden on students may have been raised when I went to primary school, but it has become increasingly serious today. This shows how difficult it is to reform the current education system! So before the education environment changes, can we find some ways to reduce the burden in some small environments? I suddenly think of the suggestions I gave to the class teacher when I was in the third grade of primary school and was later adopted by the teacher to see if they can help ease this problem? Two related diaries are recorded as follows:
Letter of suggestion sent to the instructor on April 9, July 22, 1990
Dear teacher Wang!
Recently, my dad asked me to summarize the lessons learned in the last few semesters. I suddenly came up with an idea during my thinking. Now I will write this idea to you.
In the past, the teacher assigned as many assignments to the class in Chinese classes. My idea is that you should arrange more homework for those who are not good at learning, and less homework for those who are good at learning. According to my experience, words and sentences in a new text can be copied and dictated four times, and hard to write five times is almost the same. The difference is that you do not recognize the truth when you do your homework. You can remember it if you do not do it several times. If you do not recognize it, you only need to do more. If students with good learning have less homework assignments and those with poor learning have more homework assignments, this will encourage students with good learning skills and be attractive to students with poor learning skills, they can help them finish their homework seriously, study hard, and improve their scores. They can also do less homework as well as their classmates. If the performance of the students who are studying well falls, they should do more homework as well as those who are not learning well. I think this method will be easier to motivate students to learn than other methods.
If students who have learned well do less Chinese homework, how can they save time? I think I should use it to do more mathematical homework. I realized that my scores in the previous mathematics exams were sometimes poor, and they had a lot to do with less homework. In the future, the content of mathematics will become deeper and deeper. I hope that the mathematics teacher can arrange more deep mathematical questions for us to practice, so that the mathematics scores in my class will continue to improve.
Teacher Wang, I don't know if my thoughts are correct. My father encouraged me to write them for your reference.
In this case
Salute!
Your student: Zhu chunlei
My suggestion was accepted in September 16, 1990
During the summer vacation, I wrote a letter to my teacher. I suggest that you do less homework for the next semester, I would like to give more attention to the students with poor learning, which is an encouragement to the students with good learning and attractive to the students with poor learning, so that they can finish their homework seriously.
After the start of this semester, the teacher adopted my suggestions. The teacher first checks the students' homework and uses a dictation test to divide the class into the first class and second class. The first class has fewer homework and the second class has more homework. I was also named first in the test.
I was very touched by my trust and encouragement when I adopted my suggestions. Although I have a small number of homework, I must finish my homework carefully to improve my academic performance. With the extra time, I need to practice more math questions and read more extracurricular books.