Recently, I have been wondering why the crazy college life in high school is far less than the true feelings of the present. It is determined by the weakness of human nature or the disadvantages in the Chinese education system, I still don't want to prove this. But as a junior, I am like a wise man who sees everything. I have too many thoughts and thoughts. I only analyze and demonstrate the inferiority of Contemporary College Students, hope to give the modern college students a little comfort.
On the university campus, all kinds of people exist. Various ideas will be gathered here, and various ideals will be shared here, and remarkable achievements will be made here, people of all kinds walked out of the school's "besieged city" and entered the imaginary society.
The inferiority of contemporary college students is omnipresent. These inferiority constraints the ideology of Contemporary College Students to a certain extent, I cannot say that these bad behaviors are harmful to student groups. Correct Understanding is king.
What do college students represent in society? Ability, wisdom, literacy, ideals, and vigor.
These are the first ideas of college students, which are almost common in rural areas. Why? China's rural areas still lack more people to go to college, but to get more "besieged city" career. Maybe you will be surprised why I always compare my college with the "Besieged City". First, the "Besieged City" is divided into marriage and love, and the second is jail. Why? Because they have some similarities, they can't stop if they want to get in or out.
What is a besieged city? The common point is that the people in the wall want to go out and the others want to come in. This is the besieged city. This is the epitome of contemporary university life. This may be too challenging, but I hope you can continue watching it. Modern University Students generally have this feeling. A piece of admission notice from high school students cannot be learned in college life, in some cases, I feel that the teacher is not as good as self-taught in class. I think there are definitely not a few. Why? Is it a problem with the school's education system? Or is the student's learning ability too strong? In fact, neither of the two is rooted in one of the bad nature of Contemporary College Students: overestimating oneself and forcing speculation.
Theory: You need to understand that "self-learning" cannot be referred to as "self-learning", but is a supplement to the teacher's after-school education. It is mentioned before self-learning, meaning that the premise is the teacher's teaching, no one is born to learn by themselves. Most people who feel that they have no goals in the university always have fantasies about their future. They always feel that they can fly to their branches and live in the Process of speculation and determination, when I graduated from college, I felt sorry. Everyone in the university has the same time, but why is the gap between going out so big is worth pondering. If you overestimate your abilities, you will lose your life. When we see the besieged city above, we will think of the old love that we described and the old marriage. In this long-lost society, college students' love has become fair, what's more, love is set as one of the required courses for university life. As the saying goes: Which young man is not passionate, and which girl is not pregnant, love can be discussed, but the motivation of Contemporary College Students' Love is worth pondering and thought-provoking.
What is love? I remember reading an article about Ji Xiaolan's answer to Qianlong's question: what is in the basket? Why are the items in the basket called "things" rather than "north and south? Fire in the south, water in the north, wood in the east, and gold in the west;
Fire is not melted, wood gold can be installed. According to this, love should be called "north and south ". Because: Love has water gentle, fire warm. In addition, if love fails, it will fall into "Hot Water ". This is true. The second reason is the inferiority of Contemporary College Students: Love is something.
Theory: what is love? Love is not something. The University has seen a lot of love and is often favored by others. They always leave in the eyes of everyone, often in the "bored and lonely" of the University, starting with a girl (boy), is love a game? Is love a weakness? I want to ask:
Love is a good-looking thing when shopping, will want to buy her, right?
When love is making a phone call, it will only take the last minute of the card to stop, right?
Love is a test, but bored thinking about her appearance, with her name, right?
Love is to get rid of all appointments, just to go to see her and talk to her, right?
Love is quietly listening. She said she was unhappy, but put her thoughts in my heart, right?
What is college love? I have read too much and thought too much. It can only be said that it is a pursuit. Love is a kind of beauty, the kind of beauty that people keep pursuing, different beautiful always swing in front of my eyes, let me feel helpless. The pursuit of each person is different. This is the same as that of every one of us. There are always various versions: Some people like romance, some people like lust, and some others like talents, some people like carcass. Each person is a different game.
I do not deny the truth of college love, but I also have doubts about the motives of love, because the loss of time will make more people eat their own evil. Be careful when you fall in love and pay attention to your own care, but do not reject others' love for you. In college, of course, it is not just about learning books, but also about interpersonal relationship learning and processing. My father once said that some things in the world are more useful than money, that is face. We may not be able to care about this. Black and red may have the deepest experience on this. Our interpersonal relationship processing on university campuses is far less complex than that in society, however, it can also be used as a kind of exercise before entering the society. It is necessary to interact with each other. Therefore, communication is a required course for universities, from this we can conclude that contemporary college students are inferior to each other.
Theory: this is not an alarmist, but it is also true. I have seen many people who have seen methods and forms of dealing with interpersonal relationships, it is true that sometimes it is too simple to think about communication, so there are usually only a few real friends. Such people suffer losses and have a good relationship with everyone, but there are only a few really friendly people, is particularly important.
Some college students have the following communication weaknesses: first, they are not sincere enough, but they do not give their hearts to others. Second, they are not free and easy, and their casual personality often brings comfort and security to others. This is indispensable; third, people who get along with each other are always at odds. Fourth, it is too cold and hot. It is difficult for people like this to understand your status. University communication is a deep approach, so it is too easy to think about. At this point, the misdemeanor of college students has been basically completed, and the theory has also been completed. There are not a few university fans, but they lack a unique vision and a great wisdom for people.
Perhaps this is the secret of the hearts of the people, maybe it's just a cliché?
Let's take a look at it.
Zhengping June noon |
