[Post] A girl can catch up if she wants to catch up.

A few days ago, my sister-in-law asked me why not only have two-digit girlfriends, but also have a high quality. I smiled and said, because when I was a child, the railway station said that I was doomed to commit peach blossom. Today is Singles' Day. I 'd like to share some experiences with you instead of sending QQ or mobile phone numbers to your friends. After all, it is better to teach fish to fish.

I emphasize that this article is purely entertaining. You are welcome to repost the recommendations, but it is free of complaints.
I emphasize that this article is purely entertaining. You are welcome to repost the recommendations, but it is free of complaints.
I emphasize that this article is purely entertaining. You are welcome to repost the recommendations, but it is free of complaints.

(All the objects called girls below are by default top quality girls with excellent quality. The top quality standards are difficult to adjust. Here, they only represent a recognized attitude. Do not sit down when you feel anything .)

(1) how to stand out among the many girls?

Answer this question first: Are you confident.
Although I have nothing to do with it, I have a small self-confidence, which I call shameless. In my age and life, this is enough for me to waste. So what you need is that a little self-confidence is the most fundamental. If you meet a girl of good quality, but you don't have the courage to ask her for contact information, you can watch others approaching her, finally, she even caught her (of course, the catch is negligible .) At this time, I think your regret will bring you a lot of regret. In fact, I want to talk about self-confidence. It is very simple. People have no one but me. People have advantages, while others have advantages .. It sounds like a human being .. The last article is suitable for everyone who really falls in love with whom, love is a foul, not an explanation. Only the first two points are discussed. To put it simply, you only need to achieve two points, and use two points to support two points.

(1) finding a distinctive positive point (USP)
This is very broad. You are a gender, you will wear clothes, you will cook, you are eloquent, you are humorous, you are handsome, you are tall, you are in good shape, you have a good job in bed, a good job, a good face on your side, a nice beard, a good dance, a hot girl, white and neat teeth, long fingers, your skin is white, your eyebrows are thick, you are too big, you are feminine, you are wearing a Bluetooth headset... In short, you only need to find a point. It is best to represent your traits, ideas, or even attitudes towards life, in short, the more broad and unique the things are, the more people can remember you. Therefore, the deeper things generally lead to a girl's curiosity and curiosity. For example, some girls like old men, this is the common USP for general uncles. do you understand this. Next, let's insert an example: for example, doubanid is called the supermarket. It depends on those big eyes, and the spirit is passed on. The big eyes and the eyelids are eye-catching. When you cry, the pears carry the rain, let the girl immediately stimulate the maternal glory of the heart, then it will fall.

(2) Carry Forward (for dissemination)
In USP theory, the claim must be strong and strong. It must focus on one point and focus on moving, moving, and attracting consumers. I am sorry to compare girls to consumers. But from the perspective of female's harmonious authority, this is a kind of spiritual comfort. You can consume us, that's interesting. Okay, let's get back to the topic. After you find your distinctive point, you have to focus on it. If you are knowledgeable, you will be able to refer to the classics. If you are handsome, you can cultivate your taste and make you look more stylish (in fact, you can take more selfies ); if your body is well coordinated and you like sports, you can buy this secret to earn a pair of milk from people thousands of miles away... Well, you found that I didn't talk about it because of the problem, because there is always a limitation in specialization from a perspective, because what is it, because we are all ordinary people. You can't play with eloquence, but host. You can play basketball but Ronaldo, so as ordinary people, we can gather some details to bring together our better points, in this way, the girls are impressed by a multi-dimensional three-dimensional shape, at least a Vector file rather than a flat jpg. The former must be more effective than the latter.

To sum up, I have no money when I return to the example, but I read a little more books than others. I read all the books in ancient and modern Chinese and foreign places. You can use two idioms to summarize all the books, is it really knowledgeable. Okay, my basic resume is a 7-Year-Old recited part of the RedHat dream segment and passed the Chinese examination for the third-grade primary school. The result is that the first-and second-grade students did not use the reading and skip the course directly, of course, the other reason is that my grandfather is the principal, and the principal is generally arrogant. When I was 10 years old, I had read all the fairy tales from Ann dongni and Anne, respectively, and turned my vision to the adult system. At the age of 11, I started to read the journal of harmony and harmony, the two results after reading these two articles are that my sexual harmony enlightenment and EQ enlightenment are smooth, and I almost don't need to read any thick and harmonious novels in the workplace, A harmonious VGVMTV and other things should be taken into consideration. After all, text files cannot solve problems that can be solved by avi files. What you know is that obscenity is always inferior to skin dating. Later, I found a suitable channel for dissemination based on reading a lot of books, that is, eloquence and text writing. At the same time, I deepened the research on clothing taste and the installation of technical stickers. Well, it's actually that simple. I will not report the situation and show off what not done by mature men. But after reading what I wrote, you will understand what you didn't say with a smile.

Some people ask why I have a skill but I don't like me or I can't catch girls, just like some people post why I listen to such awesome songs but no girls like me.
-- Why? Read down.

(2) If the first article is about how to make her notice you, the second point is how to make her interested and maintain this state, from paying attention to you to understanding you in depth.

For beautiful girls, they must be different from person to person, adapt to local conditions, and teach their children in accordance with their aptitude. In fact, only people who have access to many girls may feel this way. In fact, all the things that girls really want are similar. Of course, people tell me this word in a low-key way. I really don't want to talk deeply about this issue. After all, I 've been talking about the art of war for so long on TV. People, places, and materials are treated as topics because in the early stage of things development, appropriate guidance must be made to increase the controllability of things and to grasp the future development trend.

That is to say, you 'd better sing a song apart from a good song, because a nice song girl like it, but this bonus points finally fall on the singer, not you. Quickly finding common interests and talking about some approachable topics can eliminate mutual strangeness, because strangeness can lead to fear and crisis. I have always had a habit of thinking when a girl I just met says what constellation she is. Of course, constellation is only one of the topics. The more you are good at, the more space you can use, for example, if she says Taurus, I will say that I am a Capricorn or a virgin. If she says she is Aries, I will say that I am a shooter or a lion. This will often let the topic continue. If the girl's routines are quite different and she doesn't like the matching constellation but the EX constellation, she will quickly switch from the constellation to the star tray, find the matching items, and then guide her in the direction. You know, we don't know much about the trigger. The last sentence is for everyone. If you say something, you have to get it back. Do not create an image that is not sedated, poor, or poor. In this way, the score will be reduced. In this case, we should select a deep angle. For example, if we have accumulated a wealth of experience, many general uncles are taking this route. Of course, this does not force everyone to have their own strengths. However, if you cannot find any point that can be cut in, I can only advise you to leave the house and give the Lord amen.

In a word, it's just a bit sad with little resentment. It's just a little sad with little literature and art. It's just a little cool with little freshness, and it's also a woman with martial arts .. Just pat the shoulders as a buddy...

(3) If you want to gain an in-depth understanding of each other, you must inevitably enter each other... .

I have to admit that seeing the dead is a terrible thing. After all, many people who love beauty rely on PS to live, so the process from acquaintance to seeing each other sometimes becomes very long, if you are confused, you will naturally have troubles. In fact, from doubanqqmsn, everyone is happy to go to the real world, there is only one window, as you recall, the first time it was broken, it was full of tension and pain, that is to say, you need to do a good job of mental tension and pain results. Tension represents fear of unknown results, and pain represents results... Unsatisfactory. Of course, the worst plan is better than the confidence-filled fight, because many people are suffering from inferiority, and finally have to fight for depression or something .. It's not easy for everyone.

The following example is a direct transfer: I accidentally saw a girl's Douban homepage a while ago and found that she had a lot of photos, but the volume of images was small, which means she was not always on or very low-profile. From the speed of broadcast updates, recently, a large number of photos were often uploaded, so I left a message in a photo album that I thought was good. When I received a prompt to reply to the update, quickly browse her recommendation diary and other aspects, find her favorite topics and common interests in the shortest time, and then guide the message conversation, the next step is soybean oil. She asked for other contact information. This is a crucial step. If the operation is not good, you may even give up on your work. Soybean Oil has two purposes. 1 is to get a response, and the soybean oil that does not want to get a response is not good. 2. It must be sustainable. After two or three emails, no problem is explained, and people have to politely reply to you. At that time, I tried to invite her to drink instead of asking for an excuse to invite her to dinner, and inadvertently revealed that many of my friends who had dinner together were very happy. Naturally, we met each other and felt very happy. What happened later, you understand, we... I became a very good friend and were glad to have such an "accidental" acquaintance and "simple" acquaintance.

(4) how to deal with the following relationship

In fact, as the update frequency of new things increases, we are more and more capable of accepting various things. There are several relationships between people, men, and women. The relationship is actually an EQ problem. If you handle it well, you can ask eight of your EX to sing at KTV, if the problem is not handled properly, it is very likely that you will have to alienate all your good friends because of a love affair. However, as long as you like TA seriously when you are with a person, you can judge it as love regardless of the length of time. Because there are too many harmonious beds on the excuse of falling in love now. Often, the difference between love and one-night harmony is only time. If you talk about it for a week, it seems that you are playing. If you have been disconnected from your personal and harmonious partner for half a year, others will think that you are true love. So since some silly opinions are malformed, why do we care about what dummies think. In fact, I am bored in writing this things, and I am just bored with entertainment. If the most difficult thing to evaluate in the world is your love for men and women, the value of writing such a short paragraph is that in addition to a smile, I want to add acceleration to your liking.

In fact, the so-called relationship between us is very simple and clear. It takes only a few minutes to determine a relationship. The name of the mobile phone number book is changed to the name of the husband and wife. Dear, however, I think that the real relationship is the details of life. What is truly called "Mutual Action" is to face the joy and sorrow of rice, oil, and salt, disasters or diseases together, and the world is secure, all our emotions have no standards or standards to be tested, so they are so fragile.

True love is not possession, not solicitation, not stubborn persistence. If you love a flower, you can water it. If you like a flower, you can take it off, we should try to look at every person's things and every emotion with a more open-minded mind. The size of love is as big as the size of the mind. Note that the mind is full of words.

I admit that it is not entirely appropriate to use time to measure the nature of a relationship, but I also believe that time is qualified to test people and things. This is also a paradox, in fact, there are too many paradox in my life. I am always immersed in this little paradox, thinking and enjoying it. For example, is love and liking synonymous. I also admit that although I change my girlfriend one after another, I still feel very lonely, what you can see is that I am talking to women. What you can say is that you can easily communicate with each other and face the numbness or danger of losing your feelings. Those are not the realm worth showing off. It is the ups and downs of my journey, accept the last wrong choice and pay the price.

There must be reasonable, reasonable, and not necessarily exist. Things tested by time are always meaningful and valuable. The only value of past things is to remind us not to repeat the same mistakes, if my friends really feel that they have failed or are overwhelmed by the past, they will find them with me, whether or not there is such a thing or a person or even a person's sentence, let you instantly feel and Epiphany. Because self-growth is the only criterion for judging value. After many years, you will appreciate everything that happens to you and teach you how to grow up. For example, thank you very much for checking all the time and having you all the way. Just as my mom entered the words on Dad's boot screen: true love is able to withstand the plain New Year.