Process or end point-success story

Process or end point-the story of the buckleOnce upon a time, there was a young man waiting for a girl's appointment under a big tree. He waited and waited. He was very anxious. He thought: How nice it would be if life didn't have to wait !, Suddenly, there was a white beard under the tree and said to him: Young man, I will give you a button. When you are in a hurry, you only need to turn it around and immediately wait for the time you want. after that, it will disappear.
The young man was skeptical and tried to turn it around. The lovely girl immediately appeared. The young man was very happy and chatted for a moment. The young man thought how nice it would be if the girl would marry him immediately. when he turned his buttons and turned it into a candle in the cave room, the young man was so happy that he wanted to give birth to a fat son. I don't want to wait for the last ten months. the son has been stunned. happy for a while, the young man is impatient, the little guy is crying and peeing, the young man immediately turned him into a big child, or can't bear it, but also become a young man, in order to make the child stable, the young man married his daughter-in-law and gave birth to a grandson. then the grandson grew up again. another daughter-in-law...
The young man was not young at last. He looked at himself in the mirror and remembered the past. He came to the big tree with a pin and regretted the passing days and tears. he held the button and tried to break it. Suddenly he had an idea. If he turned it back and turned right, Would everything go back? He shook the button and turned it around, he woke up, he was still a young man, still under the big tree, the Moon was still hanging in the sky, he just had a nightmare. the young man was very happy. He began to wait for his lover very happily, no matter how long, no longer anxious, because he knew that this is a part of life and happiness.
I once told this story to a restless girl. After hearing the story, she calmed down. Then she thought about it and said, "I want to have a token like this. I smiled and asked: Do you want to turn left or turn right? Her eyes wide open: Of course, turn right! I smiled again. This girl just graduated from college and had an enviable job. Her boyfriend was a famous locally handsome guy who picked her up twice a day. The two parents had finalized the wedding period. No, this kid is late today!
Is it the best thing to lose?